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fabio
Over 90 days ago
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I do the same thing.....
for the chinese its aromatic duck... followed by beef/chicken chow mein.....
for the indian it is chicken/lamb kurma and a sweet naan bread...
I can't eat anything too spicy anymore.... (incident involving a chilli con carne when i was on a school exchange trip to germany.... :lol: you know when you see steam coming out of people ears in cartoons.. i think i did that..... burnt every taste bud i had!!!)
for the chinese its aromatic duck... followed by beef/chicken chow mein.....
for the indian it is chicken/lamb kurma and a sweet naan bread...
I can't eat anything too spicy anymore.... (incident involving a chilli con carne when i was on a school exchange trip to germany....
:lol: you know when you see steam coming out of people ears in cartoons.. i think i did that..... burnt every taste bud i had!!!) Sex God
Quote by wakeycouple2
we see loads that we like the look of - but because we prefer to meet local people (thats the reason why we put it on our profile), we dont mail them !
People put specific things on their profiles for a reason....so they dont get the opposite of what they are looking for.
Anyhow............the question wasnt about OUR profile it was merely an observation that nowadays there seems to be a hell of a lot with location "unknown" - but thanks for the comments (we did sorta figure the obvious in the first place)
in which case how local is "local".........
its all relative, and because we live on a small island in comparison to most I think our idea is sometimes skewed as well....
for example...... When I lived in new york, I use to take the shuttle to atlantic city, or to newark, or even to philadelphia a lot......it was to get there as it was to get to the tip of long island where the good beaches were....
for most people on the eastern seaboard that would be considered local...
distance between the cities... 95 miles.....
95 miles in the uk and a lot of people would freak.....
Sex God
Kenty is half right......... which is an improvment (only kidding)
There are 2 different versions of this plan
1) drivers would be able to turn in their car, which must be at least nine years old, and get a £2,000 discount on the purchase of any new or one-year-old car bought at a dealership in Britain.
The motorists would have to deliver their old vehicles to one of a number of car recycling plants and receive a confirmation certificate. They would present this to a car dealer and get the government-funded £2,000 discount. Motorists would be able to purchase any brand of car
i can see some of the logic in this, it stimulates the car industry, and it gets some of the older polluting cars off the road and replaces then with newer less polluting ones....
and actually it is a version of the scheme set up a few years ago by the german government... it have worked there really well, and they have just extended it up to 3000 euros........
so there we go... blame the germans!!!!
2) a £2000-£5000 pound trade in to buy a "plug in" electric or hybrid car.... but this is not going to start until 2011... they will eventually bring in public plug in points to encourage people to buy these types of vehicles........
just so you have all the information.... debate your hearts out.....
There are 2 different versions of this plan
1) drivers would be able to turn in their car, which must be at least nine years old, and get a £2,000 discount on the purchase of any new or one-year-old car bought at a dealership in Britain.
The motorists would have to deliver their old vehicles to one of a number of car recycling plants and receive a confirmation certificate. They would present this to a car dealer and get the government-funded £2,000 discount. Motorists would be able to purchase any brand of car
i can see some of the logic in this, it stimulates the car industry, and it gets some of the older polluting cars off the road and replaces then with newer less polluting ones....
and actually it is a version of the scheme set up a few years ago by the german government... it have worked there really well, and they have just extended it up to 3000 euros........
so there we go... blame the germans!!!!
2) a £2000-£5000 pound trade in to buy a "plug in" electric or hybrid car.... but this is not going to start until 2011... they will eventually bring in public plug in points to encourage people to buy these types of vehicles........
just so you have all the information.... debate your hearts out.....
Sex God
Quote by Sarah
Well if the newspapers have their way, those 2 confirmed cases, will be 20 cases by 9!!
you might not be that far off... it is 2 confired so far.... however the number that they have checked so far is actually 25....
14 have come back negative.... 9 still waiting on results and the 2 positives...
the worrying this about the 2 positives is they were though to have come back from a part of mexico not affected by the outbreak
Sex God
in which case take out the red friday bit... and leave the original spam e-mail in place......
if you want the know where the original "red friday" comes from..... in canada, people wear a red ribbon to support there troops and patriotism
bit different to what is now being attributed to in now!.. right wing media ect ect.....
