Definitely got more to discover .. scoring a mere 477 :smile2:
more practice required :evil2:
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Definitely got more to discover .. scoring a mere 477 :smile2:
more practice required :evil2:
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casmackitty
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 74
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Definitely got more to discover .. scoring a mere 477 :smile2:
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Never an easy decision for any one to make or to come to terms with after trying hard to resolve the issues.
Agree with kfn it does take time.. Been a solo now for 12 years and it took me quite a few to rediscover myself.
Mind look where I have ended up
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Agree with kfn it does take time.. Been a solo now for 12 years and it took me quite a few to rediscover myself.
Mind look where I have ended up
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Mature you not alone in the problem was once told by a member ....... " I only look at the photos never read profiles"
Kiss you have it one hun :thumbup:
Kiss you have it one hun :thumbup:
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wmxcpl can only repeat very much the same as others... got with your gut instinct.
Been along same road with a supposed couple and the she never turned up!!!! I should have listened to my warning bells then.....Though will do in future.
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Been along same road with a supposed couple and the she never turned up!!!! I should have listened to my warning bells then.....Though will do in future.
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Lucy I have to admit that milestone was passed by me a few years ago!
Yet have become far more active and adventurous since then :twisted:
SH has merely brought out a different facet and more opportunities enjoy life far more. :evil2:
It is true that age is just a number however as the counter clicks onward have to accept the odd creak etc of the body.
Have discovered got far more patience and tolerance now than did when younger. Along with far fewer inhibitions. :smile2:
I recall the reaction from my brother when I told him on reaching 30 he was now one foot in the grave!!!
In hindsight should have said on step out of it.
Now I live for today and worry about tomorrow when it arrives. As for yesterday, well that's over and nothing can be changed now so no point in worrying any more. Just learn any lesson from it and try not to repeat the same mistake.
Unless of course you liked it
Yet have become far more active and adventurous since then :twisted:
SH has merely brought out a different facet and more opportunities enjoy life far more. :evil2:
It is true that age is just a number however as the counter clicks onward have to accept the odd creak etc of the body.
Have discovered got far more patience and tolerance now than did when younger. Along with far fewer inhibitions. :smile2:
I recall the reaction from my brother when I told him on reaching 30 he was now one foot in the grave!!!
In hindsight should have said on step out of it.
Now I live for today and worry about tomorrow when it arrives. As for yesterday, well that's over and nothing can be changed now so no point in worrying any more. Just learn any lesson from it and try not to repeat the same mistake.
Unless of course you liked it
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ooh no domestics pls :smile2:
Not sure my kiss it better certificate up to date :evil2:
Not sure my kiss it better certificate up to date :evil2:
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That's all we ask for
Some honesty regarding the situation
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Some honesty regarding the situation
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Hey T&T any chance of yet another newbie being included on the list for 10th pls 
one way of an early birthday party!
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one way of an early birthday party!
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Hey T&T any chance of yet another newbie being included on the list for 10th pls
one way of an early birthday party!
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one way of an early birthday party!
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Am in total agreement with RedHot's reply regarding being judgmental on others.
For whatever reason each of us joined this site we are all here for basically the same thing which is to enjoy our lives they way we want to lead it. Would it be right if someone wanted to judge us merely because we have a different view to sexual liberation than they have?
Society is all to quick to put labels on people yet here each are treated as individuals and above all else we can be open with each other about our choice.
As for naming and shaming a married man merely because he's a member of the site and for what ever reason doesn't wish his family to know. Would any of us like to be 'outed' because of our membership on here?
I think not!
It's a very difficult decision to make if ever going to tell vanilla friends in our lives about this side of us. Many would/could not understand our reasons for being here so leaving them in ignorance is often easier for them.
Only one final note personally I do find it a shame when people who join as a couple but then break up they frequently fail to change their membership status back to single.
Have encountered this a couple of times and the person concerned admit they are now a single and will change status shortly yet a couple of months later are still around as a couple.
