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quimninja2003
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 46
Bi-curious Female, 46
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ignor my mail i sent you calista ......it is amazinghow they can be.......when she was suspected hodgekins...she was straght on the internet..looking up what it is! it took her to tel a consultant (her didnt want to MRI scan her) that she has had glandular fever (key indicator of hodgekins) for them to even test her!...................................................................................but thank everything that it`s nearly over :shock:
My then 9yr old stepdaughter was diagnosed with leukaemia about 18 months ago and it ripped our world apart. She wasn't immediately responsive to treatment and for a while it was really touch and go and looked about 80% certain that she'd need a bone marrow transplant, but the hospital tried one last ditch attempt and it worked, so well that her consultant has stated that if things carry on this way that she'll have the all clear by the end of the year.
It's sounds like you've got a battler on your hands, just like we had, and it affected us all a lot more than it did her.
So from one cancer affected family to another .... we're so pleased and tell your sister that we're all proud of her too.
Calista x
My then 9yr old stepdaughter was diagnosed with leukaemia about 18 months ago and it ripped our world apart. She wasn't immediately responsive to treatment and for a while it was really touch and go and looked about 80% certain that she'd need a bone marrow transplant, but the hospital tried one last ditch attempt and it worked, so well that her consultant has stated that if things carry on this way that she'll have the all clear by the end of the year.
It's sounds like you've got a battler on your hands, just like we had, and it affected us all a lot more than it did her.
So from one cancer affected family to another .... we're so pleased and tell your sister that we're all proud of her too.
Calista x
we get similar replies...too ours........more like..........we/i love your boobs and think your lovely.......hellooooo there aretw of us here ...lol.....probably the same people....we should compare notes lol :P :P
Quote by Shireen_Mids
It annoys the sh1t out of me if anyone blanks Steve when they approach me.... If they cant be bothered to talk to the both of us then I am not interested...
We also get it in replies to our ad, where they say things like I dont mind if your husband joins in!!... Hello!!!Needless to say those replies get deleted straight away...
Shireen
xxx
well said..
okay.. i would be one of the experiences who hasn't filled everything thing.....and i can tell you why i haven't....
1) i don't particually like the idea of the e-mail being sent out telling me of matches in my area.. who says that i particularly want to play at that point in time... so to me that is akin to an unwanted piece of spam... i will reply to the ones i want to in my own time ...
and as for preferences... 2 reasons...1) why try to pigeon hole everyone into categories? that may work for some people but it doesn't work for me ...and 2) they haven't put in one that i feel comfortable with..."friends"...... i meet up with people socially before i decide whether i want to or not... so for me i am into swinging to make likeminded friends and anything after that is a bonus......
Quote by fabio grooverider
A funny idea just popped into my head whilst I was in the Lets meet up forum. There was an advert for a social and I didnt know where the location was so I went to the users profile in case that gave a clue i.e. by post code. The profile was full of N/A so I still dont know where the venue is. I then recalled that JudyTv (sorry judy this is not aimed at you personaly) when addressing newbie's who have left an out of place thread/post often brings into the topic the number of N/A on thier profile. This seems to be unacceptable for newbies however I have noticed that many experienced and very experienced users have a whole host of N/A attributes on thier profile in some cases not even correctly identifying sex or sexual pref.
Before anyone starts beating me up I am not having a go I am just making an enquiery. I have my own ideas on why this is but I would also like to hear from others as well to see if there are any reasons I have not considerd.
Mr Tweeky
okay.. i would be one of the experiences who hasn't filled everything thing.....and i can tell you why i haven't....
1) i don't particually like the idea of the e-mail being sent out telling me of matches in my area.. who says that i particularly want to play at that point in time... so to me that is akin to an unwanted piece of spam... i will reply to the ones i want to in my own time ...
and as for preferences... 2 reasons...1) why try to pigeon hole everyone into categories? that may work for some people but it doesn't work for me ...and 2) they haven't put in one that i feel comfortable with..."friends"...... i meet up with people socially before i decide whether i want to or not... so for me i am into swinging to make likeminded friends and anything after that is a bonus......
shaz......................ya really scaring me now :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
I was thinking more along the lines of a 2 lt bottle of bleach
:lol:
shaz x
:shock: :shock: :shock: :scared:
Yeah i was thinking it might be a bit of a squeeze also but nothing i couldn't do with the help of a vice, crowbar and a couple of meat hooks :lol: :lol: :lol:
shaz x
Quote by Shaz_n_Tony
It is either that or toilet duck :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
I was thinking more along the lines of a 2 lt bottle of bleach
:lol: shaz x
:shock: :shock: :shock: :scared:
Yeah i was thinking it might be a bit of a squeeze also but nothing i couldn't do with the help of a vice, crowbar and a couple of meat hooks :lol: :lol: :lol:
shaz x
i cant thank you lot enough.....your the best... 
