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DaHamsta
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 55
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Warming the Bed
Ooooh, the 'Why does God let this happen' debate...
Well, one word... Self-Determination. Er, OK two words then...
Allegedly when God created Man he gave him a skill that he gave to no other creature on Earth, and that was the power to Reason.
So, apparently God let's us decide or reason for ourselves what is right and wrong... and then we'll all get judged when the party ends on Judgement Day...
I've read the Bible (had to at school), and I suspect most of us on here are going to Hell...
Great! I look forward to finally meeting all you dirty buggers! If someone brings some beer then i'll bring the music... The Carpenters ok with everyone?
Well, one word... Self-Determination. Er, OK two words then...
Allegedly when God created Man he gave him a skill that he gave to no other creature on Earth, and that was the power to Reason.
So, apparently God let's us decide or reason for ourselves what is right and wrong... and then we'll all get judged when the party ends on Judgement Day...
I've read the Bible (had to at school), and I suspect most of us on here are going to Hell...
Great! I look forward to finally meeting all you dirty buggers! If someone brings some beer then i'll bring the music... The Carpenters ok with everyone?
Warming the Bed
Quote by Bikerguy82
Please don’t hate me
A very sad Biker…….
Hey Biker,
No one is going to hate you... This isn't the sort of place where people judge other people. I'm sorry to hear that you've seen this kind of gruesome stuff and it's had such an intense effect on you...
Maybe your case is worth discussing as you have genuinely had an adverse reaction to the video... This probably proves that mentally you are a normal, healthy individual. I'm sure that over time the images will fade away and you'll become less affected by them, but perhaps this could be a timely warning to all those with a heightened sense of morbid curiosity... don't go there!
Biker.... As someone wiser than me once said... If you can't be a good example, be a terrible warning.
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Well, technically they had no right to murder him either...
But aside from splitting hairs, my point is you watch or you don't watch... that's your decision, but if you do watch then don't complain if your 'scarred for life'.
Here's a personal case...
A few years ago in a foreign country a body was found in a field. A group of locals went to retrieve the body and as one of the locals picked up the corpse a booby trap blew up the person recovering the body and severly injured several of the onlookers.
Now... I can sympathise with the family of the man recovering the body (even though he was told to wait for a team to clear the area), I have little sympathy for the 'ambulance chasers' who were all stood round watching the spectacle. They were there to satisfy their own dark curiosity and not to assist. So sad as it is that they lost limbs etc. they wouldn't have been hurt if they hadn't been there in the first place.
I realise that the macabre is a real draw for some people, however if you become affected by what you have sought out then don't complain.
But aside from splitting hairs, my point is you watch or you don't watch... that's your decision, but if you do watch then don't complain if your 'scarred for life'.
Here's a personal case...
A few years ago in a foreign country a body was found in a field. A group of locals went to retrieve the body and as one of the locals picked up the corpse a booby trap blew up the person recovering the body and severly injured several of the onlookers.
Now... I can sympathise with the family of the man recovering the body (even though he was told to wait for a team to clear the area), I have little sympathy for the 'ambulance chasers' who were all stood round watching the spectacle. They were there to satisfy their own dark curiosity and not to assist. So sad as it is that they lost limbs etc. they wouldn't have been hurt if they hadn't been there in the first place.
I realise that the macabre is a real draw for some people, however if you become affected by what you have sought out then don't complain.
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Now this thread could run and run and run...
Well, I was 18 and so was she (late starter, been playing catch-up since)... we'd been going out together for nearly a year.
We'd fumbled about a bit before but nothing serious... The funny thing was we'd go out for a few months then split up for a week or so... then when we'd get back together we'd move on a stage.
Anyway... it was in my bedroom, my mum was downstairs, the TV was on in my room and Cagney and Lacey had just started... we didn't even get fully undressed (trousers still around one leg sort of thing)... it was nice, she didn't feel any pain but the only problem was it went on for ages (a curse I still carry with me today unfortunately)! I can remember hearing the ending music to Cagney and Lacey and thinking 'for GOD'S SAKE, COME ON!'
We had to stop eventually and I finished the job off myself while she restyled her large hair in my bedroom mirror (It was the late 80's!).
Ahhh, happy days!
Don't see her anymore but we did go out for about a year after that
Well, I was 18 and so was she (late starter, been playing catch-up since)... we'd been going out together for nearly a year.
