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The History and Definitions of Swinging which is couples only
The history of the word "swinging" is that it was previously called wife swapping but "wife swappers" needed an easier name to describe the activity. As "wife swapping" gained popularity and media attention in the 1950's, the activity was changed to "swinging" and more recently "The Lifestyle"
So by saying your a single swinger your saying you are a single wife swapper...which doesn't make a lot of sense.
Swinging has its roots from U.S. Air Force fighter pilots during World War II. These men were wealthy enough to move their wives close to base, and the fact that their fatality rate was the highest of any branch of service led to an unusual social milieu in which non-monogamy between these pilots' wives and other pilots became acceptable. These arrangements persisted near Air Force bases throughout World War II and into the Korean War.
By the time the Korean War ended, these groups had spread from the bases to the nearby suburbs. The media picked up on them in 1957 and promptly dubbed the phenomenon ``wife-swapping.''
Supposedly there were also "key clubs" where husbands reportedly tossed their house keys into a pile in the center of the room where they were drawn at random by the wives. The owner of a selected key was the sexual partner for the evening.
Swinging has always been about couples - Every national swing convention in the U.S., and as far as I know of in the world, is couples only. Today marriage is less important so non-married "couples" have been generally accepted but some swingers prefer only to participate with married couples.
There are zillions of very good reasons why couples prefer couples. There are some single men that participate especially since clubs often have certain nights open to single men which raises lots of money since single men want so badly to participate. Those are the nights most "swingers" avoid, except for a few that do enjoy single men.
Sadly very few single women ever participate so the problem is zillions of single men wannabe's and very little demand. Some single guys do fine but they are the exception in the lifestyle. Since many women are Bi there is also a demand for single Bi women to participate, but technically whether man or women a single, is really not a "swinger" they just are allowed to participate with "swingers" (couples previously known as "wife swappers").
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xrusman
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 61
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There is a lot of info following the link that Mark posted and I'm nowhere near through it all but I have found something I find troublesome.
This is from their site.
"Encourage your children to explore their developing sexuality responsibly, in ways that are voluntary, consensual, and harmless for every participant."
On first reading I thought good sense then I became concerned re the last part.
" in ways that are voluntary, consensual, and harmless for every participant"
I believe this to be treading on dangerous ground, I fear that this can be interpruted as giving license to commit abusive acts.
This is from their site.
"Encourage your children to explore their developing sexuality responsibly, in ways that are voluntary, consensual, and harmless for every participant."
On first reading I thought good sense then I became concerned re the last part.
" in ways that are voluntary, consensual, and harmless for every participant"
I believe this to be treading on dangerous ground, I fear that this can be interpruted as giving license to commit abusive acts.
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I read an article/blog/postng yesterday (forgot to keep link so you could read it) on a msg board about a group in the USA who claim to be Christian Swingers.
There was a reply to this stating
But surely the "rules" or laws of Christianity forbib such activity.
Im not very religious so it's hard for me to form an opinion.
Is it possible to be a Christian and a swinger?
There was a reply to this stating
But surely the "rules" or laws of Christianity forbib such activity.
Im not very religious so it's hard for me to form an opinion.
Is it possible to be a Christian and a swinger?
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Dambuster...you're dilema as you put it, between the girl, sorry "absolute babe of a girl" and your other troop buddies is a disgrace.
You deserted the colours, deserted your duty and deserted your fellow soldiers.
Men who, no doubt in times of combat, you would have been expecting to cover your arse but you saw fit to desert for a bit of skirt.!!
There will be people on these forums who have family and friends on active service now performing their duty to the best of their ability with courage and honour, and they certainly dont need your tales of dishonour and dereliction of duty at a time when there is the danger of more young British Soldiers coming home in coffins.
You deserted the colours, deserted your duty and deserted your fellow soldiers.
Men who, no doubt in times of combat, you would have been expecting to cover your arse but you saw fit to desert for a bit of skirt.!!
There will be people on these forums who have family and friends on active service now performing their duty to the best of their ability with courage and honour, and they certainly dont need your tales of dishonour and dereliction of duty at a time when there is the danger of more young British Soldiers coming home in coffins.
