Hey Moist friend...
peeps are all different... I lived alone in a remote crofters cottage in Caitness for almost five years.... cos I was a single male in my late 20s, it was assumed by the local , both the kids and the adults that I was either gay, or some sort of pervert. most peeps up there seem to be married off by early 20s or there is somethng wrong, but I just knew that I had not found the right person.
Sometimes I tended to dwell on the situation a lot and wonder if the right person was out there...... but right people tend to fall over each other rather than be found by those seeking them... I certainly did not expect to find my right person after I had come back from a funeral of three firends killed in a tragic RTA, but I did, and recognition did not take long....
don't get me wrong ...sometimes I think are we still right... but that is where commitment through the bad times as well as the good times comes in..
When I was Single and living alone I used to write to loads of peeps , both male and female... this was before email and internet remember,
sometimes I woud be writing dozens of letter per week, they were good times, but what saddened me was the facxt that as soon as peeps got married they allowed the friendship/correspondence lapse
Why is it that peeps cannot be friends as males and females without there having to be something physical....it really does bug me.... why if I, as a partnered bloke, become mates with a female ( be she partnered or not) do some peeps frown upon the relationship, can we not be mates without the need to get into each others underwhere?GGGGRRRRRRR
Moist
may you find that for which you search.... may you realise what you are looking for.... and may that person be walking along the road frome Essex to Herts, admiring your car and then be bowled over by your good self....
Be who you are, do not sway with the breeze and certainly do not be bullied by those that would change you....
Enjoy friends ( in which ever way you and they are comfortable to enjoy yourselves)
and when you find friends stick to them like glue ... value them, but if they do not value you allow them to drift away as they surely will, dust off you shoes and start again.... certainly my mates now are very diff from 20 odd years ago, but some very close friends are still around.... even if we do not see each other often.... true friendships are those where a break of years seems as yesterday.... Mosit may you gain and devleop such friendships...
hugz
Gmanxxxxxx :wink:

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