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curvynjackb
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male, 56
0 miles · Bristol

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Quote by rondatheslut
The only tan lines i have are
when i have my bum smacked.

Now there's tan lines and there are sillyhwoar: tan lines :phwoar:
:thumbup: from me, I love tan lines, soooo sexy.
j xx
Why should we care, it's just another couple who have broken up.
Does it have any effect on me or anyone else - No, so why is it front page news?
People need to stop living vicariously and let others get on with their lives.
Same with all the gossip rags about 'celebrities'; don't give a shit what they do or don't do.
As long as it doesn't affect me or the world in general they can do what they want.
lets just live our lives the way we want and let others live theirs the way they want.
tc
J xx
Quote by Dawnie
Dealt with in the right way, the child might not have any issues at all with the situation and I don't see this view as the most important issueconfused

The child would have had issues. Something this big in his/her life would have has an effect. With the right support and help they would be able to handle it, the majority of the time, but it would affect them.
j xx
The only problem I had with a badge was feeling a bit silly going to the bar withcurvynhorny plastered across my left nipple ( I knew I shouldn't have gone topless lol).
One of the reasons we changed it, amongst others.
j xx
Not much help in how to really tell but we enjoy the are they/aren't they game - can liven up any evening down the pub. smile
That of course the leads to the "what are they wearing under those clothes game" lol
which in turn leads to the "What would you like to do to them " game rotflmao
Which eventually leads to the "Sod this , lets go home and fuck ourselves silly" game :grin:
All good fun.
j xx
We were having a conversation about this with a couple the other week.
Both ladies immediately said, not under 30.
Both us guys immediately said 18!!
Guess we're shallower rotflmao
The conversation then took a silly turn and we've ended up with a bet to see who can snog the youngest person (18+). My money is on the ladies personally lol
j xx
Quote by couplefunuk
Whatever else it comes down to - women were made to have children - I fundamentaly believe that that is one of (not the only) but main things we are here for.

We are here to reproduce, that really is the only reason we are here, evolution has ensured that life is there to survive and reproduce only, anything else we do, have fun, cry, mope, work, is only to serve that purpose
Quote by couplefunuk
To be denied that right when the possibility is right there in front of her surely is a breach of her human rights.

This is an obvious comeback but what about his rights, does he not have consideration for what he wants, there are 2 people involved here.
Quote by couplefunuk
That guy must have serious issues to have been capable of causing such pain.
I hope karma means he will get his one day.

Do you really think he's doing it to cause pain, I seriously doubt it. I would imagine he's gone through a lot himself over this (well i would!). "get's his" - does he deserve that, he's making a difficult decision based on many things, I doubt he deserves anything but compassion, as do both parties in this sad situation.
again, all IMHO of course.
j xx
Quote by VelvetTigers
Personally i dont think there can be a soloution to this as yes he has the right to choose(by law), but if she were already pregnant he wouldnt (is this fair? - or another can of worms?), so there can never be a resoloution to make either happy! My only heatbreak is that she will now NEVER have her own biological children, but he can!

But if she were pregnant, she would have the right to have a termination without his consent. Wouldn't we be supporting her right as a woman to make that decision (even if we didn't agree with it on moral grounds). This is the same decision but in this case, probably the very first instance ever, the male is capable of saying "I don't want this child"
I too am very sad she will never have birth children, that loss will forever be part of her life, no matter what happens to her in the future.
I feel for her but I also feel for the bloke, could any of us blokes here really have no part in a child if we were the father, that's what she was asking him to do. He didn't want a child with her, but was being asked to simply put that to one side and forget about a child that would have been his - a hard thing to do that again would always affect him, and, more importantly in my view, affect the child, who will eventually know that his/her biological father chose to reject him, because that is how a child would see it, no matter how loving his stepfather would be.
Of course all this is IMHO.
j xx
went with the kids tonight. Not bad for the price, some decent rides - thrill ones weren't bad and the medium ones were fun too.
Allin one price was OK, but watch out gor the extras, all the stalls are + a go and food/drink is a bit pricey but not a bad place, we had a good time.
And not big queues tonight either, never more than 5/10 minutes.
c & j xx
It can be hard to get started, we found it useful to lurk for a while, get the feel of the chatrooms.
Then just start with a simple:
Hi room
that usually gets a few replies from the friendliest people in the room and take it from there.
Can't stop curvy now, loves chatting lol
have fun
c & j xx
thanks, the munch was fun.
Well, there's horny and there's horny.
I guess i'm just horny by nature now, not horny in name lol
tc
J x
1. Bite off top.
2. Use little finger to scoop out creme.
3. Slowly, sensually, lovingly lick finger clean, accompanied by various Ooohs & Aaahs.
4. repeat step 3 until empty.
5. Gobble empty chocolate shell
6. Sit back, sigh & smile!
(some steps also uselful for other activities lol)
enjoy yours!
c & j xx
curvynhorny is dead, long live curvynjackb.
We have changed our name, cos horny just got too embarassing. Going to the bar at the Bristol munch with a name tag saying HORNY was just too much. Plus friends we told, just laughed at my name :cry:
So, i am now jack, if u want to know why, I'll tell u if we meet, look us up and get in touch.
Curvy is still curvy, always has been, and always will, I hope lol
tc
c & J xx
Quote by Laff_n_Chilli
In our experience men are either growers or non-growers