I don't have a problem with the e-mail... i have a problem with the "hijack"... and until it is taken out then I will have a problem with the whole lot.....because of who changed it, and what they represent... sorry!!
and if folk lore... the story was actually suppose to come from this..
if you want the know where the original "red friday" comes from..... in canada, people wear a red ribbon to support there troops and patriotism
bit different to what is now being attributed to in now!.. right wing media ect ect.....
I don't have a problem with the e-mail... i have a problem with the "hijack"... and until it is taken out then I will have a problem with the whole lot.....because of who changed it, and what they represent... sorry!!
and if folk lore... the story was actually suppose to come from this..
Sex God
hate to say this.... but this is a spam e-mail that has been doing the rounds for the last 3 years.....
It has been changed from American to Canadian to Australian to British in all the versions I have seen...
and a bit more information about the last bit (red friday) that has been added to the original e-mail
The most Scary thing is that the BNP have been spaming that exact version that was posting here for the last 6 months or so..........
just so that you are aware of what you have posted playinglady... as I know you, I am sure you had no idea
sean
It has been changed from American to Canadian to Australian to British in all the versions I have seen...
and a bit more information about the last bit (red friday) that has been added to the original e-mail
The most Scary thing is that the BNP have been spaming that exact version that was posting here for the last 6 months or so..........
just so that you are aware of what you have posted playinglady... as I know you, I am sure you had no idea
sean
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okay..a common one but a goodie....
why does a "wet point" sign scream to people touch me!!!!
okay... they have been pointing the railings outside my house all week.... the wet paint signs went up... and people just can't help themselves and have a touch...
then when it is wet.. people still complain......
is it a sense of danger of something??????
why does a "wet point" sign scream to people touch me!!!!
okay... they have been pointing the railings outside my house all week.... the wet paint signs went up... and people just can't help themselves and have a touch...
then when it is wet.. people still complain......
is it a sense of danger of something??????
Sex God
Quote by deancannock
given it short while..and do feel there are to many..heres my list;
Cafe..includes introduction thread as a sticky
Soapbox...for political or non swinging controversial topics
Lets meet up....for include meets you want on holiday
Munch and social....for offical munches and socials being arranged
Dogging.... for all things dogging related
Chatroom... for all things chatroom related
hopefully above would not be to confuseing for everyone....and lead to us all posting more. Does seem a little quiet at moment, since the change.
the only think that ever needed being possibly considered for me was spliting lets meet up into two just like dean said.... but heck if we are going to hack the cafe as well then the above is the best suggestion for me so far....
ripped the heart out of the cafe as far as i am concerned and SH is worse for it....
Sex God
Quote by Melting_pot
having perved a fair ammount of profiles and taken a look at several of the ads, I can say that I have the same perception...
single black males seem to be very much sought after..as not everybody wants to meet a couple, but apparently just about everybody is looking for black males...(lucky buggers)
I have considered shoepolish..
it seems to work, in the movies. :giggle:
just to let ya know that is not true mate... trust me... and i personally wouldn play with someone if that is the only reason they are......
anyway back to the couple in question.....
I think that sometimes it is harder for couples to meet couples in the sense that there are 4 people that need to be pleased..... I am not going to gush about your profile as others have done that better than i could...
maybe the way you might like the think about it is that is it better to have few good meets than loads of meets where you don't feel fulfilled or feel satisfied......
go to clubs.... go to socials/munches... do what you feels is best for you to get what you want out of the site...
sean
Sex God
Quote by anais
I was chatting to my Sister earlier today and she was telling me about this package. Its basically to help boost the economy. I think Japan are following suit soon with same sort of thing.
My sister, hubbie and daughter all received $900 (about £400 I think) each. They can spend it on whatever they want.
Is it really helping the economy though??? Or will it just slow down the process of a recession? Will it give a false picture of what's really happening economically?
I'm hopeless at this sort of thing - but I was interested in the concept of it.
Would it work here? Do you think it would happen in the uk?
