Hello lovely_lips and welcome to SH!
It's a nice idea organising a bi-fem Munch, but it might be an idea to get yourself known on the site first, particularly by posting in the Cafe. Let members get to know you, and they will be far more likely to join you for a social meet as a group. I'm sure you'll have no problem organising one to one meets in this forum, but a social one requires organisation and people knowing something of the organiser.
We have several experienced Munch organisers on the site who I'm sure would be willing to advise you.
Meanwhile, have fun in the fora!
Sappho xxx
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Definitely the secretary avatar - sexy with a hint of mystery.
There's also the danger of double standards encouraging tit pics and not dick pics - which has been argued before several times. From my point of view, I'd rather not have either on display; I don't think it's necessary and in fact can detract from the quality and perception of an individual's posts. Having said that, I really like Dawn-Mids' avatar because it has an element of humour in it. A static picture of a pair of breasts thrust into the eyeline is as overpowering as an erect penis - and can be as off-putting.
Sappho (who has very small breasts and is speaking purely from envy!) xxx
There's also the danger of double standards encouraging tit pics and not dick pics - which has been argued before several times. From my point of view, I'd rather not have either on display; I don't think it's necessary and in fact can detract from the quality and perception of an individual's posts. Having said that, I really like Dawn-Mids' avatar because it has an element of humour in it. A static picture of a pair of breasts thrust into the eyeline is as overpowering as an erect penis - and can be as off-putting.
Sappho (who has very small breasts and is speaking purely from envy!) xxx
How do you encourage him? In two words - you don't.
This guy really has to get his head together and concentrate on his marriage, whatever the result - conciliation or divorce. Only then can he be in an informed position about whether to join you for a threesome. If his marriage is reconciled, you may find he really doesn't want to join you after all.
I totally agree with my esteemed colleagues. You need to take some responsibility here and back off until the times are more appropriate.
Sappho
This guy really has to get his head together and concentrate on his marriage, whatever the result - conciliation or divorce. Only then can he be in an informed position about whether to join you for a threesome. If his marriage is reconciled, you may find he really doesn't want to join you after all.
I totally agree with my esteemed colleagues. You need to take some responsibility here and back off until the times are more appropriate.
Sappho
Hello Luke and welcome to SH!
You are definitely in the right place, but there are no certainties in the swinging world, so I suggest you exercise a little patience and join in the threads here and in the Cafe. Get yourself known on the forum and at the same time get to know all of us. We're a very varied crowd and a lot of fun!
With regard to people viewing your ad, yes, people can access it from here - if you tell them what the ad number is! Have a look at Kitkat's thread on this forum called 'Linking to your advert'; it tells you how to insert a direct link to your ad which you can insert into your signature.
Have fun in the fora and i hope you find what you're looking for.
Sappho xxx
You are definitely in the right place, but there are no certainties in the swinging world, so I suggest you exercise a little patience and join in the threads here and in the Cafe. Get yourself known on the forum and at the same time get to know all of us. We're a very varied crowd and a lot of fun!
With regard to people viewing your ad, yes, people can access it from here - if you tell them what the ad number is! Have a look at Kitkat's thread on this forum called 'Linking to your advert'; it tells you how to insert a direct link to your ad which you can insert into your signature.
Have fun in the fora and i hope you find what you're looking for.
Sappho xxx
For the attention of Fun365, Davej and Sgt Bilko.
Gentlemen, despite your protestations I still detect overtones of sinful levity in your posts. You really are not taking this seriously enough. Todger whacking and flinger slamming are but fleeting little incidents and they don't stop you smiling, now do they? Davej intimated as much in his post that he had to repeatedly punish himself.
In my latest incarnation with the jackboots, leather basque and whip, I feel I should be the one to chastise you unmercifully for your propensities to giggle, smirk and chortle. I have no doubt that several of the ladies of this forum take a similarly dim view and will lend a hand, literally, in bringing you all to a state of puritan grace.
Line up gentlemen and take your punishment. :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Sappho the Merciless xxx
Gentlemen, despite your protestations I still detect overtones of sinful levity in your posts. You really are not taking this seriously enough. Todger whacking and flinger slamming are but fleeting little incidents and they don't stop you smiling, now do they? Davej intimated as much in his post that he had to repeatedly punish himself.
In my latest incarnation with the jackboots, leather basque and whip, I feel I should be the one to chastise you unmercifully for your propensities to giggle, smirk and chortle. I have no doubt that several of the ladies of this forum take a similarly dim view and will lend a hand, literally, in bringing you all to a state of puritan grace.
Line up gentlemen and take your punishment. :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Sappho the Merciless xxx
Benj,
Can you clarify what you mean by
Surely you're implying a charge will be made, and as such that isn't allowed on this forum.
Please read the AUP sticky at the top of the page. Can you assure members that no charge will be made whatsoever?
Also (getting picky here), don't write in capitals - it's the electronic equivalent of shouting and is considered rude.
Sappho
Can you clarify what you mean by
PLEASE NOTE THAT THIS EVENT IS FREE BUT WE WILL HAVE TO COVER COSTS I.E. VENUE ETC.
Surely you're implying a charge will be made, and as such that isn't allowed on this forum.