i am goin to compile these pages in a little book..........for her so ....if anyone looks at the thread and hasnt made a comment....plz do, even if it`s just to say "glad your better". and i`l let you know what she sez.........thanks again guys 
assionkiss: and ladies 
i am goin to compile these pages in a little book..........for her so ....if anyone looks at the thread and hasnt made a comment....plz do, even if it`s just to say "glad your better". and i`l let you know what she sez.........thanks again guys assionkiss: and ladies i think between me and sonia....we have told the whole world
thanks agian for all the comments...everyone......i`l make a little book from the comments and watch as she beams even wider :D :D
thanks agian for all the comments...everyone......i`l make a little book from the comments and watch as she beams even wider :D :D
Quote by plumbpond
Me and Mr Plummy would like to wish ALL of you lots of fabulous happiness.
Good news like that is never boring, you tell the whole wide world if you want to.
:rose:
XXX
she`s already been spoiled rotten every time anyone asks her what she wants , she says she dont want anything else...bless her, although when she`s a bit stronger she wants to go to alton towers in her wheel chair so she get fast track on the rides .........
the bugger :giggle:
she didnt learn that from me :shock: :D
every time anyone asks her what she wants , she says she dont want anything else...bless her, although when she`s a bit stronger she wants to go to alton towers in her wheel chair so she get fast track on the rides .........the bugger :giggle:
she didnt learn that from me :shock: :D
Quote by blonde
Great news
Spoil her.... spoil her........ spoil her !!! :giggle:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
dont cry...you`l start us off again :upset: ,
thanx all you guys for your comments......i let her know...what you all said...we just call it "the website" .....(she`s asked before what chat rooms we go in...just told her it`s rude) she`l be well chuffed!......this is what i meant about the support the users of this site have...particulary the forums.....thanks again a :cheers: and a for all of ya xxx
What a beautiful post :rose:
One extremely brave and strong young lady - also lucky to have one hell of a family around her, judging by that post there. Bought tears to my eyes that has :kiss:
Give her a hug from me.
Isn't it funny - people here that I've never met, barely know, and I'm sat here grinning like a cheshire cat for you :mrgreen:
Bluddy brilliant news :happy:
thanx all you guys for your comments......i let her know...what you all said...we just call it "the website" .....(she`s asked before what chat rooms we go in...just told her it`s rude
) she`l be well chuffed!......this is what i meant about the support the users of this site have...particulary the forums.....thanks again a :cheers: and a for all of ya xxxQuote by Missy
:D Although not many of you know us...we have been around for a while and weve seen first hand the support that you great people give each other..........well were not expecting any comments really and fully expect this to be locked through lack of posts....
but weve got to tell everyone we know...and as you lot are such an important part of our life here goes :thumbup:
..........a few weeks ago we mentioned in a thread that the bravest person we know is my "our". ickle sister (14 now) , the reason she`s so brave...well she was diagnosed with hodgekins (cancer of the lymphatic system).(stage 4). she has never once frowned or moaned..has always kept a smile on her face, is the most positive person in the whole world, she is strong in the face of the crippiling `chemo`, she cant even walk or write properly yet still found the time to dictate a letter to my (daves) mum....to be sent to tony blair (which was a scathing attack btw :giggle: ), she even kept the cancer a secret in october when we were married, so as to not spoil our day and we were told when we returned from honeymoon, (she is the best bridesmaid that we could have hoped to have ), when she lost all her hair....you`d think for a 14 year old pretty girl ..that losing her hair would be the end of the world! but no! she jokes about it with my mum (daves) she takes the piss saying she looks like Golum (lord of the rings) every time we see her me and mrs ninja and my (our) sister are in fits of giggle all the time, i really wish all of you have someone as positive an influence as her in your lives, she truly is an :angel: .........................................
right to the good news...........all of her tumors (4) have disappeared finally so she has a short stint with the chemo, then she`l be on the mend.........now i dont imagine this news will have an effect on many of you but we just heard the news of my mum (daves), and our hearts jumped 100 mph out of our mouths.....we were and still are gobbsmacked,happy,joyfull,amazed :thrilled: :smile2: ....and we truly believe that her positive approach and amazing attitude has beaten this illness ....thanks for listening you lot ...and sorry if you fell :sleeping: :D
:D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D
What a beautiful post :rose:
One extremely brave and strong young lady - also lucky to have one hell of a family around her, judging by that post there. Bought tears to my eyes that has :kiss:
Give her a hug from me.