Or as I have heard it:
Grow-ers
or
Show-ers
tc
h xx
Actually donating tomorrow lunchtime - platelets, nice relax for an hour.
Been giving blood since i was 18 on and off, pretty much regularly for the last 10yrs, got a silver badge and a yellow card (platelets) now. Started doing apheresis about 5 yrs ago, after my mum had a few donations after cancer treatment, doing my bit to give back, feels good too. Had to stop a couple of times for tattoos and piercings - tended to coordinate tattoo and a piercing to cut down the gap.
May have to stop soon though, cos of the bi-sexual man rule, even if protected!! Shame really, as much as i want to help other people I also want to enjoy my life and so far this swinging lark has been too much fun to stop. I will feel guilty when i do stop though, i've looked at the question the last couple of times and thought, oh-oh, that's going to be a problem sometime soon.
c'est la vie
tc,
h xx
being relatively new to this, we still have many questions. one that is bugging me at the mo is the age thing.
i'd like to know wot u all think about meeting much younger people.
so, what i want to know is ----
what do younger guys see in the older woman?
is it the Mrs Robinson experience??
forbidden fruit??
a friends mother??
teacher??
look forward to hearing your opinions
curvy xx
well the curvy bit was easy, curvy is sooooooo curvy biggrin
as for the horny bit well that's what i was at the time although i'd like to change it now as it's just too embarassing at socials and munches but don't know what to, still thinking about that one!
tc & have fun
h xx
I'd say no, as we tend to use the friends list as an address book, a handy list of people we can PM or have already PM'd, and just want to keep track of without resorting to bits of paper.
but then ymmv
tc
h xx
It is scary, i agree, but you're also right when u say it's so bloody exciting.
Major piece of advice - just enjoy it.
Make sure you both know what each other's limits are wrt what your partner can do with you (or without you, if you have that agreement) and other people. And stick to those limits unless you both talk and agree to stretch that limit.
Just chill and you'll be fine, first time we went we just played together with other people around playing in the same room, amazing experience.
Whatever happens - enjoy & good luck.
h
Quote by louise_and_joe
Oh i do that to, especially if we are in the pub and we see two couples having a drink together, thinking maybe that they are meeting up for the first time.
Louise xx

lol us too, it's a great game, also if it's 2 guys and a girl, and she's smiling, we smirk at each other, we call it the swingers smirk.
In fact we just about smirk at each other all the time now - sort of "We've got a secret you dont know!" na na ne na na
he - he
h xx
here's what i do if i know the exact name.
View any old profile biggrin, then replace the "m=087879" with "u=username" and that'll give u the profile.
If i don't know the exact name i sometimes use the forum search, but only works if they have posted confused
h xx
Quote by 4playinc
I went and saw V MONO with my wife and within the full house there was only 30 blokes
so just wondering if other blokes on here have seen it or had the chance to go but bottled out
ps i think all blokes should go

I've been, thoroughly enjoyed it and yes i did join in with shouting out CUNT - very liberating.
They're weren't many blokes, i think i counted 30 in an audience of about 300.
felt a bit odd at first but just relaxed and really enjoyed it - great show - funny, thoughtful and sad in places. If anyone gets the chance go and see it.
h xx
Is the cam indicator definitely going to be on each members name in the list rather than in it's own window in the new chat.
If so, i think it's the wrong move - it's so easy to see who was camming in the current version. As users who cam and watch cams i think having the indicator on the name list wil make it a lot harder to enjoy the experience - don't think you'll get so many viewers, especially in a busy room.
Out of interest what was the reasoning behind moving it?
cheers
h xx
Quote by Lost

Am i strange never to have felt jealousy or
insecurity when in this situation. Both during and after play we encourage and support each other. I carry on hoping mrs Lost squeezes every last little drop of pleasure from the stuff we do.
When i look at her asleep with a tired smile on her. To me, gorgeous face. And i wake up to her still smiling and full of re-newed energy and life. I know what we do is right for us

not strange at all lost, i feel the same. I haven't felt jealousy or insecurity at any point so far.
Maybe we've been lucky but i prefer to think it's because our relationship is so secure & strong. A good shag may be bloody brilliant, and usually is, but it's not a patch on what we have in our relationship.
Watching curvy literally purr with pleasure is an amazing sight and i believe she feels the same about watching me. Let's face it if you love and care for someone you want them to have fun, and swinging is bloody good fun!
h x
the main thing for us after experiencing our first 3sum was to talk over how we felt about it - honestly and openly..... the bits that made us feel good and the bits that felt more uncomfortable.
it certainly worked for us and are looking forward to experiencing it again .... and again ....
curvy xx
Ooooh, Chrissie Hynde,
maybe not your classic beauty,
but, my god, that voice :grin:
h x