Please read the AUP sticky at the top of the page. Can you assure members that no charge will be made whatsoever?
Also (getting picky here), don't write in capitals - it's the electronic equivalent of shouting and is considered rude.
Sappho
Hmm, enjoyable holiday reading? Romance, a little excitement, comedy, not too heavy?
It has to be Erica James. She's written seven books: my favourite is the appropriately titled The Holiday; there is also Airs and Graces, Time for a Change and Act of Faith that I can remember off the top of my head. Hidden Talents is brilliant. James' books could be described as chick lit or recreational reading but she writes with humour, intelligence and insight, good storylines and defined characters.
For something with less romance, but more mystery and excitement, try Dan Brown's The Da Vinci Code. Unputdownable. Well written with definitive shades of Umberto Eco, though more accessible.
I agree with Tune Essence; you cannot beat Jane Austen, an author I read religiously every year. Also Wilkie Collins' The Moonstone, The Woman in White, No Name and The Evil Genius among many. (I'm working on getting Will hooked on Collins and i think it's working!)
Have a great holiday Jezzay!
Sappho xxx
It has to be Erica James. She's written seven books: my favourite is the appropriately titled The Holiday; there is also Airs and Graces, Time for a Change and Act of Faith that I can remember off the top of my head. Hidden Talents is brilliant. James' books could be described as chick lit or recreational reading but she writes with humour, intelligence and insight, good storylines and defined characters.
For something with less romance, but more mystery and excitement, try Dan Brown's The Da Vinci Code. Unputdownable. Well written with definitive shades of Umberto Eco, though more accessible.
I agree with Tune Essence; you cannot beat Jane Austen, an author I read religiously every year. Also Wilkie Collins' The Moonstone, The Woman in White, No Name and The Evil Genius among many. (I'm working on getting Will hooked on Collins and i think it's working!)
Have a great holiday Jezzay!
Sappho xxx
Next time, no hair gel in the mix please! I'm sure we can work on alternatives... Hello Phantom and welcome to SH.
To express interest in the next McMunch you'll need to post on that thread - it keeps all those interested in the same place and makes it easier for the organisers. All venue details about munches are PM'd to attendees about a week before the munch date.
As for a Scottish forum, you'll find that all those who expressed interest in the original Edinburgh munch and the latest being planned actually created one in the thread. If you want a specific forum, rather than a thread, you may want to take that up by PM with the Site Administrator, Mark.
Whilst we'd all agree we have to take geography into account, I'm not sure there is the need for national segregation!
Have fun in the forum.
Sappho
To express interest in the next McMunch you'll need to post on that thread - it keeps all those interested in the same place and makes it easier for the organisers. All venue details about munches are PM'd to attendees about a week before the munch date.
As for a Scottish forum, you'll find that all those who expressed interest in the original Edinburgh munch and the latest being planned actually created one in the thread. If you want a specific forum, rather than a thread, you may want to take that up by PM with the Site Administrator, Mark.
Whilst we'd all agree we have to take geography into account, I'm not sure there is the need for national segregation!
Have fun in the forum.
Sappho
Lucky Corrie!
Co-ordinated separates, a bit of evening glamour, and something warm for cool evenings.
If you're planning on visiting religious sites (churches, etc) at all, don't forget something to cover up with - in some places that can include arms as well as legs.
Have a wonderful time!
Sappho xxx
Co-ordinated separates, a bit of evening glamour, and something warm for cool evenings.
If you're planning on visiting religious sites (churches, etc) at all, don't forget something to cover up with - in some places that can include arms as well as legs.
Have a wonderful time!
Sappho xxx
Perfect,
May I be the first to thank you most sincerely for the offer of your body? A truly selfless act which must only be appreciated by the deprived single fems out there?
You see, there are gentlemen willing to sacrifice themselves to further the cause of swinging.
Sappho xxx
PS: Great idea!
May I be the first to thank you most sincerely for the offer of your body? A truly selfless act which must only be appreciated by the deprived single fems out there?
You see, there are gentlemen willing to sacrifice themselves to further the cause of swinging.
Sappho xxx
PS: Great idea!
Lucky old Sarge! I've just had chaste hugs and overly familiar cuddling - lovely though they were!
Warwick wrote:
... and you think the Sarge isn't? All that engine oil and gun rubbing must do something to him; I've seen the emoticons get bigger and bigger over the last few months!
Love the perfectly sane
Sappho xxx
Warwick wrote:
Congratulations to both just please please dont let the loony lizard ever become a mod
( for truly he is as mad as a box of frogs)
... and you think the Sarge isn't? All that engine oil and gun rubbing must do something to him; I've seen the emoticons get bigger and bigger over the last few months!
Love the perfectly sane
Sappho xxx Quote by tee_em_aitch
Just wondering what the consensus on here is about people asking to see pic of my "best mate" as part of a first contact.
my thoughts are that they sound like they are just picture collectors and not genuine - but then I'm new to this so what do I know
any thoughts
If people are only interested in your penis and not in you, what does this tell you? A dick is a dick is a dick; but you are a person, and having viewed your ad, obviously someone with a mind, a personality and more to offer a meet than an erection.
If something cylindrical and hard is all that's required, there are several vegetables of an appropriate shape.
Sappho xxx