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ps. being fairly new the forum myself it's often not easy to work out what place to use for a posting. Though suspect the Cafe would have been a better place for this thread yet we all have to start somewhere and no doubt I'll make a few more errr mistakes too. Sure some of the regulars to the forum will help out when I do. :smile:
For whatever reason each of us joined this site we are all here for basically the same thing which is to enjoy our lives they way we want to lead it. Would it be right if someone wanted to judge us merely because we have a different view to sexual liberation than they have?
Society is all to quick to put labels on people yet here each are treated as individuals and above all else we can be open with each other about our choice.
As for naming and shaming a married man merely because he's a member of the site and for what ever reason doesn't wish his family to know. Would any of us like to be 'outed' because of our membership on here?
I think not!
It's a very difficult decision to make if ever going to tell vanilla friends in our lives about this side of us. Many would/could not understand our reasons for being here so leaving them in ignorance is often easier for them.
Only one final note personally I do find it a shame when people who join as a couple but then break up they frequently fail to change their membership status back to single.
Have encountered this a couple of times and the person concerned admit they are now a single and will change status shortly yet a couple of months later are still around as a couple.
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ps. being fairly new the forum myself it's often not easy to work out what place to use for a posting. Though suspect the Cafe would have been a better place for this thread yet we all have to start somewhere and no doubt I'll make a few more errr mistakes too. Sure some of the regulars to the forum will help out when I do. :smile:
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Oh yes and there are some great single guys on sh
It does take time and helps if they make a reasonable first approach.
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It does take time and helps if they make a reasonable first approach.
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Agree with you there Bi regarding cams there is always plenty to choose from.
Some people do not have brilliant lighting conditions in the evenings and perhaps don't have the flexibility to move cams around.
Others maybe prefer the more subtle lighting as possibly a tad shy initially.
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Some people do not have brilliant lighting conditions in the evenings and perhaps don't have the flexibility to move cams around.
Others maybe prefer the more subtle lighting as possibly a tad shy initially.
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Working with computer in days when they took up large rooms. Vowed never to go close to a computer again.
Where did I go wrong as sitting at one now. :shock:
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Where did I go wrong as sitting at one now. :shock:
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As yet have never encountered an Op who hasn't solved any major problem which has occurred in rooms I've been in. Even though I have sat silently fuming at the treatment they have got along with other roomies.
Harder after such disturbances is to stop roomies keep going on about what has happened and therefore prevent room settling back down again. Yet provided everyone agrees to let the matter rest then it sure can.
Have rarely had to resort to using the kick button preferring to allow the person a chance to settle down after any necessary warning.
As for rooms I have run all have been made welcome and certainly do not discriminate by sexual orientation or gender.
Many a time I have stayed up later than planned when hosting a room so everybody can have fun and enjoy the evening. Yes being a host has a certain amount of satisfaction but temper that with the odd abusive comment thrown our hey got a fairly thick skin and those sort of comments tend to bounce off.
Why let the odd one or two spoil it for the majority.
Ooops here I go again on that soap box!! Honest stepped off it again now.
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Harder after such disturbances is to stop roomies keep going on about what has happened and therefore prevent room settling back down again. Yet provided everyone agrees to let the matter rest then it sure can.
Have rarely had to resort to using the kick button preferring to allow the person a chance to settle down after any necessary warning.
As for rooms I have run all have been made welcome and certainly do not discriminate by sexual orientation or gender.
Many a time I have stayed up later than planned when hosting a room so everybody can have fun and enjoy the evening. Yes being a host has a certain amount of satisfaction but temper that with the odd abusive comment thrown our hey got a fairly thick skin and those sort of comments tend to bounce off.
Why let the odd one or two spoil it for the majority.
Ooops here I go again on that soap box!! Honest stepped off it again now.
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Yes Gnv must admit been in rooms where the host has little or no idea of what is actually happening in there. Or even actually care about the other roomies or site rules.
