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lyns
3 weeks ago
Bi-curious Female, 44
Bi-curious Male, 48
0 miles · Bristol

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I failed my test 3 times and passed on my 4th go. I was so down hearted failing all the time that nearly gave up! :cry: Im glad I didn`t as I would be lost without my car now lol. The same examiner failed me twice and each time I failed it was silly mistakes, which looking back were probably caused by nerves!.
By the time I took my test the 4th time I was 6 months pregnant and was determined I would passed before the baby came.
My examiner was lovely and made me feel really relaxed and I think it made a difference because I passed with flying colours!!.
Don`t give up, good luck!
Quote by Samndave
no idea thats why i asked lol x

Sorry worded it wrong I wasn`t asking a question was trying to figure out which numbers you are refering to lol
Does it refer to the number of people logged into the forums dunno
Quote by Cherrytree
Should I be looked down upon?
My partner said he no longer found me attractive, and did not want to be physical with me. But, he said, as long as I don't let him find out about it, I can do what I want with other people.
I adore him and he is my rock. I never want to leave him. But I can't live without affection.
Should I be looked down upon?
Maybe. I've done it to myself many, many times.

I wrote in an earlier post that "if you really treasured a relationship then you wouldn`t cheat" and to be honest i`ve never really thought in depth as to why a person may seek sex elsewhere from their marrige/partnership. After reading cherrytrees post as to why she looks elsewhere which I have the upmost respect for her honesty kiss, I have to say that even though I would not seek it out I can now see why other people may.
Quote by Cherrytree
Should I be looked down upon?
My partner said he no longer found me attractive, and did not want to be physical with me. But, he said, as long as I don't let him find out about it, I can do what I want with other people.
I adore him and he is my rock. I never want to leave him. But I can't live without affection.
Should I be looked down upon?
Maybe. I've done it to myself many, many times.

I may be reading this wrong, I read this as he he giving you permission in a round about way which is different than having an afair!. Finding it difficult to say what I mean I hope this makes sense!!.
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when you open the new page highlight and right click the page top or subject box wat ever it is you call it it will start http://.....
select copy then you can paste into your post if you wanna get real clever you can do this the first post you ever wrote

How do you write what you want the link to say?
Quote by blonde
If the kids aren't up by 7am......... I will wander round the house and slam a few doors! :giggle:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Thats my plan too :giggle:.
Hi fire, dates depending I would like to put our names down for an invite! kiss
This was the first thread I ever posted in
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/161152.html
Quote by Serendipity
Not really. If you are positively looking for this category in a search how would you distinguish couples from marrieds who are playing away?

If you actively want that, you can do a search for couples and/or males and/or females - so it's fairly easy to distinguish between couples and individuals. It's then up to those who are married and looking for a bit on the side to state that they're married. Some are up front about this, some try to skirt around it, some just lie - I'm not sure an entirely separate category would make any difference to that!
This was what I was trying to say except serendipity put it much better lol
Quote by jameswanna
It seems a little strange when other sites make a very good living out of catering for the people who may be in a relationship they treasure but for one reason or another decide to play away. This site doesn't do that.
Personally if you really treasured your realationship you wouldn`t play behind your partners back. My personal opinion.
On here, these people are almost looked down on.... Why?
Again my personal opinion. I am on this site to seek out people similar to my partner and I. I am certainly not here to be possibly involved in a relationship break up. Im sure there are those who are seeking nsa with another person who is in a relationship but to be honest I would guess most want nsa fun with people who are being honest with their partners.
I think SH is missing a trick. There are alot of men and women on here who would declare their situations and positively seek each other out if SH added these as seperate categories.
There is already a section for you to put your status and some info about you on your profile. I would think that would be enough.
Come on SH......... smell the coffee...... recognise the opportunity currently being missed.
James

I think I fully understand what you are getting but as to whether sh would think it would be a good idea I don`t know. Personal opinion I dont think I would be.
But surely if they tick married and then put in their profile text that they are playing away from home that should be enough dunno
Not 100% sure what you mean.
I can only speak for myself but personally I wouldn`t play with someone who I knew was playing away.
Im going to watch my little one be a shepperd in her very first school navtivity play tomorrow afternoon so by tomorrow evening I will be feeling very christmassy indeed! lol
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Oh wow! I made a couple of snowflakes then searched for "Marya" and found one I'd made back in 2004! lol

I spotted your snowflake!! very creative lol
We will no doubt be getting up very early on xmas morning! to a very excited 4 year old wanting to see if santa has been! :bounce:.
We`ll come down stairs and eat the bacon off the turkey :lickface: .
Then get stuck into the pressies, before going off to visit a few family members.
Mr Lyns will then cook us an over indulgent xmas dinner with all the trimmings :lickface:.
We will prob then be putting toys together before going to friends for a few drinkies :cheers: in the evening.
So all in all just a quiet(ish) family xmas lol
Quote by liketoo
Hi everyone, i kmow it's short notice but wondering if any body would like a day time meet tomorrow, it's going to be cold and wet so wot better than a coffee and maybe even a bacon sandwich. Now getting back on to topic, does anybody know of the dogging sites / places near the two briges that cross the severn, if any of you nice people do could you be so greatfull as to let me know.
Thankyou
Mart

Been there a few times but it is generally quite quiet. Its good for pre arranged meets tho.
Well im sure that I haven`t been a good enough girl for santa to bring me a laptop this year for crimbo :cry: so it looks like I will still have to make do with my pc! lol
Sending all you sexy peeps some passionkiss hump and wishing you all a very merry christmas and a very prosperous(sp) new year :cheers:. kiss
Quote by H-x
I think the only thing you can do is try a few different sizes on and see which one fits best. The band is supposed to be straight, ie parallel to the floor, not lifted at the back, the straps should have no more than an inch give in the and the bit in the cleavage should fit against your rib cage. A lot depends on the manufacturer, you can try 10 different bras on, all the same size, theoretically and only one will fit properly. I think they use the same amount of leaway as they do in dress sizes which differ enormously from shop to shop.
H.x

:thumbup: this is the only way I have ever found a bra to fit!
Mrs B you really are a gem! You have me chuckling in to me pork chops! lol
ohhh this yeah I have:-
Had a baby :smug:
Seen the eldest off to school for the very first time.
Enjoyed a good ol caravan holiday with the kids and friends lol
Had some very horny meets passionkiss hump 69position
Partially organised a wedding!.
Gone back to work! :cry:
Got a little more comfortatble in my own skin.
All in all not much really!. Bigger plans for 2008!
I really feel for you kiss. I suffer with migranes and have been having them for while now, it always starts with my vision going blury and my eyes "feel" funny confused . I am generally able to catch it in time and take something for it, if I don`t tho I know I will be in agony on one side of my face with stabbing pains behind my eye! and will need to sleep in a really dark room to try and rid myself ofit.
Go to your doctors and see what they say any pain the the head which is lasting up to 3 days at a time needs to be checked out by a doc. Good luck.
Quote by Woodnights
how hard is it to meet people on here. not even meet people, even a reply to my messages would be a start. what are singles looking for on here... i have pictures, i leave a nice description, i leave messages, im genuine, im attractive.... any advice would be apreciated.... what am i doing wrong..

So you joined yesterday and messaged people yesterday? rolleyes, god give people a chance to eat sleep, breathe etc lol. If they are interested they will reply if they arn`t they may reply with a polite thanks but no thanks or they might not.
Don`t take it to heart, be patient and relax, find your way to the chatrooms, chat to people, post in the forums and remember you are just a little fish in amoungst all the other little fishes that make up this site.