Isn't it funny - people here that I've never met, barely know, and I'm sat here grinning like a cheshire cat for you :mrgreen:
Bluddy brilliant news :happy:
ty .......redhot, we count ourselves extreamly lucky to have such a beautiful, (inside and out) sister................probably her brothers influence when she was growing up 
Quote by RedHot
Fantastic news for you all
I hope all continue's to go well for her. What an inspiration and a treasure she must be
Tracy-Jayne
thank you , for that took our breath away
i sincerley mean this ----> the genuine people from S/H towers are the nicest and most supporting lot in the world we love ya all
this news could never be :sleeping: :sleeping: :sleeping: :sleeping: :sleeping: :sleeping:
only ever :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D 8-) 8-) 8-) 8-) 8-) 8-) 8-) 8-) 8-) 8-) 8-) 8-) 8-) :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :therethere:
kids are the bravest of them all while we stand and watch in wonder with our mouths open wide all the way too the ground with our hearts in knots at how strong they are................i hope as the road to recovery has just began it is laden with smiles and giggles all the way .......i am sure her smile will be the brightest of them all and her laughter the loudest
best of luck
i sincerley mean this ----> the genuine people from S/H towers are the nicest and most supporting lot in the world we love ya all
Quote by maidenfair
:D Although not many of you know us...we have been around for a while and weve seen first hand the support that you great people give each other..........well were not expecting any comments really and fully expect this to be locked through lack of posts....
but weve got to tell everyone we know...and as you lot are such an important part of our life here goes :thumbup:
..........a few weeks ago we mentioned in a thread that the bravest person we know is my "our". ickle sister (14 now) , the reason she`s so brave...well she was diagnosed with hodgekins (cancer of the lymphatic system).(stage 4). she has never once frowned or moaned..has always kept a smile on her face, is the most positive person in the whole world, she is strong in the face of the crippiling `chemo`, she cant even walk or write properly yet still found the time to dictate a letter to my (daves) mum....to be sent to tony blair (which was a scathing attack btw :giggle: ), she even kept the cancer a secret in october when we were married, so as to not spoil our day and we were told when we returned from honeymoon, (she is the best bridesmaid that we could have hoped to have ), when she lost all her hair....you`d think for a 14 year old pretty girl ..that losing her hair would be the end of the world! but no! she jokes about it with my mum (daves) she takes the piss saying she looks like Golum (lord of the rings) every time we see her me and mrs ninja and my (our) sister are in fits of giggle all the time, i really wish all of you have someone as positive an influence as her in your lives, she truly is an :angel: .........................................
right to the good news...........all of her tumors (4) have disappeared finally so she has a short stint with the chemo, then she`l be on the mend.........now i dont imagine this news will have an effect on many of you but we just heard the news of my mum (daves), and our hearts jumped 100 mph out of our mouths.....we were and still are gobbsmacked,happy,joyfull,amazed :thrilled: :smile2: ....and we truly believe that her positive approach and amazing attitude has beaten this illness ....thanks for listening you lot ...and sorry if you fell :sleeping: :D
:D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D
this news could never be :sleeping: :sleeping: :sleeping: :sleeping: :sleeping: :sleeping:
only ever :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D
8-) 8-) 8-) 8-) 8-) 8-) 8-) 8-) 8-) 8-) 8-) 8-) 8-) :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :therethere: kids are the bravest of them all while we stand and watch in wonder with our mouths open wide all the way too the ground with our hearts in knots at how strong they are................i hope as the road to recovery has just began it is laden with smiles and giggles all the way .......i am sure her smile will be the brightest of them all and her laughter the loudest
best of luck
it`s the least we could do.....you lot have shared your up`s and downs, over the months.......
weve read the forums for roughly a year now...and weve laughed, cried, and been very very scared
weve read the forums for roughly a year now...and weve laughed, cried, and been very very scared
Quote by Pete_sw
Really pleased for you guys :thumbup:
What excellent news. and thank you for sharing your happiness with us :D
cheers chick.....you followin us again pmsl.......seriously thankyou all esp: you tho chick :kiss
Quote by BiWelshMinx
Mr and Mrs Ninja,
What a lovely bit of news you have shared with us
Fabulous news that your sister is on the mend, she sounds like a true inspiration! It must be a fabulous time for her and all your family :D
Best wishes to you all and massive hugs to your sister
Minx x x
it was probably closed down for other reasons...ie: lack of people in your room...with a rammed server they need to keep control over how many rooms are opened etc......in fact if you go on the chat server at almost any time...you`l find the bbw room.....which is always packed to the hilt.
dont stress about it mate.......ive had plenty of rooms shut down.....nothin to do with the name...just not enough traffic through it.......probably deemed wastes of server space
dont stress about it mate.......ive had plenty of rooms shut down.....nothin to do with the name...just not enough traffic through it.......probably deemed wastes of server space
Quote by Flavio12000
I was in chat and decided to create a room for BBW's given that I see myself as an admirer. People were coming in and I think a moderated came in, next thing that room appeared to shut down. What is wrong with a bbw chat room considering there are rooms titled things like " pissing on cam "which seem to be allowed. Will start up a room " pissed off on cam " if that is not allowed.
we dont deserve it......my sister does....shes the star....ty though mate.....we do deserve a worry free night out tho
cheers matey.....your goin to the notts munch arnt ya? we`l buy ya a drink mate
I think it's fully booked.....have one for me anyway.....and enjoy yourselves....you deserve it....... :wink:
CC...... 8-)
Quote by cheekychimp
Excellent News...I'm very happy for all concerned.....