When I have/do host a room try to ensure keep an eye on the room and roomies rather than get too deeply involved in one conversation. Just my personal view point as host nothing more.
Nothing worse than the room's atmosphere being ruined by problems and if that happens can appreciate more what the Ops and Mods do. Thankfully never had to call upon an Op or mod when hosting a room.
Highlights the fact as host must be fair and unbiased in those situations irrespective of how well know the persons concerned are to you.
By setting out the room rules and remaining consistent in applying them in accordance with site rules with luck helps reduce potential problems happening,though not always.
Those who have been in rooms I've hosted know my pet phrase of.. 'I take no prisoners'..
Much preferring everyone has a good time and enjoys themselves without too much hassle.
Off my soap box now!!!!!
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When I have/do host a room try to ensure keep an eye on the room and roomies rather than get too deeply involved in one conversation. Just my personal view point as host nothing more.
Nothing worse than the room's atmosphere being ruined by problems and if that happens can appreciate more what the Ops and Mods do. Thankfully never had to call upon an Op or mod when hosting a room.
Highlights the fact as host must be fair and unbiased in those situations irrespective of how well know the persons concerned are to you.
By setting out the room rules and remaining consistent in applying them in accordance with site rules with luck helps reduce potential problems happening,though not always.
Those who have been in rooms I've hosted know my pet phrase of.. 'I take no prisoners'..
Much preferring everyone has a good time and enjoys themselves without too much hassle.
Off my soap box now!!!!!
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Personally never had problems opening a room up when host has decided they wish to leave. If we all having a good time then a little commitments to others we know is part of the pleasure and fun. In the event of it being late then everyone will just adjourn back to a main room.
Normally the host should say they leaving and give rest of room a chance to organize something, that if they know how to host a room properly. Then Ops do not have to worry about the room and continue with the other things they have to do.
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Normally the host should say they leaving and give rest of room a chance to organize something, that if they know how to host a room properly. Then Ops do not have to worry about the room and continue with the other things they have to do.
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Still unable to get in new room just getting a grey screen today. Did I upset someone im a former life?
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Shame very time try to enter new chatroom get told I appear to already be logged into the application.
Honestly not in there unless I have an unknown double!!! In which case shouldn't be able to get into other rooms either.
Understand always teething problems with any beta version. Just a shame I always seem to find these bugs that prevent me joining in the fun.
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Can understand how annoying univited whispers are and no matter what you do it will still happen sadly.
There are many times when I've switched rooms and then had to log out for the same reason.
Have run own room and it's only if people in there let you know they getting whispers can the room host warn and then take appropriate action if it persists. Had the odd choice word whispered when warned person. Helps if hosting a room to periodically let new roomies know the rules in a pleasant way.
Even stating on room title No whispers/Directing is no guarantee against uninvited whispers
One way I have found which sometimes works though sadly not always is to reply to a whisper in open room. However tend to keep those replies brief that way with luck person will stop or join in the room conversation.
Gives the person a chance to ask or accept you do not want to private message with them.
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There are many times when I've switched rooms and then had to log out for the same reason.
Have run own room and it's only if people in there let you know they getting whispers can the room host warn and then take appropriate action if it persists. Had the odd choice word whispered when warned person. Helps if hosting a room to periodically let new roomies know the rules in a pleasant way.
Even stating on room title No whispers/Directing is no guarantee against uninvited whispers
One way I have found which sometimes works though sadly not always is to reply to a whisper in open room. However tend to keep those replies brief that way with luck person will stop or join in the room conversation.
Gives the person a chance to ask or accept you do not want to private message with them.
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Still finding new chatroom won't load either with IE or Firefox. Know there was a prob on saturday wondering if been sorted out yet. 
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Be good to get back in there and have fun again.
: Be good to get back in there and have fun again.
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Hey it's been hit and miss getting in since coming online but once debugged should be good. Still everywhere else is fine to use till then.
Don't get upset u will soon have a new play area!
Don't get upset u will soon have a new play area!