Bonnie and I have been wondering this and have decided the best approach may be to find our own if we take the dogging plunge. If it turns out the site is already used then fine if not we could always invite. Maybe you could take the same approach theres always couples looking for safe places.
I really hope thats one of those crazy tihngs on the internet that people just stumble upon. Not something you thought to yourself, hey I know what I'll google.
I think rents should be paid directly to the landlord due to some of the issues raised here but lets not forget, people who are not on benefits can have addictions or social issues aswell that could lead them to spending there worked for income. Resulting in loss of housing or mortgages not being paid it happens in all walks of life.
As somebody else mentioned it's down to the responsible attitude of the tenant thats where the issue is, not the governments policy of letting the tenant decide who the rent is paid to.
It's a difficult subject and quite possibly the only effective answer is payment to landlords for housing benefit claimants.
Witchy got this bang on I think. I'm sure nobody would find the distress sufferers of this condition suffer funny. However the innapropriate times and places the outbursts etc can happen could be funny.
Nem, I'm sorry you feel as you do but nobody is saying there proud to laugh at such things. I think the discussion is more why we laugh at such things. I think on a lower scale it's like laughing at someone who falls over in snow. A mishap but we laugh, the laughing would stop I'm sure if they got up head gushing with blood.
Just wondering how many people have actually chatted briefly online or seen an add, been feeling in the mood and thought sod it and invited a single or a couple around to there home without having actually met them in the flesh previously. You know, sort of on impulse and without planning. I imagine theres more couples done it on a night out. Just felt horny and took some lucky chap, lady or couple home. But I'm more thinking on an SH level.
It's not something we are actually planning but this question popped into my head as theres times when we all probably feel really in the mood for playing and think it would be nice to have someone else here right now or within the next hour but are obviously not in the environment for that to happen.
Also even if it was on impulse would a criteria other than the usual hygiene etc have been met. For example a regular well known poster on the forums or a well known member from the chat rooms.
I don't know if this has been asked before so appologies if it has but can't find anything on it.
B&C
I'm 37 and Bonnie is 34 and of course theres days when we all feel knackered but generally I don't feel old and I dare say I'm not and nowhere near.
However, I was cleaning out some old stuff when I came across a vinyl single and thought to myself I haven't even got a turntable anymore. My 14 year old son looked at me and said what have you got there dad so I just held it up, his response. "Oh I know what that is" as if I didn't but awited the genius input that all 14 year olds believe they posess, "thats an old fashoined cd". I laughed of course but thought shit doesn't time fly, I remeber spinning this.
As long as it's legal and nobody is getting hurt then I wouldn't condemn any porn it's whatever floats your boat. There was a time I wouldn't consider watching male bi porn but Bonnie loves it and I found myself strangely aroused when I watched with her.
Best file shredder of all is Cyberscrub. It's level 3 US cleared or something. It gaurantees to destroy files beyond forensic recovery so even if you sold it to Scotland Yard you should be ok.
Wasn't it Sir Ranulph that amputated his own finger tips in the garden shed ? They had frostbite from an expedition and his doctor was treating them but when at home he kept knocking them and I believe he said "they hurt like buggery so I decided they had to go". Thats fkin hard.
Both myself and Bonnie have always been very open minded about sex. I can say always... well almost always as we first had a relationship in our teens, we broke up married idiots, divorced said idiots and ended up back together. So we know what we were like as teens and as 30 somethings. Even as teens we fantasised about involving others in our sex lives. I had my first mmf encounter aged about 17 or 18 before I met Bonnie and Bonnie has had an mmf encounter between getting divorced and getting back with me. so I would say yes we've always been "sexual adventurers".
I think it also helps if you can differentiate between love and sex. Yes the two obviously go hand in hand but they are not exclusive to each other. We both love sex and also love each other absolutely so were comfortable not denying each other pleasure if the right oppurtunities arise. It doesn't make a person a man tart or a slut it just means they know what they like and embracee it.
Did I drone on.... probably... Clyde.
I think it would all depend how much you've chatted online before you meet as to how the conversation begins. If you pretty much know everything there is to know about a person you meet that could be difficult as to where to start conversation as questions after introduction can be good to get things started.
The approach you mention Lost or anything close to that is going to get a quick response and us leaving. First impressions do matter hugely even if you've known a person as a cyber friend for a long time that first physical meeting is important.
