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Quote by welsh_minx1
well Im not sure who it was, but I want the outfit and the gladiator backing dancers, actually the woman in the outfit would b nice as well
that was ukraine....
I thought that denmark might win... but sod all i know...
mind you... top 5 is respectable........
Sex God
ooooh... good question....
I think my entrance music would be either Voodoo Chile by jimi hendrixs..... or enter sandman by metalica
can I have an exit music as well... in which case I'll have unfinished symphony by massive attack.....
not that i have been thinking about this... nooooo... lol
I think my entrance music would be either Voodoo Chile by jimi hendrixs..... or enter sandman by metalica
can I have an exit music as well... in which case I'll have unfinished symphony by massive attack.....
not that i have been thinking about this... nooooo... lol
Sex God
Quote by blonde
It's Eurovision!!! on Saturday :bounce:
I am going to miss Terry doing his "thang" but I am sure Graham will be good.
What do you think of our entry?
Will you be cuddled up on the sofa watching the competition?
Can we win?
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Sam.... you are a eurovision slacker!!!!!!
:lol: :lol: the first eurovision semi-final was last night... and the 2nd semi-final is on thursday night and both are/was on BBC3.....
you have to be dedicated to the cause.....
I will have my abba wig out on saturday night, and there is a big eurovision party in town that I may go to...
Can we win..... can we eck!!!!! :lol:
if the uk doesn't finish last it will be a moral victory is the uk doesn't have any friends like the others......
Sex God
Quote by WarriorMonk
Their is something in Law called ''Fair Comment''and I have made these comments like anyone else is entitled to ,(free speech and all that).Suddenly the pack of Wolves descend and ravage me for what is Fair comment from many single guys on the site What I am saying is u e mail someone giving them your detais and they say gr8 like your profile,we chat for a few days, lets meet, date and time arranged on moble, hotel booked,and bang No show on the day, no sorry etc
or response.
I am just an ordinary guy,who is genuine,and who is a gentleman,respectful and considerate of others.
pack of wolves as you put it.... I am a single guy just like you and maybe the lesson learned out of this is that possibly you should learn to get to know people for longer that "2 weeks".... or since you have been here 3 years maybe the lesson is to go on gut instict more often
The people you see complaining tend to be the people who think it should be handed to them on a plate, a lot of people will tell them that they get out what they put in.... the site does gives you the tools to make it work however what you make of it is up to you and that is the most important thing
and yes, that is "fair comment" as well......... if you want to whinge and be negative, then you deserve the negativity back
you have been here for 3 years... you have had loads of advice.. maybe its about time you went back and did some reading of your own threads
Sex God
I hate it when people changed there name and still make the same complaints.. I feel like I have been deceived and if I had known I really would not have bothered!
So I went back thru all the posts and makes for some interesting back-reading....
I wouldn't mind so much but warriormonk/scorpio1950 makes the same complaint on average every couple of months with begs the next couple of questions...
Is he actually listening to any of the advice that people took the time to actually give.....or is it a case of "in one ear and out the other"?
As bioke actually said.. if the site is so bad, then why stay? cause to be honest the constant complaints aren't doing you any favours...
The broken record/oh woe is me act has worn really thin and I am actually really annoyed now... I was going to post up everytime you had asked the same thing and whinged, but just couldn't be arsed wasting that type of effort on someone who seems in 3 years to have not listened at all
for someone who has reached the half century i think it is almost rather immature of you......
if couples took the time to read what I have just done, to be honest I am not surprised at all they don't get back to you
I am betting you don't come back to this thread... and I am sure it will be locked now and I'll have my hands slapped... but I had to get it off my chest...
So I went back thru all the posts and makes for some interesting back-reading....
I wouldn't mind so much but warriormonk/scorpio1950 makes the same complaint on average every couple of months with begs the next couple of questions...
Is he actually listening to any of the advice that people took the time to actually give.....or is it a case of "in one ear and out the other"?