Axx
The Australian government has announced a A$42 billion (US $27 billion) stimulus package to help the economy avoid recession due to the global financial crisis. The package provides A$12.7 billion in cash payments to Australians and A$29 billion for construction and infrastructure spending. Following are details of the key items in the stimulus package:
TAX BONUS, CASH PAYMENTS: The stimulus provides for cash payments of $950 each to low and middle income workers, farmers, single income families, families with school children and to adults who return to study. More than 10.6 million Australians will receive at least one of the cash payments.
CONSTRUCTION AND INFRASTRUCTURE: Money to fund building projects at 7,500 schools, money to build 20,000 new houses for the poor, funding to provide insulation for all Australian homes and money for road projects and to build boom gates at railway crossings.
Australian Prime Minister Kevin Rudd said the Treasury estimated the plan would boost economic growth by 0.5 percentage points in 2008-09 and -1.0 points in 2009-10, supporting up to 90,000 jobs.
It is basically the same thing that the americans did with their 1st stimulas package.......for every person paying tax, they got back up to 1200 dollars and especially with interest rates as low as they are there is no real incentive to save it....
the part of the stimulas packages I do like are the plans are the major infrusture projects... as long as the companies getting these contracts are primarily british (I know they put the same proviso in the american package, and assume they have in the australian and japanese ones)
actually we may end up getting a version of this via the back door for a lot of people.... via the bank changes rulling when it comes thru,
if people are going to get money... and with some of the banks now being nationalised for want of a better word.. the incentive is not going to be to really fight it..... and it will give people money they didn't have, a la the stimulas
Brown could have gone down this route..... but chose the cutting VAT route instead, basically a slow drip over time rather than the one big shot into the arm approach, I think he got it wrong......... but we will see what they have planned for the budget next week.....
Sex God
my name is fabio... of just fabs..... the longer I've been here the shorter its gotten... saves on writers cramp
I have done my 5 years in june ... think I might be up for Parole then (Honestly it was a crime I didn't commit...) at the moment I am a care in the community weekend case....
anyway, first 2 years I was strictly forum.. because... well the chatrooms scared me shitless.... now... I am a server 1 person, can be found in NE, NW, Yorks, Scots and the BBW room..... not because I am any sort of tart (no sniggering at the back... thank you) but because I am a lovely friendly type of guy (again no sniggering at the back)
I have done my 5 years in june ... think I might be up for Parole then (Honestly it was a crime I didn't commit...) at the moment I am a care in the community weekend case....
anyway, first 2 years I was strictly forum.. because... well the chatrooms scared me shitless.... now... I am a server 1 person, can be found in NE, NW, Yorks, Scots and the BBW room..... not because I am any sort of tart (no sniggering at the back... thank you) but because I am a lovely friendly type of guy (again no sniggering at the back)
Sex God
Quote by dorkandwindy
to be honest the arrogant twat aint worth a reply
this is not just a straight guy hang up as the lady here dont wanna be suckin on a cock thats been up an arsehole thats all i gotta say
is that a mans bum or a womans bum??
and how would one know for sure??one wouldnt
but if peeps told the truth it might help thats all the post meant
I took out the last bit for the purposes of what I am about to ask....
So in effect is there a difference between anal sex between 2 men, and anal sex between a man and a woman????
I take it that you are asking all the people couples and singles if they have had anal then?
just really curious now.....
Sex God
Quote by kentswingers777
Btw.....I feel for the family of the guy who did have a heart attack, and the guy himself.
however the problem is.... he apparently didn't die of a heart attack
2nd post-mortum shows that he died of internal bleeding..
if they are going to suggest, which they may, that strike lead to the starting of the bleeding, then it now becomes manslaughter......
it now makes that footage look very differently
Sex God
Quote by Vellvell
I am starting this topic from a different angle to another topic called uninvited whispers
Continuously whispering when not invited is plain bad and ignorant and there is no place for them in chatrooms. Also whispering in a room that states no whispering is also not on.
But they are there for a reason - a person wants to say something without the others in the room reading it.
Before I whisper I read that persons profile
If the profile says that they don't want whispers - I don't.
If the profile dosn't - then I always ask myself
1. do I ask that person if I can whisper and send the message to everyone
or 2. do I whisper the words "please can I whisper?"