CC.....
cheers matey.....your goin to the notts munch arnt ya? we`l buy ya a drink mate
I think it's fully booked.....have one for me anyway.....and enjoy yourselves....you deserve it....... :wink:
CC...... 8-)
Quote by mik69
cheers mik matei knew the shed`d one would say somethin lol, cant put into words how happy we are
Although not many of you know us...we have been around for a while and weve seen first hand the support that you great people give each other..........well were not expecting any comments really and fully expect this to be locked through lack of posts.... but weve got to tell everyone we know...and as you lot are such an important part of our life here goes :thumbup:
..........a few weeks ago we mentioned in a thread that the bravest person we know is my "our". ickle sister (14 now) , the reason she`s so brave...well she was diagnosed with hodgekins (cancer of the lymphatic system).(stage 4). she has never once frowned or moaned..has always kept a smile on her face, is the most positive person in the whole world, she is strong in the face of the crippiling `chemo`, she cant even walk or write properly yet still found the time to dictate a letter to my (daves) mum....to be sent to tony blair (which was a scathing attack btw :giggle: ), she even kept the cancer a secret in october when we were married, so as to not spoil our day and we were told when we returned from honeymoon, (she is the best bridesmaid that we could have hoped to have ), when she lost all her hair....you`d think for a 14 year old pretty girl ..that losing her hair would be the end of the world! but no! she jokes about it with my mum (daves) she takes the piss saying she looks like Golum (lord of the rings) every time we see her me and mrs ninja and my (our) sister are in fits of giggle all the time, i really wish all of you have someone as positive an influence as her in your lives, she truly is an :angel: .........................................
right to the good news...........all of her tumors (4) have disappeared finally so she has a short stint with the chemo, then she`l be on the mend.........now i dont imagine this news will have an effect on many of you but we just heard the news of my mum (daves), and our hearts jumped 100 mph out of our mouths.....we were and still are gobbsmacked,happy,joyfull,amazed :thrilled: :smile2: ....and we truly believe that her positive approach and amazing attitude has beaten this illness ....thanks for listening you lot ...and sorry if you fell :sleeping: :D
:D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D
sure i saw a loch in scotland named after ya mik .....will that do 
So where the hell is mine then :dunno: I demand it as my god given right to have at least one lock to my name.
Untill this happens I refuse to provide any more of the following, mouthy opinion's, poor grammer, spelling mistakes, or ego boosting flirting. :shock:
There that should do it I think :?
.....will that do Quote by mik69
you have to have a few threads locked before you are part of the gang here!!
So where the hell is mine then :dunno: I demand it as my god given right to have at least one lock to my name.
Untill this happens I refuse to provide any more of the following, mouthy opinion's, poor grammer, spelling mistakes, or ego boosting flirting. :shock: There that should do it
I think :? oh all bow to one of the forum gods...lol.....look forward to meetin you
Tis true Cheeky, i am going (stop laughing at the back)
only been to one and it was fine, started off in room 405 which was a good introduction. but generally you wander round staring at peoples chests trying to read their name badges. If you speak to someone and it's not going too smoothly, just say 'good to meet you, im off to continue searching for xxxxx' or something similar. their probably as nervous as you so just go back a little later and see if it's better.
you could try joining the pre munch drinks so you already know some people when you get to the munch.
finally, if you see a blonde woman with a crazy 'im gonna eat you alive' look, it's just Sarah, you should survive meeting her (if you're lucky) :rascal:
If all else fails, find something to stand on and do a striptease while very,very drunk :giggle
tm Dammy)
(that should win a few friends, my work here is done
)
Quote by meat2pleaseu
You might also meet some of the great forum gods
Tis true Cheeky, i am going
(stop laughing at the back)only been to one and it was fine, started off in room 405 which was a good introduction. but generally you wander round staring at peoples chests trying to read their name badges. If you speak to someone and it's not going too smoothly, just say 'good to meet you, im off to continue searching for xxxxx' or something similar. their probably as nervous as you so just go back a little later and see if it's better.
you could try joining the pre munch drinks so you already know some people when you get to the munch.
finally, if you see a blonde woman with a crazy 'im gonna eat you alive' look, it's just Sarah, you should survive meeting her (if you're lucky) :rascal:
If all else fails, find something to stand on and do a striptease while very,very drunk :giggle
tm Dammy)(that should win a few friends, my work here is done
) 