As bioke actually said.. if the site is so bad, then why stay? cause to be honest the constant complaints aren't doing you any favours...
The broken record/oh woe is me act has worn really thin and I am actually really annoyed now... I was going to post up everytime you had asked the same thing and whinged, but just couldn't be arsed wasting that type of effort on someone who seems in 3 years to have not listened at all
for someone who has reached the half century i think it is almost rather immature of you......
if couples took the time to read what I have just done, to be honest I am not surprised at all they don't get back to you
I am betting you don't come back to this thread... and I am sure it will be locked now and I'll have my hands slapped... but I had to get it off my chest...
Sex God
it comes down to labels and buzz words I hate.... attractive being one of them, "professional", like there is a big difference between a lawyer and a dustman for example in a playing situation..
exceptional single males.... I still have no idea what the bejesus it means, I suppose it sounds good but doesn't tell you anything.
for me "attractive" could mean a million different things to a million different people...so it says nothing
I tried having this conversation in the chatroom with a couple as to what there version of attractive was.... the answer I got was "well if you don't know if you are attractive then you are not!"
I wouldn't say I was gorgeous or stunning.. in fact quite the opposite, I suppose I have a redeeming feature or two and people like me (up to a point..
)
I don't think I am answering the question very well... would it put me off getting in touch, up to a point yes because I don't see myself as conventionally "attractive", maybe that is a self-confidence issue on my behalf I don't know...
exceptional single males.... I still have no idea what the bejesus it means, I suppose it sounds good but doesn't tell you anything.
for me "attractive" could mean a million different things to a million different people...so it says nothing
I tried having this conversation in the chatroom with a couple as to what there version of attractive was.... the answer I got was "well if you don't know if you are attractive then you are not!"
I wouldn't say I was gorgeous or stunning.. in fact quite the opposite, I suppose I have a redeeming feature or two and people like me (up to a point..
)I don't think I am answering the question very well... would it put me off getting in touch, up to a point yes because I don't see myself as conventionally "attractive", maybe that is a self-confidence issue on my behalf I don't know...
Sex God
Quote by WarriorMonk
Been on here every night for 2 weeks,chatted to many couples who have viewed my Profile,got on gr8 they are happy to meet> I give them my contact details then nothing.
This is a load of Bollocks
yeah, okay.... I have been thru almost 5 years of "bollocks" then.....
I won't tell you how long it took me to get my first meet because it was a lot longer than the whole 2 weeks you have been here... however i will say this..... lots of single men, not so many couples and even fewer single fems.
the upshot is that couples can be choosey.... that single fems can be choosey
If I was a couple/fem looking at meeting someone I'd do some research as well as maybe some back reading... and the whinge after whinge post isn't going to help.... heck, I'll go as far to say that it is probably turning one or two of the said people off...
I hate to be the bearer of bad news.... but swingers tend to be as choosey as everyone else, just because they may have a different attitude when it comes to sex, doesn't meant that they are any different to anyone else when it come to picking playmates.... and doesn't mean they will drop them for anyone....
To be honest... if that is your attitude, then you are not going to help yourself!
Sex God
is krispy Kreme reallys a fast food joint... lol
mind you if anyone is passing one (I think there are only 25 in the country... my closest one is leeds ffs!!!) and can deliver a box of chocolate iced cream filled donuts to me.... you can have everything in my will!!!!!
god you have just made me feel really hungry!!!!!!
mind you if anyone is passing one (I think there are only 25 in the country... my closest one is leeds ffs!!!) and can deliver a box of chocolate iced cream filled donuts to me.... you can have everything in my will!!!!!
god you have just made me feel really hungry!!!!!!
Sex God
Quote by Too Hot
Thought is may be interesting to see how the recession is affecting the group of people on this Site. This could be a straw poll of the entire country.
How is the recession affecting you overall?
POSITIVE - You still have a job, mortgage payments down, utilities down, deflation in shops, cheaper products.