I prefer the second because if I did the first way I might look a perve (we all are). Alot of us are shy and don't want others to know we want to whisper. However if I get a whisper or a message in open chat saying no or no reply - I don't continue.
There should be nothing wrong with ONE uninvited whisper.
Let me know what you think especially from those who try to responsibly whisper
With the greatest of respect I disagree with you....
1) if you go into a room that for example says "no whispers before asking first" then are you not in effect disregarding the room owners wishes? the person who took the time to set up the rules before you went in......
2) If you can tell me what the problem is with asking "x, can I please whisper you?" in public rather than in private, then sorry I'm not quite seeing it......
for me it is a common curtosy issueif I got whispers (1 from each person in the room) on a regular basis... because people are going out and coming back in, I can imagine how annoying it gets
Sex God
Quote by Cherrytree
It is certainly early days, and many changes have been accepted in the past which were initially met with concern - however - I feel it has resulted in the forum being too fragmented.
I feel we have lost the sense of cohesion we had when there were just 4 forums, and I am quite confused about where new threads should go.
I don't feel comfortable flicking between all the different forums, it makes me feel a bit nauseous, tbh.
It does feel a little bit like divide and conquer... and it does feel like the heart is being ripped out of the cafe.....
having gone thru them... I think you have overdone it on the amount of forums.... some of them blantantly overlap....
If regular forum users are having trouble working out where things go, then what are new people going to do... I think you have created more work for the mods (who i really don't envy at the momnet)
actually the interesting thing I found is that where you sent out a questionaire with regards to the layouts and changes with the chatroom..... we weren't afforded the same curtosy with regards to the forum...
Sex God
Thought you'd never hear her name mentioned on a swingers website...
I have no Idea if this is now in the right place... so if it isn't then please move it....
okay... I think I must be one of the last people to see the proformance of susan boyle on "britain's got talent" (Dr Who was on the other side and i needed my fix of that)
It was my american cousins who persuaded me to see it
if you haven't seen it then I fully encourage you to....
anyway the point or question I want to bring up is are we as a society now this judgemental in all forms? are we losing out on so much talent in general (just for example, workwise) because people have made there minds up in the 1st 30 seconds?
that everybody had made there minds up about people before she even started to sing was sad to see... to see she was being mocked for even daring to go on the stage was worse......
I think that britain got embarrassed on saturday night, and I am loving the fact that this has now sparked general conversating about the way people see others, and I hope that even for a little while if it has improved the situation, then her singing will be worth it......
I have no Idea if this is now in the right place... so if it isn't then please move it....
okay... I think I must be one of the last people to see the proformance of susan boyle on "britain's got talent" (Dr Who was on the other side and i needed my fix of that)
It was my american cousins who persuaded me to see it
if you haven't seen it then I fully encourage you to....
anyway the point or question I want to bring up is are we as a society now this judgemental in all forms? are we losing out on so much talent in general (just for example, workwise) because people have made there minds up in the 1st 30 seconds?
that everybody had made there minds up about people before she even started to sing was sad to see... to see she was being mocked for even daring to go on the stage was worse......
I think that britain got embarrassed on saturday night, and I am loving the fact that this has now sparked general conversating about the way people see others, and I hope that even for a little while if it has improved the situation, then her singing will be worth it......
Sex God
wish I had seen this earlier.....
there only suggestion I would have made would be to possibly split lets meet up into two....
one for munches and socials.......... one for private meets and parties.....
but other than that... just trying to work out where to put posts at the mo.... :lol: :lol:
there only suggestion I would have made would be to possibly split lets meet up into two....
one for munches and socials.......... one for private meets and parties.....
but other than that... just trying to work out where to put posts at the mo.... :lol: :lol:
Sex God
Quote by Browneyes71
People not showing up is the plague of Internet meeting sites. Believe me, I have arranged meetings -- and travelled a long way to get to them -- only to be met with no-shows. However, if we arrange something in London, at least we'll show up, won't we?
the problem is that traditional people have tried to set up meets and socials for london, but they have ended up being really poorly supported....
the one that sticks with me is the 95 confirmations that a person got for a london munch... only for 29 people to actually turn up on the night... leaving the organisor out of pocket.....
hopefully that will change, it doesn't tend to happen at northern events at all.......
give it a go organising an event and hopefully it will take off.....
