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onlyme1981
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 45
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onlyme1981
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Hello,
Personally I find a white man more attractive than say a black man generally. That's not to say I'd never go with an asian, black etc but I personally just prefer white men.
I don't see anything wrong in two people being together from different cultural backgrounds..... if anyone thinks that, then that is narrow mindedness.
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onlyme1981
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Hehehehe..... I like that!
Don't think I'd ever have the guts to do that but it's very funny!
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onlyme1981
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Big Brother? I'm so hooked on it...... never thought i would be!
Anyway, back to the main question: I've had er .... 5 partners (3 of whom have been recently redface )
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onlyme1981
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I'm bored too...... have slight insomnia and can't find anything decent to do on the net!
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onlyme1981
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Hello wave
I'd just like to say thank you for the advice..... it is much appreciated.
I know I'm not going to get really confident overnight but you lot have helped me see that not all men like stick thin women!
I'd also like to say how friendly you all are..... a lovely bunch of people smile
Thanks again.
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onlyme1981
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Hello,
I think the reason I'm up for having sex with strangers is because I was in a long term relationship that didn't work out so now I'm now single I want to have different experiences...... put a bit of fun into my life!
I've now realised that single life isn't too bad at all!
But I am still quite new to all this so until it gets boring (hope it never does though) then I'm going to carry on!
Not sure if that answers the question but it's my view anyway.
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onlyme1981
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Oh and sorry if this isn't the right place to ask advice of this nature..... wasn't really sure!
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onlyme1981
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Hello,
I'm still quite new to all of this so I need a little bit of help.
Ok my problem is this..... I'm a size 18 and have always really worried about it. I don't worry about it so much anymore as I'm told I'm attractive but I'm supposed to be meeting someone and I'm not sure how to go about it.
We've been chatting via email and IM for a while and when I'm on the net I feel really confident etc but I don't know how I'm going to be when we meet.
I've already told him I'm quite shy in real life. I don't want to back out but how do you go about these things? I love sex and really enjoy it while doing it but it's getting going that I have the problem with. I'm not into revealing my body too much as I don't like being looked at...... maybe this sort of thing isn't for me after all! Like I said, I'm ok with my nakedness once at it (as such) its just the beginning i'm worried about.
Is there any advice anyone can offer me? Sorry for the long post!
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onlyme1981
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Quote by Mister_Discreet
I'm intruiged by this. Are the 10 worth replying to the only ones that met your criteria, or were there many that matched but you just didn't like the look of?
I'm starting to worry that unless I have the wit of Shakespeare, the body of a greek god and am so well endowed that I can hire myself out as a camera stand, I'm never going to be the 1 in 70 that gets a reply.
I've tried writing replies to some 'women for men' adverts (only when I meet the criteia, of course) but it's very hard to write something that doesn't come across as a 'standard' type of reply - after all, it's pretty much going to be along the lines of "hi, I like the sound of your ad, I fit your criteria, write back if you like the pic I'm attaching' in every case.
I guess what I'm really asking is - does anyone have any tips for writing 'good' replies?

Ok.... my personal opinion is that a one line reply is not exactly enthralling and doesn't warrant a proper reply from me. For example, a real one this: "Cum Fuck me............" - That one gets deleted straight away without a reply saying "thanks but no thanks"!
The ones I do like the sound of however, happen to have a few facts about the person and a hint in there that they have actually read my ad (believe me, a lot of them obviously haven't!). I'm more likely to reply properly to this type of email.
There are no set do's and dont's but just use your brain...... even if it is just sex you're after be nice about it and don't treat the other person like a moron.
Even if the person who has replied doesn't meet all my criteria I have been known to give them a chance because their email was worth replying to.
Something Jordan said recently: "When I'm with a guy, I might be a slag with the sexual things I do, but I'm not a slag" - Some men should remember this when replying!
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onlyme1981
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I share a room with my sister (long long story) so I think I'd prefer silence and a pitch black room! :sleeping:
She snores and it sends me barmy.... I've taken to throwing things at her while she's asleep :twisted: .... that stops it for all of 2 minutes! rolleyes
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onlyme1981
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I've placed an ad looking for men - I've had near on 700 replies and only about 10 of them were worth replying to. Most of them assume they can try their luck even though they don't fit the criteria (I'm not that picky though!).
I do reply to all of them out of politeness but sometimes I wonder why I bother! mad
The best thing I have found is to place an ad for a few days...... then take it off while reading through the replies. If there is nothing you fancy (!) then place another ad.
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onlyme1981
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I much prefer giving.... I'm not into receiving - am i abnormal? Maybe because I've only had it done once and it was truly awful so it has probably put me off for life!
I also have a thing about not swallowing, not matter how many times I try I just can't do it! Is it an aquired taste? Do you get used to it? I'd love to be able to do it so any help would be appreciated!
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onlyme1981
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Hello,
Thanks for those of you with the advice....... I've now typed up some general replies and have used them!
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onlyme1981
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Hello.... I've actually met the lovely Gordon.... He is a pussy cat really.... though he does swear a lot! rolleyes
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onlyme1981
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Hiya, I'm new to all this.....so Hello! biggrin
I do have a problem though..... I have posted an ad (97224) and have received lots and lots of replies ( :P )..... my problem is this: How do I reply to them all? I don't want to seem unfriendly and a timewaster but I have so many I have to reply to!
I am using the family computer so can't reply until late at night as it is. I know it sounds like I'm moaning.... I'm not! I just need help really on how to answer them all satisfactorily (spelling?!?). A lot of them are not in my interest anyway so should I ignore them or at least reply saying, "thanks but no thanks" confused:
Your help would be appreciated!
Thanks
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