NEGATIVE - You or your partner have lost their job, arrears, real cash flow problems, threat of job losses, general feel of doom and gloom.
NO DIFFERENT - You life is largely unaffected either way by the recession.
(Try to avoid the perceptions created by shock TV reports and just vote how it is actually affecting you day to day ignoring the TV and newspaper news)
with regards to your "positives" a couple of things...
1)mortgage payments are down..... some are down, remember a lot of banks haven't been passing on the mortgage rate decreases from 2.5% downwards... so only if you have a track mortgage have you got the full benefit....
and that doesn't even include those who don't own houses .. or those who rent ect ect...
2)utilities are down.... yes and no.... they were actually increased by more then the decreases, so there is no net benefit as such.....
3)deflation in shops.... myth.... see the post above
4) still have a job... is that really a positive???
seriously though I had for the best part of 18 months our jobs under threat, and to be honest it is something I would never wish on anyone else, thankfully now my job is a lot safer than it was, but to have to keep looking over your shoulder and wondering if you would have a job does affect your spending patterns...save just in case... not spend on "x" just in case, not go out as much just in case Sex God
Quote by Witchy
As for the deflation in shops- it's spin. In reality, food prices on (especially) basic items continue to rise.
you are correct, it is a myth......
just so you are there are two different measures for inflation in the uk...
RPI.... which includes everything was at -0.1%, which is the one the government work with for public pay rises, pension increases ect...
however the RPIX, which strips out the mortgage interest payments is running at 3%, which is basically "every day inflation" food, petrol, shops, ect.....
Sex God
it has been an interesting thread so far... and I think both sides are right up to a point...
yes mortgage rates have gone down... but only people owning benefit from that...
petrol prices are down yes.... but council tax has gone up....... food has gone up... i got a pay freeze this year.. and i am sure that more people are putting money to one side just in case......
Swinging clubs are business' to and the ones that are "dirty, seedy and uninspiring places to visit" don't tend to last long.. or word gets around very quickly...
I had this converation with our local club owners and they are accutely aware of it at the moment...
I do think it is a great conversation though...
yes mortgage rates have gone down... but only people owning benefit from that...
petrol prices are down yes.... but council tax has gone up....... food has gone up... i got a pay freeze this year.. and i am sure that more people are putting money to one side just in case......
Swinging clubs are business' to and the ones that are "dirty, seedy and uninspiring places to visit" don't tend to last long.. or word gets around very quickly...
I had this converation with our local club owners and they are accutely aware of it at the moment...
I do think it is a great conversation though...
Sex God
Quote by Mr-Powers
Younger men assume older women are easier,because they expect older women want younger men!
I am glad you said that... because I have been trying to think of a way of saying that for the last 48hrs without offending anyone....
sometimes I think they think there is too much "competition", for want of a better word, at there own age.. or lack of numbers where there does tend to be more if there look "older"
plus for some i am sure there some older woman/mummy complex thing... but not touching that one with a bargepole... :shock:
Sex God
Quote by Sexonfire
where do i say that i don't have preferences??
"age" is as much of a preferance and as important to some people as any other, you said it was "attractiveness" that mattered to you..whatever floats your boat, I just used your comparison in my arguement
so what have you found so far...
you say you don't take age into consideration..... as you have found some people do
you also said you do take looks into consideration... as you will find thats isn't high on some peoples lists...
each to there own... there is no right or wrong...
you ask a hundred different people and you'll get a hundred different views, heck I know people who are 20 going on 60.... I also know 40 years olds who act like they are 14, maturity isn't always aged-based
and I did say and pointed out that age can be a factor in some situations that I can fully understand
some people don't feel comfortable playing with people old enough to be there mum or dad,
some people don't feel comfortable playing with people young enough to be there sons or daughters
However everyone is entitled to make there own choices with regards to whom they play with... and if "age" is one of those high on peoples lists.. then so be it....
some peoples views may change over time, for some people it will simply be non-negoitiable
human nature
Sex God
Quote by Sexonfire
What limits do you have when regarding age?
