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Cambsguy
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 53
0 miles · Cambridgeshire
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Was at that same site this afternoon with the wonderful SingleMaiden. A few very considerate and non pushy guys around and I think one in particular left us with a satisfied look on his face. Nice to know that there are some out there who know how to act....manners generally pay off in the end 
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For me the excitement is about being watched and not so much about watching (unless it's my partner I'm watching). Although I'd never heard of the term 'dogging', I've always enjoyed playing in places where I could, might, or would probably be seen/caught and the thought that someone might join in always added an extra thrill. One of my early sexual experiences was on a beach in Spain and I found out afterwards that all my friends had followed us down and watched in secrecy.......despite the amount of abuse I took and the amount of beer I had to buy it definitely added to the thrill lol and I guess I was hooked since then.
There's also the power thing...the feeling that I'm letting others view and maybe play with my partner and that other men want her but I get to take her home afterwards. The reality is quite different though as she'll always have the final say as to what she does, if anything, and with who, but to role play the power thing is a definite turn on.
Oh and finally Serendipity, can I just say I love your avatar
There's also the power thing...the feeling that I'm letting others view and maybe play with my partner and that other men want her but I get to take her home afterwards. The reality is quite different though as she'll always have the final say as to what she does, if anything, and with who, but to role play the power thing is a definite turn on.
Oh and finally Serendipity, can I just say I love your avatar
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Thanks to those who've responded so far, you should have heard back from us. I'll have access to the forum until about 6 tonight so if you respond after that it will be too late.
Also no-one yet has suggested any locations....I guess I can understand the reluctance to do that but as neither of us know the area at all it would save us a bit of time Feel free to PM me.
Cheers
Also no-one yet has suggested any locations....I guess I can understand the reluctance to do that but as neither of us know the area at all it would save us a bit of time
Feel free to PM me.Cheers
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Suddenly all I can think of is Vix and her void! I'm now going to be useless and distracted for the rest of the evening.....must get out more I think
Oh and deuce, don't give up and don't get disappointed. All you need is a little luck and it will probably happen when you don't expect it to. I know that doesn't really fall into the helpful catagory of advice, but there ya go :)
Oh and deuce, don't give up and don't get disappointed. All you need is a little luck and it will probably happen when you don't expect it to. I know that doesn't really fall into the helpful catagory of advice, but there ya go :)
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I wouldn't worry about it. It's a fact of life that people wil respond to their friends more often than to people they don't know. I don't see that's a reason for quitting though.
I don't post much - I've never been much good at racking up great post counts as I prefer only to say something if I have something to say....I figure I should hit 100 somewhere around mid February But when I do post just because it doesn't get quoted doesn't mean I feel excluded. I feel like I've added to the overall discussion and given someone somthing to think on. You only have to look at the number of views of a thread compared to the posts to see that 100's read and only a few post.
I love this forum. The people are great, they always cheer me up with their posts when I'm feeling down and I hardly ever leave here without a smile on my face. I've already met a couple of people from here and hopefully in time I'll get to meet more, may even get myself to a munch one day.
As for 'breaking into this community,' well if you are here you are part of it. If you just up and leave it'll be your loss. But it's your choice.
I don't post much - I've never been much good at racking up great post counts as I prefer only to say something if I have something to say....I figure I should hit 100 somewhere around mid February
But when I do post just because it doesn't get quoted doesn't mean I feel excluded. I feel like I've added to the overall discussion and given someone somthing to think on. You only have to look at the number of views of a thread compared to the posts to see that 100's read and only a few post.I love this forum. The people are great, they always cheer me up with their posts when I'm feeling down and I hardly ever leave here without a smile on my face. I've already met a couple of people from here and hopefully in time I'll get to meet more, may even get myself to a munch one day.
As for 'breaking into this community,' well if you are here you are part of it. If you just up and leave it'll be your loss. But it's your choice.
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Quote by dambuster
I resisted Buffy on Johnothan Ross, but now it's that eastern european-looking blonde with the wide mouth, full lips and neilinleeds nose.
Charlie Sheen
:shock: ???That's the guy - Thanx JonJon
I think it's Natasha something.
Not Kaplinski(?) she reads the am news.
