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A story that changes every time it is dragged out....
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopicpage/101241/20.html

Quote by ambervixen
Skinny - how the hell did you get in touch with this loon, if he was escaped then did you find him at a bus stop?
Sorry, not funny and definitely scary.
I met a guy from a swinging site - who ended up dragging me back by my hair in a bar after I told him I didn't want to see him any more - I punched him and left.
On the way home he texted and called my 'play' mobile, my personal mobile and my work phone - the last two he should not have had.
He called for three days - every three minutes - then he emailed me at work and phoned my desk number.
Next day...
He turned up at my work - with a teddy and a creepy card left at reception - he was sitting outside THREE hours after I went down to get it staring at the doors. I copied the card and sent it all back by courier to his office - with a letter - clearly telling him to stop harassing me or I would go to the police.
I didn't tell him what I did or where I worked, even after two months of random meets as I am VERY cautious.
That weekend he turned up at my flat - again - he didn't know where I lived, or even what area of London - he asked to be let in - my then flatmates thought he was a random ex - I said just tell him to fuck off - he barged past two of them and into my bedroom with flowers - after I had told him in no UNCERTAIN terms to keep the fuck away from me. I got up and went NUTS pushing him out - my flatmates pushed him out the door and he lurked outside for three hours - I moved house shortly afterwards to be safe.
He had stalked me for two weeks. Was he nuts - definitely - could you tell NOOO
- He had a PHD from Oxford and was a senior correspondent for a national newspaper.
I emailed him at work with copies of his increasingly wierd and threatening emails and letters, citing his behaviour and told him that if I EVER heard from him again in ANY capacity - all the evidence was going to two papers - a tabloid - and the editor of the broadsheet he writes for.
RESULT - Silence.
People are scary and swinging can be risky, it is best to take precautions.
- Ask to see the person on cam WHILE speaking to them on the phone.
- By a cheap and disposable mobile as your 'play' phone so you can ditch the sim card if someone gets wierd - keep a note of regular and trusted contacts in a notebook.
- Always meet with someone in a public place to see what you think of them - do not go to someone's home alone without meeting them first and do not invite someone to your home that you do not know.
- If you can afford it the first time you play - get a hotel room - there will be people in the room next to you.
- I as a rule to not play with people on a first meet, I make it social and it gives me time to see what I think of them.
- If from a particular site - see if you can get someone you know or have met to vouch for them.
- Walk away at ANY point you have concerns.
As you can see my 'rules' are bourne of the above and other utterly scary/random meets.
It pays to be patient. If someone I am writing to or corresponding with gets pushy or odd before I meet them, they are deleted - if someone is odd at a social drink - I leave.
If someone I am playing with makes me feel uncomfortable - I leave.
Sorry for the essay I write way too quickly.
SCARY STUFF
Be safe all, Amber xxx

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Gotta love the Daily Mash Ben. It's one of the first URLs I type of a morning.
N x x x ;)

Quote by brucie
my experience is that swingers on the whole are less tolerant and more judgemental than most people i meet. they are also older fatter and less attractive generally. that might be a socio economic thing though as outside of swinging i am usually found in gastropubs and expensive bars. it might also have to do with the fact that swinging couples seem to be so defensive about single males that they lead their swinging lives with more "rules" than normal people lead their sexual lives. swingers will more easily reel off their do's and dont's about sex than vanillas (as vanillas have usually given it less thought and deal with each situation when confronted).

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You can't edit someone else's posts in threads that they've made.

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I have not looked at the links but one of two things happened
1: Someone has been editing. Submit a support ticket and someones in big trouble
2: Your Bi
I couldn't give a shit either way but if its number 1 I would rather the culprit is off the site.
Finally in past topics if the thread originator deletes all the opening thread text and the title or changes it and also all the other thread text the topic gets taken down as its all to confusing ??: Not saying it would happen here but it has happened in the past.

Quote by Dirtygirly
To be honest... now I'm waiting for someone to trawl brucie's posts for the blinder about him wearing girls' undies!
:giggle:

Quote by brucie
someone has been norty and having fun at my expense. im not bothered. if i was i could just delete this thread.
anyway, any guy who puts his cock in my mouth can expect the bite of a great white shark :-)

Quote by brucie
Yes.
in the right circumstances.
i play with a few couples and am orally bi. i find the girls love watching their guys suck and get sucked. i doubtthey would be so hot on full anal though, that would be a step further than 'just a bit of fun'...

Quote by brucie
anyway, ive been out dogging last couple of evenings. as im bi, i have had fun each time. to my surprise a very fit young couple showed up at xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx (can i name place as its in the pasttense?) at about last night. i was being sucked by a guy whenthey arrived and there was no one else there, so they got out of the car and watched. aftera while i was being sucked by the girl and the guy was being sucked by the guy who had been sucking me. great evening!
anyone want to meet tonight post here or pm me.

Quote by brucie
single BI men.
we will be out from about not allowed to post location so pm if you dont know the main place at the start of the A1...