I'm 25 and have found a lot of women and couples tell me I'm too young for them (even couples who are mid 30's)
I personally don't take age into that much consideration, if i find them attractive then thats all that matters, to me anyway!
What's everyone else's views on this?
so you do have preferences then...but you judge someone on how attactive they are rather than age, rather nice of you but it that not exactly the same thing? all you have done is just swopped "age" for "beauty"
swop age for tall/short/fat/thin/black/white/straight/gay ect ect ect it is human nature... if people feel comfortable or are attacted to certain types, then such is life, so be it.
with regards to age...
some people don't feel comfortable playing with people old enough to be there mum or dad,
some people don't feel comfortable playing with people young enough to be there sons or daughters......
thats just life.
sean
Sex God
Quote by kentswingers777
As a " non believer ", I think there should be no faith schools at all. That goes for any religion.
There are plenty of opportunities to practise your faith, away from a school enviroment.
Schools should be exactly that.....a school. Not a place to push religion and that belief. Of course all religions should be taught in schools, just not one chosen one.
I will not go into any particular religion but.....there are some that are hell bent on just promoting their own ways and beliefs. That does nothing at all for harmonious intigration.
Until people learn and accept intigration there will always be problems, and on that basis I think all faith schools should not exist.
I will wait for the knockers.
just 2 things....
1) that means as well as islamic and jewish schools going... that also means Catholic and Church of England schools as well.... that would only be fair.....
2)a lot of parents push their children towards "certain" schools..... so shouldn't a lot of the blame be placed at there door?
Sex God
lets look at some "evidence"
a) she has been in custody for since august according to the authorities in laos, which is 9 months....
b) she is apparently 5 months pregnant... according to the british consulate
so unless it is the 2nd coming of the "virgin birth"...that offical really needs a lesson in human biology 101
"something" must of happened... which is strange since they were claiming she was originally in an all woman jail....
:?
a) she has been in custody for since august according to the authorities in laos, which is 9 months....
b) she is apparently 5 months pregnant... according to the british consulate
so unless it is the 2nd coming of the "virgin birth"...that offical really needs a lesson in human biology 101
"something" must of happened... which is strange since they were claiming she was originally in an all woman jail....
:? Sex God
Quote by noladreams
Seems like the majority of folk are creatures of habit aren't they?
That actually does surprise me.
I don't think it does surprise me... at least ya know for the most part, you are going to enjoy what you are eating... hence same chinese take and same thing from it.
(see... different foods from different places, even though they are the same style resturant... I've it up a notch) I couldn't think of anything worse that experimenting after you have waited all that time for them to deliver it, only to find ya didn't like it! I'd feel really bad, then go back to something tried and trusted...
Sex God
Quote by noladreams
:bounce:
I won something! Feck me... what was going on in March?! Were the rest of you asleep or summat? :giggle:
I just went back to march to check... i had a shocker!!!!!!
:lol: :lol: I just thought it was nice to see that there have been different winners for each month....... except for me, good in the beginning... good at the end... crap in the middle... :lol: :lol:
I still have an outside chance of winning after blowing it last year....
Sex God
with just one month left.... i thought i would let people who won the manager of the month contests....
August - Lokomotiv Low Fell
September - Whitstan
October - Mighty Bumble Bee's
November - Norfolk N Chance
December - Two4more
January - Cork City
February - Bensons Bhoys
March - Mid-Table Obscurity
April - Lokomotiv Low Fell
good luck for may and the end of the season......
4 team within 50 points of each other can realistically still win it....
August - Lokomotiv Low Fell
September - Whitstan
October - Mighty Bumble Bee's
November - Norfolk N Chance
December - Two4more
January - Cork City
February - Bensons Bhoys
March - Mid-Table Obscurity
April - Lokomotiv Low Fell
good luck for may and the end of the season......
4 team within 50 points of each other can realistically still win it....