So for us a meet would have to be polite, friendly and I think if the conversation swings around to sex which all going well it would, then it can be done humourously or gently or even bluntly. Just not crudely.
Haven't used a condom in years, I've been with Bonnie along time but know exactly what your talking about. If it's dark it sort of kills the moment with comments like "Sorry but do you mind if I pop the light on to sort this damn mac out before it twangs on my balls"
Regards barebacking, I just wouldn't without knowing somebody really well and abit about there sexual history. It beats my knob feeling like it's going to drop off or worse still something you can't get rid of.
Clyde
I had around £2000 worth of jewelry stolen recently and that was mates rates estimate you could almost double the price for the shop window. My childrens things some of which were birth gifts and virtually all my stuff.
Worst thing about this is that it has to be someone I know. I wasn't burgalled and a sneak thief may get in but only through the back which means with my dog they are not getting out again without something remaining behind.
I've always been a good friend whenever I can. I've given bags of food out of my cupboards and freezer to mates that have had nothing in the past. Given money when I haven't enough myself and generally been there whenever I'm needed for a shoulder to cry on. One person that knew me for about 6 months recently said I'm the best mate he'd ever had, it could even be him so as you can imagine it's a real head fu*k.
Bonnie was just as hurt as I was fortunately she didn't lose anything as she's not really a jewelry wearer, only like myself trust. We don't even like to talk to people about it as we may be confiding in the thief.
I've even given people the chance to give it back anonymously and thought to myself I would forgive them for they must have been desperate to steal from me.
I do have my suspicions but what can you do.
Clyde
Bonnie and I prefer KFC out of the given options but we recently had a subway for the first time, just never thought to try them for some reason. We reall liked them for a quick bite to eat.
I'm on broadband, even hitting refresh can take a few attempts and a few minutes. At5 least I know it's not a problem my end if others are having issues.
Hi all just wondering is anyone else having a problem connecting to SH at anytime ? Theres been a few times over the last day or so I've had "503 - Service Not Available" when trying to connect. All my other sites load up ok.
Ah well beaten to the crackling joke lol.
I don't think Bonnie really has any phobias, she doesn't like cotton wool though. Myself I can't stand frogs I think theyr're a bloody stupid idea and someone should be sacked. Problem is our neighbours have a pond and on quite a few occasions our dog has brought a lost frog into the house. So my phobia brought into the house giblets hanging out.
I would have thought somebodys status was somehow automatic. If your logged on then your status would reflect that. well thats what I thought but I've just noticed we received a pm today "2009-05-05 19:23:14" but it says the sender last seen 3 days ago. Can't say it worries me though, it's more interesting me to see if one of the techie sorts can explain, someone from the whats your forte thread might be able to prove themselves here lol.
Having money on Man Utd to win at Arsenal 3-1 at odds of 28/1.
Wow this thread is old now but I remembered posting it wayyyyyy back. So just to bring it to the fore again. Is Donny dead and if so then daytime fun would probably be a big ask but someone may have stumbled upon somewhere thats out of the way and seldom visited by anyone ?
For me it's the mother of all gadgets and probably isn't even regarded as a gadget by most people anymore. The thing that sits in almmost every living room in the land along with a large percentage of bedrooms and quite a few kitchens and even the odd bathroom and car. Have you sussed it.... The television remote control. If I'm bored and theres nothing on tv I can spend an hour on the teletext or just channel surfing.
As for a worst gadget I haven't really got one. Maybe ipods / mp3 players when I'm trying to communicate with my teenage kids. They often nod but thats usually just to the music. There again communication with my teenage kids without there ipods can be difficult.
Well it's been along time and we thought we'd drop in and say hi. We sort of got fucked over by a so called "friend" so thought we'd stay away from the lifestyle for a while. Anyways we've decided we might start having a nosey around again with a view to possibly dipping a toe now and again. Oh and this time we've upped some pics to our profile which as I write are probably still awaiting approval.
Soooo hows everyone doing ?
J & K
. However we have added more pics so sod it it's both. The private ones are better though hehe.
and a couple of winkers that have at least taken the time to modify theere winks. I know theres probably people out there thinking is that all lol, especially the single ladies. Not sure how extras works in relationship to our profile but wondering does it somehow make us jump out a little more. This is probably a really dumb ass question with an obvious answer in which case Bonnies ass is exposed for a firm cyber slap.