Sex God
Oi... stop fighting over my words.... :lol:
what I meant it that the stereotype of the "handsome and/or muscular" men being the only ones successful in the scene is just that... and some of us "other" have had success in other ways...
I wouldn't call myself good looking in any way shape or form, however I take a different approach, and it works for me and that is what I was pointing out... rather than the showy "look at me" attitutde some have....
anyway.... I think part of what we have said has sunk in... the one line and a cock shot ads that the OP had have disappeared... so if it helped just a little then it has done it's job...
:lol: what I meant it that the stereotype of the "handsome and/or muscular" men being the only ones successful in the scene is just that... and some of us "other" have had success in other ways...
I wouldn't call myself good looking in any way shape or form, however I take a different approach, and it works for me and that is what I was pointing out... rather than the showy "look at me" attitutde some have....
anyway.... I think part of what we have said has sunk in... the one line and a cock shot ads that the OP had have disappeared... so if it helped just a little then it has done it's job...
Sex God
when I see these types of posts the first thing that runs thru my head is "please don't let the person doing it have ads that are one line long and have a cock shot"
why.... because those are 10 to a penny.......
I say what I am about to say and deecee has touched on it........
you get out what you put in......
Do you ever go to clubs.....
Do you go to any of the socials on the site...or even put your name down
Have you ever used the forums to get to know people....
Have you ever stepped inside the chatrooms....
the site is there to help you help yourself... it is more than just the ads.... if you don't use the site to sell yourself properly to other people then people can only help you so much......
get out there and sell yourself..... get yourselves known to people... imagine SH to be like a pub, would you expect people to be all chummy with you on your first time in? like others have said.. it does take time and it does take perserverence...
for example.. in your profile it says nothing about the person you are or the people that you are after rather than the basics....if you are only going to use one line, then I'm sorry but that smacks like a lack of effort.....
so what type of couple/single fem are you after... older/younger? tall/short? thin/fat? those are just examples.... remember you are trying to appeal to people.....
SH hasn't started charging by the word, so start using them....... tell people why you are different from the others? give people a reason to say "yes, I have to meet that person"
the successful guys in the scene are not all 6ft muscle bound big dicked behemoths..... they are the guys who go the the socials, who go to the chatrooms, who go on the forums, who can have conversations with people, who made the time to get themselves known........
the true test is this.... go back, read your own ad... now if you were a couple/single fem... and you were looking at it...and knowing there were 000's of people out there to choose from.... would you answer your own ad?
honestly.... would you?
why.... because those are 10 to a penny.......
I say what I am about to say and deecee has touched on it........
you get out what you put in......
Do you ever go to clubs.....
Do you go to any of the socials on the site...or even put your name down
Have you ever used the forums to get to know people....
Have you ever stepped inside the chatrooms....
the site is there to help you help yourself... it is more than just the ads.... if you don't use the site to sell yourself properly to other people then people can only help you so much......
get out there and sell yourself..... get yourselves known to people... imagine SH to be like a pub, would you expect people to be all chummy with you on your first time in? like others have said.. it does take time and it does take perserverence...
for example.. in your profile it says nothing about the person you are or the people that you are after rather than the basics....if you are only going to use one line, then I'm sorry but that smacks like a lack of effort.....
so what type of couple/single fem are you after... older/younger? tall/short? thin/fat? those are just examples.... remember you are trying to appeal to people.....
SH hasn't started charging by the word, so start using them....... tell people why you are different from the others? give people a reason to say "yes, I have to meet that person"
the successful guys in the scene are not all 6ft muscle bound big dicked behemoths..... they are the guys who go the the socials, who go to the chatrooms, who go on the forums, who can have conversations with people, who made the time to get themselves known........
the true test is this.... go back, read your own ad... now if you were a couple/single fem... and you were looking at it...and knowing there were 000's of people out there to choose from.... would you answer your own ad?
honestly.... would you?