We'd fumbled about a bit before but nothing serious... The funny thing was we'd go out for a few months then split up for a week or so... then when we'd get back together we'd move on a stage.
Anyway... it was in my bedroom, my mum was downstairs, the TV was on in my room and Cagney and Lacey had just started... we didn't even get fully undressed (trousers still around one leg sort of thing)... it was nice, she didn't feel any pain but the only problem was it went on for ages (a curse I still carry with me today unfortunately)! I can remember hearing the ending music to Cagney and Lacey and thinking 'for GOD'S SAKE, COME ON!'
We had to stop eventually and I finished the job off myself while she restyled her large hair in my bedroom mirror (It was the late 80's!).
Ahhh, happy days!
Don't see her anymore but we did go out for about a year after that
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Hi Alex,
I'm no psychologist but it sounds like your a bit run down... maybe you need a bit of time to get back into the routine of Uni life again... and maybe there genuinely is more work to do this time round.
Being run down often means you are a bit stressed so make sure you are eating properly, stay off the booze for a bit (although the odd glass of wine might help relax you) and more importantly get LOTS of rest...
You could also try vitamin supplements to help you... you can't beat Pharmaton although they are a bit expensive... ooh, and try St John's Wort if you're feeling a bit down.
Alternatively you could just ask a total stranger from a website for a long slow massage...er... ahem.
Hope that helps, get better soon kiddo!
I'm no psychologist but it sounds like your a bit run down... maybe you need a bit of time to get back into the routine of Uni life again... and maybe there genuinely is more work to do this time round.
Being run down often means you are a bit stressed so make sure you are eating properly, stay off the booze for a bit (although the odd glass of wine might help relax you) and more importantly get LOTS of rest...
You could also try vitamin supplements to help you... you can't beat Pharmaton although they are a bit expensive... ooh, and try St John's Wort if you're feeling a bit down.
Alternatively you could just ask a total stranger from a website for a long slow massage...er... ahem.
Hope that helps, get better soon kiddo!
Warming the Bed
Hmmm, strange.. just a thought here but How did people 'find' the video of Ken Bigleys execution? Was it emailed to them? If so then presumably the person who emailed it to you is known to you and you should extricate the sad fucker from your life pronto.
Or, did you see it on a website and click on the link to start the file playing. Now, if the link said 'fluffy cats playing in the yard' you may be excused, but (and I'm only guessing here), the chances are that whatever site is holding the file is probably telling people what it is 'cos the whole reason the are hosting the video is to get people to their site.
So, how is it that grown up adult people can innocently see an image like that of Ken Bigley's execution?
No, I can't think how either...
I'm a fervent believer in there being NO censorship of the Internet, and i'm assuming that most of the people on this site would totally agree with that sentiment.
What often makes my blood boil is when people go out of their way to find stuff like Bigley's execution then complain about it! You won't find files like that on the BBC's website, or on or MSN... you'd have to go looking for them... and then if you found them you'd HAVE to click on the links...
If you want to see stuff like this then that's your issue, but don't complain about it... otherwise what will happen is you'll add fuel to the debate to censor the 'net and then it won't be long before this and other 'alternative' sites will slowly, one by one, be closed down.
And before i'm criticised for endorsing the posting of the murder i'm not, not at all, my point is that we all know that these things are out there, but fortunately they are well outside the standard sphere of Internet usage.
I apologise if anyone feels i've had a dig at them directly... that's certainly not my intention, and If people wish to debate what's been said i'd be more than happy to listen to their comments.
Or, did you see it on a website and click on the link to start the file playing. Now, if the link said 'fluffy cats playing in the yard' you may be excused, but (and I'm only guessing here), the chances are that whatever site is holding the file is probably telling people what it is 'cos the whole reason the are hosting the video is to get people to their site.
So, how is it that grown up adult people can innocently see an image like that of Ken Bigley's execution?
No, I can't think how either...
I'm a fervent believer in there being NO censorship of the Internet, and i'm assuming that most of the people on this site would totally agree with that sentiment.
What often makes my blood boil is when people go out of their way to find stuff like Bigley's execution then complain about it! You won't find files like that on the BBC's website, or on or MSN... you'd have to go looking for them... and then if you found them you'd HAVE to click on the links...
If you want to see stuff like this then that's your issue, but don't complain about it... otherwise what will happen is you'll add fuel to the debate to censor the 'net and then it won't be long before this and other 'alternative' sites will slowly, one by one, be closed down.
And before i'm criticised for endorsing the posting of the murder i'm not, not at all, my point is that we all know that these things are out there, but fortunately they are well outside the standard sphere of Internet usage.
I apologise if anyone feels i've had a dig at them directly... that's certainly not my intention, and If people wish to debate what's been said i'd be more than happy to listen to their comments.
Warming the Bed
Waaaahey, at last a post I can get REALLY excited about (OK, i'm a nerd, I admit it!)
As a former wholesaler of bandwidth, I can honestly say that in the home market one name stands out and that's Bulldog... no limits, super fast speeds and superb peering arrangements...
I think this website may have been mentioned before but for unbaised (allegedly) advice you should have a
You can compare ISP's there and see who's in your area...
Hope this helps, Bulldog all the way!
DaH...
As a former wholesaler of bandwidth, I can honestly say that in the home market one name stands out and that's Bulldog... no limits, super fast speeds and superb peering arrangements...
I think this website may have been mentioned before but for unbaised (allegedly) advice you should have a
You can compare ISP's there and see who's in your area...
Hope this helps, Bulldog all the way!
DaH...
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Great thread and some great thoughts...
But the real issue, and one most pertinent to readers and subscribers to SH is this...
Have the Bushes and the Blairs ever rattled the bedposts as a foursome? Is there a special dogging section on Bush's ranch, or does TB have swinging parties at Chequers?
I bet that George loves to dress in fine silk undies, and I reckon Cherie has been made watertight by some burly looking guys from the Albanian Diplomatic Mission...
Ah well, if you think about it, it's really obvious they like to swing... 'cos they've been fucking the whole world for the last four years...
I leave you all with the pleasant mental image of GWB rutting away on top of Tony... the two sweating like pigs in a sauna!
But the real issue, and one most pertinent to readers and subscribers to SH is this...
Have the Bushes and the Blairs ever rattled the bedposts as a foursome? Is there a special dogging section on Bush's ranch, or does TB have swinging parties at Chequers?
I bet that George loves to dress in fine silk undies, and I reckon Cherie has been made watertight by some burly looking guys from the Albanian Diplomatic Mission...
Ah well, if you think about it, it's really obvious they like to swing... 'cos they've been fucking the whole world for the last four years...
I leave you all with the pleasant mental image of GWB rutting away on top of Tony... the two sweating like pigs in a sauna!
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Quote by Vix
Not at all Vix, I thought your one in, next one in line was priceless!
U very funny laydeeee
And from now on in, you will be known as SHUnion Sycophancy Officer
Add it to your sig, or face my wrath!!
Done, although I quite like the thought of facing your wrath... Is there any other direction from which to gaze upon your wrath anyway?
Well.... I mean birth plus about five minutes... I think they mistook my boys bits for the umbilical cord... not that I like to brag or anything! Warming the Bed
Ah, the Roundheads vs Cavaliers debate... Well i'm a roundhead, have been since birth... Aesthetically (done without spellcheck!) I prefer mine to the other type... and the little lack of sensitivity means increased longevity (in terms of time spent 'on the job')... ergo, less is best!
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My helmet is extremely well worn although you probably can't tell from my picture in my ad... The problem is when the cover gets wet it gets loose, and then you have to pull it tighter to get it to stay on which causes it to stretch and ultimately become disfigured.
I also haven't washed my helmet for some time, and it's probably got bits of twigs and leaves stuck inside it....
Oh, my mistake... I took the cockshot off my profile
I also haven't washed my helmet for some time, and it's probably got bits of twigs and leaves stuck inside it....
Oh, my mistake... I took the cockshot off my profile
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Quote by Scandal
Hi swalescouple I was "browsing" for a few weeks, was a bit like going swimming, as soon as you get in it's alright! lol
Does that sound mad?:D :D
No, no, not mad at all... in fact I thought people would think me strange for sitting here with my armbands and rubber ring on...
Oh my God... I said rubber ring.... :shock:
I'm going to get slated for that now aren't I?
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Hello Mike,
I think it's a little luck and a little patience (You've been bloody patient I'll give you that!).
I joined recently, but lucked out in a massive way... I did write a previous post about my experience so I won't repeat it.
