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banlwales
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 61
Straight Female, 61
0 miles · Caerphilly
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Master of Sex
Fascinating topic....
we have a weekly wheelie collection and a fortnightly recycling collection (paper, glass, plastic and tins) though our bin only goes out fortnightly 'cos it's not used much.
We compost all vegetable and cardboard waste, refuse extra packaging and don't use ready meals. We assume that by the responses in this thread these packaging extras must contribute hugely to the disposal issue...?
However, our binmen will take anything placed with the bin like the post xmas big boxes etc.
we have a weekly wheelie collection and a fortnightly recycling collection (paper, glass, plastic and tins) though our bin only goes out fortnightly 'cos it's not used much.
We compost all vegetable and cardboard waste, refuse extra packaging and don't use ready meals. We assume that by the responses in this thread these packaging extras must contribute hugely to the disposal issue...?
However, our binmen will take anything placed with the bin like the post xmas big boxes etc.
Master of Sex
Quote by johnnyrubs
Does anyone know of any natural foods or otherways of increasing the amount of spunk on ejaculation besides leaving sex alone for a couple of days--I can't do that!!:
Can i ask the obvious question.....why...?
Clearly, for you, more is desirable....what do you intend doing with it...?
:?:
Master of Sex
Quote by Steve_Mids
If a room said "no Welsh" then you're asking for trouble. But "no cams" is very legitimate.
Not when you consider that its a cam based chat facility.
Well we must have missed the bit about obligatory cams, we thought it was flash based. Sounds like the chatroom rules need re-writing to scrap the "uninvited PM's are bad" clause and add a new one "objecting to the use of cams is forbidden."
Wonder if this is how the Third Reich started..?
:?:
Master of Sex
Quote by Lilmiss
Confused....?? Me too
Well i'm with you on this one Lilmiss.
If you've a kick button, use it.
The AUP has given us a lovely phrase..."If it's unfriendly, you're not welcome"
Whispering and camming when asked not to seems pretty unfriendly to me. There are ample rooms to whip your knob out in or pester people in and it's nice to find a room without such hassles.
As Sean said recently.....Respect is a bit thin on the ground..!
If a room said "no Welsh" then you're asking for trouble. But "no cams" is very legitimate.
: Master of Sex
Quote by jin55
my advice is take a photo of all those lovely colours you get before they fade. i wish i had its better than new england in the fall.
bonytony
did you do yours yourself then....?
Mine had an elastoplast on for an evening then was fine apart from the obvious tenderness of having had a scalpel shoved in your scrotum.
However a friend did have a huge swelling that he could have balanced his cup of tea on.
The great advantage, of course, was that sly wanking became legitimate, the wife's desire to come off the pill meant that she was as keen as me to end up with clean tubes. The resulting shag frenzy has then carried on unabated ever since...so much in fact that we've ended up on sites like this...!!
Highly recommended...!
Master of Sex
Quote by dadger
I Have just had a snip ( vasectomy ) on friday how long should i waite till i cum
erm..if i remember..as soon as it doesn't make your eyes water to touch it.
Then as often as possible to clear out your tubes...!
You don't want the embarrassment of taking a 3rd sample back...!
Master of Sex
Quote by Rainbows
Currently signed up to this site we have the following : -
1...Swingers
2...Doggers
3...Quick shag seekees
So - I ask you - debate nicely and decently - what is the difference?
This one's easy.....
1...Swinging..We've nearly 400,000 members and they all define swinging as what it means to them....some of the 400,000 will of course have the same definition.
2...Dogging..We've nearly 400,000 members and they all define dogging as what it means to them....some of the 400,000 will of course have the same definition.
3...Quick Shag..We've nearly 400,000 members and they all fancy a quick shag.
I think that's as straight-forward as it gets..!
Master of Sex
Quote by gingerjo-lee
chat rooms r for chattin in and arranging things i think
Fair point, though i don't think it is as specific as that. I've always regarded them as another way of getting to know other people in the scene. Digital socializing so to speak.
Quote by gingerjo-lee
not for quiz'z there are lots of quiz chat rooms on the net
There are lots of chat rooms period. Unlike some the SH room has the option of creating new rooms which could be used for many uses...subject to AUP of course..!
Cheers..!!
Master of Sex
Quote by blonde
So you are gonna open a quiz chatroom ?
Sounds like a giggle to me
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Well I certainly don't mind gettin' the ball rolling.
But don't for a minute think i'm gonna be spending all my free time in a chatroom pretending to be Magnus Magnusson.
Master of Sex
Don't want to sound too geeky but I'm canvassing opinions for regular or otherwise quiz nites in chat.
Fingers on buttons sort of stuff, trivia, music whatever takes peoples fancy..?
Does this appeal to the masses or are we talking lead balloon here..?
Has it been tried before prior to our recent membership..?
All comments welcome.
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Fingers on buttons sort of stuff, trivia, music whatever takes peoples fancy..?
Does this appeal to the masses or are we talking lead balloon here..?
Has it been tried before prior to our recent membership..?
All comments welcome.
:!:
Master of Sex
Quote by firelizard
And thought that swingers, doggers swappers call them what you will must hold very liberal views on sex and sexual matters. It’s clear however that many people hold views not dissimilar to “Joe public†and can even be a little hostile and prudish to those that they see as not being “ just like meâ€.