Kinski? Not watching TV so no idea whether it is...but the only Natasha I can think of
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Quote by marcus and mich
Reese,
we agree that there are always exceptions, particualrly with 'more experienced' gentleman who have the benefit of greater life experience but surely even you can't deny there are a few dodgy pretending to be something they're not males 'lurking' around. Perhaps we stuck too closely to the typical sterotype when making a point. Either way it's always been each to their own as far as we're concerned. We just thought the point was worth mentioning.
Using a stereotype to try and make a point is rather weak I think, not to mention offensive. It suggests either that a couple of bad experiences have led to the tarring of a whole group with one brush, or there's a lack of imagination and you're just buying into the perceived view without actually finding out for yourself. I never realised there was such a thing as 'Swinging Snobbery' but there seems to be - the 'I'm a real swinger but you're just a single sad pathetic male who can't get a proper shag' type thing.
Everyone's here for their own reason. Might be an idea to get to know some people before rushing to judgment.
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So many to choose, but here's one for starters:
Die Young - Black Sabbath.
Soothing melodic start, then the soft guitars build it up gradually before that crashing baseline and the drums take you on to RJD's awesome vocals. You can say what you like about Ozzy, but for me this was Sabbath in their prime!
Die Young - Black Sabbath.
Soothing melodic start, then the soft guitars build it up gradually before that crashing baseline and the drums take you on to RJD's awesome vocals. You can say what you like about Ozzy, but for me this was Sabbath in their prime!
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If all it's about is finding someone for a quick shag then I'd be better off just paying for it. For me swinging is about sex and friendship, crossing new boundaries, trying new experiences and making new memories. It's about fun for me, my partner and anyone else who is involved and I have far more fun with someone who I can connect with on a mental as well as a physical level. I can have just as much fun with someone spending an evening talking in the pub, or a night of acrobatics in the bedroom
I'm not going to sit here and say I only come here to make friends and that sex is the furthest thing from my mind. But at the same time it's not the be all and end all.
I'm not going to sit here and say I only come here to make friends and that sex is the furthest thing from my mind. But at the same time it's not the be all and end all.
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I've suffered terrible insomnia in the past and aside from the normal things, one thing that really helps me is a radio. I tune it to a talk station (5 Live works for me), not music and if the subject is one you're really interested in then change the station. I have it on very quietly - not so quiet I have to strain to hear it, but almost.
Then - and I guess this is the hard bit to explain - I try and empty my mind of everything until all that's there is the sound from the radio, and I try and hear it without actually listening to it so I'm aware of a sound but not aware of what they are saying. I find I usually drop off to sleep quite easily.
If you want to try this I wouldn't use a sleep function on a clock radio...when I do that I find I lie there thinking 'OMG if I'm not asleep in 20 mins the radio will be going off.' So I just leave it on all night.
This can be a bit of a pain if you aren't alone though so it probably isn't for everyone, but maybe it might help a little.
Then - and I guess this is the hard bit to explain - I try and empty my mind of everything until all that's there is the sound from the radio, and I try and hear it without actually listening to it so I'm aware of a sound but not aware of what they are saying. I find I usually drop off to sleep quite easily.
If you want to try this I wouldn't use a sleep function on a clock radio...when I do that I find I lie there thinking 'OMG if I'm not asleep in 20 mins the radio will be going off.' So I just leave it on all night.
This can be a bit of a pain if you aren't alone though so it probably isn't for everyone, but maybe it might help a little.
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I had it too. The strange thing is though it came to the email address from my advert, which is hidden, and not to the email address for the forum, which isn't hidden. I hadn't responded to any adverts in months though so knew it was obviously spam. Would be interesting to find out how they got my email addy though, or whether it's just normal spam and a coincidence that I happen to be registered on a swinging site.
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It's because salt doesn't evaporate with the sea water. So as water evaportates the salininity (I just made up that word but it sounds like it might be a real one) of the sea water actually increases. Then fresh water falls as rain and replaces the evaporated water so the salininity (I like that word) returns to normal again.
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Quote by Debbiewebs
Right!!!!!..............any newbie MEN!!!........... that want to get into the cafe...............have to be inpeacted by myself and MISSCHIEF .....OK!
1....... need your inside leg measurments
2.......how big is it?? :bounce: :roll:
3......are you shaved?
4......do like doing the can can? :bounce:
5......have you a sence of humor?
6.....do you like older women?
:smoke:
7......And any newbie that takes the piss out me spelling.............is out!