I concur with Fruity... if this is what you want to do, then never EVER give up.
I think you'd be surprised how many people in the 'real world' are curious about all this but never mention it. Since 'coming out' and telling my friends (both male and female) I've been surprised at the amount of them that have said they want to try it (I've been even more surprised by who has said it!) :shock:
So maybe if you can drop some subtle hints to your friends and see if any bite...
Anyway... not really helping you I know... but these are nice, genuine people (but all nuttier than a Sunpat Factory Warehouse) or so I've found... so go with the flow on the forums and see what comes up.
Best of luck mate!
I think it's a little luck and a little patience (You've been bloody patient I'll give you that!).
I joined recently, but lucked out in a massive way... I did write a previous post about my experience so I won't repeat it.
I concur with Fruity... if this is what you want to do, then never EVER give up.
I think you'd be surprised how many people in the 'real world' are curious about all this but never mention it. Since 'coming out' and telling my friends (both male and female) I've been surprised at the amount of them that have said they want to try it (I've been even more surprised by who has said it!) :shock:
So maybe if you can drop some subtle hints to your friends and see if any bite...
Anyway... not really helping you I know... but these are nice, genuine people (but all nuttier than a Sunpat Factory Warehouse) or so I've found... so go with the flow on the forums and see what comes up.
Best of luck mate!
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Quote by Redbird
Call me an old cynic if you like but they haven't actually met yet
Hi Redbird, your quite right we haven't...but we have spoken at length on the phone, and I can confirm that it is a female, and that the conversation flowed very smoothly... I have little doubt that she is who she said she is... and the photo i've seen shows an attractive young lady.
I can appreciate that you will often get complete timewasers on here... I think in part that's because this is a free site... perhaps there is a case for charging to weed out the wasters from those that seriously want to explore the swinging scene.
I imagine that this has been the topic of many a post in the past... I wonder how the Administrator would feel about a nominal charge if it would help keep the site free of muppets.
: Anyway, as I say, probably a topic for another post...
To get back to the original thread... my point was that if you're new and you don't know what's going on on the site, take your time and work out what you want and what you have to offer and then once you've established your platform get stuck in...
Maybe I was lucky though... I can't wait to find out!
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Quote by Vix
Hi Hamster.
Wanna fLuck?:rotflmao:
Is this some kind of new sexual activity i'm not aware of, or a case of bad spelling? Can I expect to see 'To fLuck' on Call My Bluff in the next few months?
If fLucking is the latest thing for boys and girls (or whatever combination you prefer) to do together can someone please explain what it is, and do I need to purchase some sort of implement?
Oh and Reese, the rabbit is too nervous to try swinging... we tried dogging once and there was this 'incident' with a Jack Russell... terrible business... traumatized for life...
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I think I tenuously raised a related point earlier today... There doesn't seem to be any foxy ladies south of the Watford Gap.
OK, before I get slaughtered here...
What I mean is that the majority of ladies on SH seem to be up north or in the Midlands. I am astonished to hear that there are so many Southern Belles on the site.
C'mon the South! :P
OK, before I get slaughtered here...
What I mean is that the majority of ladies on SH seem to be up north or in the Midlands. I am astonished to hear that there are so many Southern Belles on the site.
C'mon the South! :P
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Quote by RSAB2
Fair play to the North for taking the UK by the hand, leading it into the bedroom, pulling down it's trousers and spanking it into submission!
Come over here and I'll show you this for real :evil2:
Mrs RSAB2 xxx :angel:
And right on cue, as if too prove my point... God bless the Watford Gap, and all who swing north of her
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Quote by Lil_Bunny
Just one thing though, why the hell do u have to be in the south!!!(
Well, that raises an interesting point...
As I mentioned I have been sitting back, quietly deliberating on my plans for world domination... er, sorry, wrong website...
I have been sitting back, quietly researching the site, and I have come to the conclusion that southern women and southern couples seeking guys, are harder to find than Osama Bin Laden in 'Funny Hat and Beard' competition.
What's wrong with the South? Are we all repressed? City living does make you extremely insular, but then you could argue that no-holds barred, no strings attached sex would be the perfect antidote to city life.
Fair play to the North for taking the UK by the hand, leading it into the bedroom, pulling down it's trousers and spanking it into submission!
Oooh, i've come over all unnecessary... waiter, cheque please...
