Well now here we go I like heavy metal and rock but also classical and easy listening. There are some exquisite tunes to make love to out there. Recommend one in particular for those people who are interested the others I keep to myself just in case some ladies want to take this further then just on the board. Enigma their first album ie sadness that is very pleasant starting slow then building up to a climax so sensual you need to hold each other's bodies as your souls were joined just moments ago.
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OneoftheDamned4ever
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Yes it happens yes it works and yes it takes time people need to to get to know you its a fact of life I am a single guy so I wont be meetin loads of couples or single girls but I have had so much fun. I have gone to two munches which are bloody fab places to meet and greet people so find out when one is no near you or close enough for you to get to. It will happen just wait and see.
:shock: Well I am sorry you have had time wasters Fran, it must be because I am not as intelligent as I would like to be but I just cannot understand why there are times wasters. I mean we are all adults and surely are here for a reason and not just to see if we can cause problems for the genuine couples, singles of either sex. I guess I have much to learn.
Fran I wish you all the luck I can spare (not alot at the moment (looks at his little black book (remembers why he doesn't have one)oh well) but whatever luck that is spare is coming your way).
Oh this is to all the people going to the nw munch see you there and to quote the Jesus " Party on Dude"!!!!!!!!!!
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Fran I wish you all the luck I can spare (not alot at the moment (looks at his little black book (remembers why he doesn't have one)oh well) but whatever luck that is spare is coming your way).
Oh this is to all the people going to the nw munch see you there and to quote the Jesus " Party on Dude"!!!!!!!!!!
:twisted: Ok here are my thoughts on this topic. My past is a mess full of attempts that I dont want to go into now, I came on here not knowing what to expect have met some fantastic people and spoken to some fantastic people too. I have chatted to Sappho when she is around and I am always left feeling good, calm, and yet jealous at the same time. Jealous that I have not met her in person (I hope to oneday) and that I have not had her in my life sooner as for me Sappho is a good person I wont forget her kindness and concern for me ever..........
Hello all I am so shocked that you feel that I play a part ( a good part ) in the chat room. I did not expect this response at all. I want to publicly say this, I have done things to myself in the past as I wasn't what I thought people wanted stupid and foolish it may be, but at the time it I did not think so. I am the way I am because of my past as we all are if we are honest our past shapes us it molds us into who we are. There was a philosopher called nietzsche who said "that which does not kill us makes us stronger" I believe that now, I know what it means. I did die but I came back I don't know why but I did. I cant do some forms of relationships as I am afraid to trust like that again but I can do friendship and will hold those people I class as friends to my breast and will be there should they need me. I hope this makes sense. But thank you for your kind comments I wont forget them.
Right I am now upset I have just been told what some of the people I thought I could trust think of me. Dont worry I am not going to name and shame but the ladies that I used to chat too I wont be anymore. I may be not as educated or as good looking and I may seem a bit of a wimp but I am what I am. People can make a joke of me that is their choice but dont expect it not to get it back to me and for me then to continue talking to you again........... I am no longer looking for adult fun I will be going to the nw munch as I like to chat to the guys I know but as for anything else no thank you
Ok well I have done it again I have given out the wrong impression i have made people believe i am looking for a relationship, :shock: I am not I am looking for friends and the odd sexual contact and that is all. I might be overly friendly but that is how I am, I could be "alright love fancy a shag" but I am not. I am me you either like me or you don't you either think I am looking for a g/f or just sex its your choice. I have not meant for that impression to be given but it has so I am sorry. This is so I can make myself clear I am looking for friends to have fun with if that involves sex then that is great but that is all I am looking for. I hope that this clears up the facts alittle I will try to ease off a touch.......... Its not easy getting this right.
Hello all and especially the delightful, sensual sappho, (hear beat increasing body temp rising). Oh stop it calm down. Right yes it is a pleasure to be here in chat rooms and forum, I am so sorry to the ladies that come on to the chat room and as soon as they arrive they are hounded, all I can do is say name and shame and the mods will take the necessary action. I feel that these people are spoiling it for the folks who are here to chat arrange meets etc. and ladies we single males are not all dic* heads well I don't think I am (I hope not anyway) I have spoken to some fantastic people and hope to continue too. I have tried to come to the rescue of some ladies who are being abused by mindless men and I am using the term loosely but some of the ladies handle the situation far better then I ever could (hell hath no fury)...... Well I better be off now just had my post so sorting that out now. Be good people
Hi there all again been in the chat room off and on for a few weeks now, seen some the best and the worse of our race/community the mods do what they can bless them all. But I think we can play a part us mere mortals who enter to have fun and a chat and if we are lucky enough to arrange a meet with those delightful people that come to the room too. What I mean is we can politely tell the persons who are rude disruptive or just down right undesirable, to leave advise new comers its not always a bad place that most of the people who enter the chat room are pretty bloody good peeps. I have chatted with loads of people had a grt time at a munch was fortunate to meet one lady she knows who she is. I am looking forward to meeting said lady again and maybe other ladies in the future, I am trying to tell new comers and veterans this place works and is a great place to come and just chat lets help it to stay that way.
Hi there all I went to my 1st munch Saturday the 20th I had a great time after I found the right table 
I met the tongue and steve d and g and funin and bernie and also a grt cple all of whom are fantastic people who made me feel welcome. I had to leave early but I hope to chat again and maybe go to future munches that are held in london in the new year. I cant wait........
I met the tongue and steve d and g and funin and bernie and also a grt cple all of whom are fantastic people who made me feel welcome. I had to leave early but I hope to chat again and maybe go to future munches that are held in london in the new year. I cant wait........ Oh dear I have given the wrong impression I am a single guy and was saying that there was a few people having a go because I am single whoops sorry I did not make that clear. I will always respect the rules I do not whisper uninvited and I try to put my point of view over without upsetting those involved. Sorry to not have made that clear to those that have responded and thanks for your replies to.
Ok just come out of the chat room and what I nightmare it was people saying how single guys should not be allowed as we are not swingers. trying to explain that there are couples who come into the rooms looking for single guys and single girls is why there are single guys in the chat room did not go down well with some people. Then the chat just collapsed then. To the hosts how do you keep eveyone happy there are couples who want single guys in the chat room there couples who dont there couples who just want single girls in the chat room (go figure). I thought the caht room was for everyone who wanted adult fun time irrespective of gender or marrital status if this is not the case can we single persons male and female be pointed in the right direction for OUR ADULT FUN.
Hi there sorry you had loads of emails from peoplw Wanting sex tell me where etc...... but it goes with the teritory from what I can tell only been doing sort of swinging for a week now learning from couples I have met about how many guys push in so to speak so they have to shut the door (this was at a club) anyway hope you all have a grt time.