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Quote by sparky530
as in my case the the punishment was well worth the pleasure
cheers
You actually took pleasure in causing this woman to be embaressed infront of a crowded nightclub??? If this had been your wife or daughter would you still be laughing? you said previously that you were enjoying her company..why would you do this to her?
I like to be treated with respect..thats why I always treat others with respect.
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1 – your most distinguish feature
My ability to sink beer.
2 – the favourite nickname you have ever been called
Scotty
3 – the last thing that made you laugh
One of the replies to a post (cant remember which)
4 – the last song you sang (way too loud)
The Wonder of You.
5 – the last thing that made you feel warm inside
Rangers winning the Lge title.
6 – the last sex related item/s you bought
A cock ring
7 – one thing you want to do this summer
Swim in the Caribean.
8 – what would be your last meal if you were on death-row
Something Indian.
9 – who would you want to share an eight-seater Jacuzzi with
Seven beautiful women.
10 – the worst job you have ever done
Hospital Hygene.
My ability to sink beer.
2 – the favourite nickname you have ever been called
Scotty
3 – the last thing that made you laugh
One of the replies to a post (cant remember which)
4 – the last song you sang (way too loud)
The Wonder of You.
5 – the last thing that made you feel warm inside
Rangers winning the Lge title.
6 – the last sex related item/s you bought
A cock ring
7 – one thing you want to do this summer
Swim in the Caribean.
8 – what would be your last meal if you were on death-row
Something Indian.
9 – who would you want to share an eight-seater Jacuzzi with
Seven beautiful women.
10 – the worst job you have ever done
Hospital Hygene.
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I had never thought about the "diference's" until I read the thread and I've been sitting thinking about it for the last half hour.
When I was younger it was all about sex with "strangers", the only reason i went out to pubs and clubs was to get laid, I never went looking to get to know anyone seriously. And when I first started swinging it was one letter, one phone call and then a meet. Sometimes I got really friendly with my "contacts" and one couple in particular, we used to play every weekend for a couple of months but now Im sitting here remembering, the more friendly we became the less sex became the driving force it once was. We had used sex as the basis for our friendship and now we were friends the sex sort of withered away.
Other couples I met on an infrequent basis were much more exciting and the sex more dynamic and enjoyable.
Good thread, I had never thought much about the topic until now.
When I was younger it was all about sex with "strangers", the only reason i went out to pubs and clubs was to get laid, I never went looking to get to know anyone seriously. And when I first started swinging it was one letter, one phone call and then a meet. Sometimes I got really friendly with my "contacts" and one couple in particular, we used to play every weekend for a couple of months but now Im sitting here remembering, the more friendly we became the less sex became the driving force it once was. We had used sex as the basis for our friendship and now we were friends the sex sort of withered away.
Other couples I met on an infrequent basis were much more exciting and the sex more dynamic and enjoyable.
Good thread, I had never thought much about the topic until now.
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I used to be a milman, and saw some sight's. one time in Edinburgh, this guy came up to me, it's about , and ask's for help, this guy was a mess, his face had been scored by a stanley knife and something poured over his head, it honestly looked like the guy's face was melting.
he wanted me to call an ambulance but not the police, I drove him to his flat and then went to the police station to tell them this guy badly needed an ambulance, but I had not taken note of the address and in that area every building looked the same.
Had I helped this poor guy? I dont think I did, I had become helpless in my attempts to help.
It played on my mind for sometime after....I reckon I panicked, or perhaps it was nerves.
he wanted me to call an ambulance but not the police, I drove him to his flat and then went to the police station to tell them this guy badly needed an ambulance, but I had not taken note of the address and in that area every building looked the same.
Had I helped this poor guy? I dont think I did, I had become helpless in my attempts to help.
It played on my mind for sometime after....I reckon I panicked, or perhaps it was nerves.
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Good question, I know there used to be but think they are a bit defunct now. I had a circle of friends from Glasgow who were actively trying to start one but it fell apart before it took off.
There are the fetish clubs but they are not strickly swing events.
I dont know if the law up here is different from england re clubs, remember all the shite about the sex shops when they opened, they kept getting raided all the bloody time.
There are the fetish clubs but they are not strickly swing events.
I dont know if the law up here is different from england re clubs, remember all the shite about the sex shops when they opened, they kept getting raided all the bloody time.