Quote by brucie
sunset in soho is good. there a re well known couple, greg and lisa, who go most wednesday evenings and lisa has been known to blow the whole cinema off in one session. and we aint talking suicide bombers here...
fantasy is very seedy. ive been a coupel of times and never seen any females. the gay action is pretty hardcore too. massive sessions in the corridors with groups of men. as someone who is bi in 3somes/4somes with femalesparticipating i find fantasy a little hard core...

Quote by brucie
in the right circumstances.
i play with a few couples and am orally bi. i find the girls love watching their guys suck and get sucked. i doubtthey would be so hot on full anal though, that would be a step further than 'just a bit of fun'...

Quote by brucie
anyway, ive been out dogging last couple of evenings. as im bi, i have had fun each time. to my surprise a very fit young couple showed up at xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx (can i name place as its in the pasttense?) at about last night. i was being sucked by a guy whenthey arrived and there was no one else there, so they got out of the car and watched. aftera while i was being sucked by the girl and the guy was being sucked by the guy who had been sucking me. great evening!
anyone want to meet tonight post here or pm me.

Quote by deancannock
Is it really so difficult to see what kaz was saying and meaning !!!
There is a great amount of anti-west feeling in alot of asian countries. This is mostly generated by extremists in that country. They tell these poor deprived people about how rich the west has become, on the back of the pittance of money they pay these people to work in their factories. They depict the west as the big bad ogre...uncareing and just on look out to line there own pockets, at any expense. Maybe..just maybe if they see the west giving them aid, and asisistance, they might think twice about what these extremists are telling them.
Also was mentioned earlier about some of the money falling into the wrong hands. This happened in the 1970's...and lessons were learnt. All the aid is now given in the form of goods ..such as tents, blankets, clothes, medicine, food..etc etc.....all these items are heavily branded as aid donated by UK or whoever . This is deliberatly done so that the people who recieve these goods, know exactly where they came from....for the reason given above.
I am not here to comment on the rights or wrongs of giving the aid...... but although giving the aid is shown as an act of compassion, ..as in most things there is also a motive at the back end of it.
What price a life I guess !! If it stops 1 person becoming a suicide bomber, and killing and maiming numerous innocent people, would you then consider it worth it ???

Quote by Funlovers2009
We once had a single girl contact us and she realy wanted to meet us but she bluntly refused to let us see any pictures of her because of her job. We gave her loads of options: MSN, email, text, etc. It didnt matter how many times we told her that we dont meet without seeing pics she just kept telling us that she was a woman and was good looking but couldnt let us see any pictures because of her job.
How bizzare!!

Quote by essex34m
s3xyl3xy, that's the nicest thing anyone has done for me for a while, thank you!

Quote by couplefunuk
I / We admit to be more NCIS groupies.
I / We admit to knowing that the new series airs in the States this week.
I admit to having a thing for Ziva, Caitlin and Abby. Can you imagine the fun n games you could have!
I also admit to being a big fan of CSI and Criminal Minds too. Oooh the cast memebers contained therein. Hubba!
*Him*

Quote by meat2pleaseu
what ever colour i put on they pretty quickly end up being cat hair coloured

Quote by SinSi
Colour is obviously a personal thing and can also be seasonal - darker warmer colours in winter, light airy colours in summer etc. In tests it's reported that white is the best colour for your bedding as it's apparently the most relaxing as you drift off into slumber!
Just as long as you iron it all it doesn't matter :happy:

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Currently silky chocolate brown with cream and burnt orange applique, matching cushions and throw. It's fun watching my kittens slide off it :grin:

Quote by SinSi
Colour is obviously a personal thing and can also be seasonal - darker warmer colours in winter, light airy colours in summer etc. In tests it's reported that white is the best colour for your bedding as it's apparently the most relaxing as you drift off into slumber!
Just as long as you iron it all it doesn't matter :happy:

Quote by kentswingers777
Oil drinking in the jacuzzi.

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Ahh now that explains why my ex was stopped and questioned when he was taking photos of an oil refinery. It was night time and the smoke was billowing, the lights looked fantastic against the nights sky and it was a picture just waiting to be taken. He did get a few but his efforts were soon curtailed.

Quote by old_arse
s3xyl3xy wrote:
How on earth did they figure his attending such a demo would constitute an act of terrorism?
Boy!!!......What short memories!!!.......Don't you remember some of the antics from the 'authorities' during the national miners strike????.......Regardless of your politics that should have made people aware of the true nature of our 'security forces'!!!
I got quite a few bruises for simply standing in the wrong place.........and was stopped altogether from travelling to Yorkshire and the Midlands.......All within a 'free' state!!

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*IN EDIT* some one here may be able to explain how the law could have been stretched to cover this

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Used to be one on the Wirral some years ago.......now gone......Only a small thing it wasn't supervised too well and certain elements were a bit TOO fond of using it for other adult 'pastimes' ( wasn't me!!!.....Honest!! :twisted: ......but I DID look occasionally!! )........Needless to say the 'moral' brigade had it closed down pdq.......bloody spoilsports!! :sad:
Chris