8 so cum... :roll: ...................on you newbies line up! :bounce:
Now dont all cum at once!. :roll: ................ooo go on then! :bounce:
we are waiting! :bounce:
Well only been here a little while so I figure I count as a newbie....and as the women here are far more scary than the men I guess I'd better line up and stay on their good side
1 - 32"
2 - My nose isn't big at all, thanks :)
3 - Only below the waist
4 - Only if I get to wear those frilly..... *chokes* *coughs*
ermmm NEXT!5 - Don't have much sense at all, full stop :)
6 - wooooohooooooooo!! Just like fine wine! :bounce:
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Quote by neilinleeds
you can only judge each case on it's merits. i would support WW2 no question. i will never support wars fought solely to further the interests of one superpower, at the expense of huge swathes of the worlds population. when the next crisis does arise, you just have to look at who's interests are really being served, and what's the real agenda behind the lies. i have no easy answers on this one.
neil x x x ;)
This raises an interesting point in that perhaps it's only in hindsight that you can say whether or not a war was justified. Today, even the most die hard pacifist would struggle to argue that WW2 was not a justifiable war. But if the circumstances that arose at the outbreak were to arise again today would we all support it? Is it only in the full knowledge of the horrors that Hitler and his regime pepetrated, that we didn't know until well into the war, that we can say it was justified? Many politicians at that time (e.g. Lord Halifax) urged maintaining peace with Germany in 1939 so perhaps the idea that the war was justifiable wasn't so obvious at that time. I don't know.
My point, if I have one I guess, is that war is such an extreme thing that to know whether it's justifiable is very difficult. Surely war has to be the last possible option after every other single thing that could be done to maintain the peace has been done. I don't believe that every other avenue was exhausted in Iraq.
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I always enjoy Michael Moore's work but he does have his own agenda too and Farenheit 9/11 was definitely made to meet that agenda. While it's an interesting film I think a couple of shakes of salt should be added before taking absolutely everything he says as gospel. The film was clearly made to make money as a piece of entertainment and to make a political point, not as an independent piece of investigative journalism.
Having said all that, I agree with everything everyone's said. Bush may be corrupt, but it's the fact that he's so dangerous that scares me. What I really hate is this culture of fear that all politicians are tapping into, inspired by Bush. They think if they scare us enough we'll let them get away with anything whether that's invading third world countries or monitoring all our emails. If Bush gets re-elected I dread to think how many more wars we'll be started in the name of peace and as long as we cling onto America's coat tails we'll be dragged along for the ride.
Having said all that, I agree with everything everyone's said. Bush may be corrupt, but it's the fact that he's so dangerous that scares me. What I really hate is this culture of fear that all politicians are tapping into, inspired by Bush. They think if they scare us enough we'll let them get away with anything whether that's invading third world countries or monitoring all our emails. If Bush gets re-elected I dread to think how many more wars we'll be started in the name of peace and as long as we cling onto America's coat tails we'll be dragged along for the ride.
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Quote by neilinleeds
i'm not talking to tevo and cambsguy for taking the piss! it's not easy being a leeds fan you know! how would you like it eh?
<<< humph! >>>
neil - in leeds leeds leeds!!!
OK no more piss taking....It's wayyyy to easy a target anyway :twisted:
One of my favourite football moments was at Elland Road....must have been about 1989, 3rd round of the cup and we hadn't won a cup match in about 132 years when Jason 'I wanna be a porn star' Dozzell lept like a salmon and headed into the net from about 1 foot for a 1 nil win. We lost at Barnsley 2-0 in the 4th round and it took me 3 hours to get out of the carpark
Those were the days!
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Quote by Debbiewebs
Have you ever..in a sexy perstion found your selfs.....not being able to get a hard on!
and why??
2............ what can put you off women?
3.............has a women been so blunt and forward that it turns you right off?
4............have you ever felt............. dirty and used after sex............and felt ashamed?
1. Once in a while - nerves and alcohol make for a nasty mix sometimes.
2. Only thing I can think of is bad breath. Not too big on nose piercings although that wouldn't be an instant no-no.
3. The blunter and more forward the better
I've been known to miss the most blatent of signals from the opposite sex so best to take all the guesswork out of it.4. Dirty and used - never. Ashamed - once a long time ago and that's as far as I'm going.