Now you know why we've the gif in our signature..!
It's a product of 4 years in the scene.
There's never a dull moment is there..?
Master of Sex
Quote by Lilmiss
Sorry.... but i found that disgusting.... I was alway's lead to believe prostituting was when a female got paid for sex????? Since when did it change?
Showing whatever 1 choose's to show on cam is NOT or nowhere near prostituting.
Without gettin' too geeky, there are various definitions available...however...they all tend to involve the exchange of money.
I'm sure a much better word could have been used that was not quite so offensive.
Even so I would say that the gist is valid...?
Master of Sex
Quote by
I just found myself writing love in another thread, so I am starting this one.
I like thinking about my wife have fun, no not just that all kinds of fun.
So i ask myself is it that people who swing do not love, have not found love, or do they love more.
I think I love my wife because I can see her having fun with out me. I do not own her, I love her.
so here I am, that's what I think.....What do you think?
I think you shouldn't put sex and love in the same basket.
They are separate entities that meet up every now and again.
I know my memory is fading but I definately remember swinging as a sex thing.
true but sometimes they meet and when they do it's wonderful.
erm...maybe, but I love my dogs and, erm, well, erm...i'm just not going there..!!!!
Master of Sex
Quote by cplbbw
yes the chat rooms are crap its full of vulgar men getting kicks from watching the cams .....
its a crying shame we cant just get on and do what we are here for
HAVING SOME FUN!!!
Whilst it is common sense that most will agree with you, you must bear in mind that of the 400,000ish members, some who are paying, vulgar men getting kicks from webcams may well be doing exactly what THEY'RE here for..??? :cry:
YES and that is why as i said
if its your thing fine use the chat rooms if its not then dont use them ITS THAT SIMPLE
if your gona quote me then quote it in full!!!!!!!
Sorry cplbbw...not having a go honest.
I just love a good debate. I love to try and understand people's alternate opinions and like to see things from a new viewpoint.
I suppose in some ways that's what WE'RE here for..!!
What's puerile to us might be stimulating to others....who's to say.
: Master of Sex
Quote by bi_the_sea
you know there's someone up there checking this post against the AUP and fiddling with his big key..!!
:shock:
Apologies if this overstepped the mark - i didnt mean any offence!
wasn't advocating murder, just wanted to see other people's opinions on these wonderful 'leaders' of ours!
Sorry all!
Well i'm not in the slightest bit offended.
Well I am, but only 'cos you've limited us to two barrels..........it aint nearly enough.!!!
Master of Sex
Quote by cplbbw
yes the chat rooms are crap its full of vulgar men getting kicks from watching the cams .....
its a crying shame we cant just get on and do what we are here for
HAVING SOME FUN!!!
Whilst it is common sense that most will agree with you, you must bear in mind that of the 400,000ish members, some who are paying, vulgar men getting kicks from webcams may well be doing exactly what THEY'RE here for..??? :cry:
Master of Sex
Well this post has certainly got to a few people hasn't it..?
Sean's comments pretty much hit the nail on the head with regard to good old fashioned "respect" though i feel it might be a tad Utopian.
There are nearly 400,000 people on this site and statistically that means a lot of trouble.
Every area of this site is voluntary. You don't have to post, read, enter chatrooms, watch cams, perform on cams. Your ad can be huge and informative or thin and worthless.
It's my opinion that you take out of it what you put in. The AUP covers the entire site and the powers that be already have the authority to discipline people. Whether there should be cam free rooms, single free rooms etc for the chatroom who knows..? Surely this is where the 400,000 need to make themselves heard.
The owners now have this as a money making site and need to listen to their customers.
To just call the site "bullshit" is obviously not constructive. Yes the chatrooms are full of wankers but the forums seem a friendly place.
There's only so much the owners can do, it's the community itself that needs to be in relative unity. Yes, it's a sex site but the anonymity of the keyboard shouldn't be an excuse for bad manners and thoughtlessness.
You would expect that the longer SH is a pay site the better the quality of members. I can't for a minute imagine that the ill mannered dregs of society are going to pay heavily just to spend the morning wanking over a fuzzy webcam.
It's certainly going to be interesting how this all develops..!
:idea:
Sean's comments pretty much hit the nail on the head with regard to good old fashioned "respect" though i feel it might be a tad Utopian.
There are nearly 400,000 people on this site and statistically that means a lot of trouble.
Every area of this site is voluntary. You don't have to post, read, enter chatrooms, watch cams, perform on cams. Your ad can be huge and informative or thin and worthless.
It's my opinion that you take out of it what you put in. The AUP covers the entire site and the powers that be already have the authority to discipline people. Whether there should be cam free rooms, single free rooms etc for the chatroom who knows..? Surely this is where the 400,000 need to make themselves heard.
The owners now have this as a money making site and need to listen to their customers.
To just call the site "bullshit" is obviously not constructive. Yes the chatrooms are full of wankers but the forums seem a friendly place.
There's only so much the owners can do, it's the community itself that needs to be in relative unity. Yes, it's a sex site but the anonymity of the keyboard shouldn't be an excuse for bad manners and thoughtlessness.
You would expect that the longer SH is a pay site the better the quality of members. I can't for a minute imagine that the ill mannered dregs of society are going to pay heavily just to spend the morning wanking over a fuzzy webcam.
It's certainly going to be interesting how this all develops..!
:idea:
