i read it to say she didnt know either, imo if she knew about the swinging wouldnt he find it relatively easy to say "wanna join in?" and therefore not need to ask advice ???
no one was offering marraige guidance or shooting the bloke down for his lifestyle - just trying to look at the bigger picture thats only imo again
put yourself in his wifes shoes do you honestly think she knows???
Tan x
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Quote by Mr-cream123
yep :giggle:
middleton st george is just outside of darlo...
betweeeen darlo and barny castle aint it???
or is that another middleton???????
i have no idea where places are though im totally thick when some one says to me im in so - n - so
then i say where is that near, its near so - n - so and where is that near ????????
ops: :oops: :oops:thats middleton in teesdale you're thinking off tan
barney is past darlo..and middleton in teesdale is past barney ...knew it was a middleton summit tho lol i should know i used to liv about 10 mile away from middleton in teesdale
Quote by northeastcoupleuk
i have roses quality streets and heroes:D :D quality streets are my fave mmm toffee pennies
Now we know were to go if we run out of chocky mmmmm
il await some xmas visitors then :lol: :lol: :lol:
(i always have a stash somewhere aswell safe from the kids and deky)
ops: purely for the munchies Quote by Marya_Northeast
Back to the OP - disregarding your time on here, your sexual preferences etc and just sticking to the thread topic - the only thing I can think is to ask her if she has any fantasies, perhaps? If she 's not willing to discuss them then that's a no to swinging, I'd say. If her fantasies do not include other people or anything remotely related to swinging then that's another no!
There are lots of couples on here - married or not - that have amazingly solid, honest and open relationships but it never ceases to amaze me how many couples there are that actually don't or can't talk to each other. You've chosen this person as your life partner, you live together, maybe even reproduced your own mini-me, yet you can't talk.
Look at your relationship before you look into swinging.
yup i would think you have alot of explaining to do before swinging is mentioned even opening another profile as couple could still have major reporcusions (sp)some one will be sure to reconise you or remember your face etc, then the mrs will be mortified that you kept it from her etc etc.
as for what marya said about 2 people in a relationship being able to talk, i couldnt not be with someone who i couldnt talk to, dek finds out everything and anythying (most of which he dont want to know)
but i tell him cos in my mind thats what couples do even to a point of upsetting him Quote by creampie123
yep :giggle:
middleton st george is just outside of darlo...
betweeeen darlo and barny castle aint it???
or is that another middleton???????
i have no idea where places are though im totally thick when some one says to me im in so - n - so
then i say where is that near, its near so - n - so and where is that near ????????
ops: :oops: :oops: Quote by winchwench
Who do you fancy who isn't really fanciable??
Okaaaaay.... can't quite understand why Alan Rickman features in a thread about people who aren't fanciable when clearly he is one of THE most sexy men ever!?!
So, in the spirit of the original post, I have to confess for having had (this fleeting madness has passed!!) a bit of a soft spot for Michael Portillo
Okay, okay... I know - but I just thought he looked like he might be a bit mucky!!!
Should I have just stuck to Alan Rickman?????
Probably!!
Nola xx
Thats why I didn't mention him to start with
thats what happens when thicko tan misreads the op
i was in a rush i think sorry :sticky:
Quote by Stormwalker
I find the whole thing very interesting and would rather see it continue on the forum rather than in PM. You have made some very sweeping and derogatory statements and they have been challenged, it hardly seems fair to hide such an illuminating exchange now that things have taken a turn you are not comfortable with.
As for not needing to expand on what you have said that is of course your choice, but if you have been misread, how are we to know how and why? If you do not want to debate this, why start the thread in the first place
Lastly, look to your own last post and ask yourself if thinly veiled personal comments are doing you any favours.
well said stormy :thumbup:
Quote by naughtynymphos1
Man Flu? More like a little cough and sniffle and they think they're on death's door.
deadliest virus known to man kind is man flu you really should be more understanding Marya ;)
revenge will be very sweet when man can carry and delivery their own children :giggle: then you lot will know what we put up with
Quote by sword-stileto
it works for some it does not work for some such is life i guess
on a slightly different note but along the same context i met dek on a phone chat line (in the days before we had tinternet) he could have been a murderer or a madman but luckilly he wasnt to mad and 5 years later we are still together
:thumbup: Snap Stileto & I met that way it must be the most worth while phone calls I ever made
:lol: :lol: tis free for us girlz (or it was then) :giggle: actually for a laugh we went on a couple weeeks ago dek paid up for so many minutes or what ever happens and we went on brought back nice memoirs as it happens Quote by Bazza64
Sorry Sarah, didn't start cooking - wasn't sure what time you could get here
Started a new job 3 weeks ago in Manchester, 4 shifts a week. Out of those 12 shifts, I've been home early 10 occasions, left on time once, and worked overtime for 40 minutes once.
Its "job and knock" - when the works done, we go home, but still paid until the end of the shift
And if that wasn't good enough, its monday to thursday, off for a 3 day weekend every week :D
Bloody wonderful!!!!!!!
Bazza
:kick: : :
sounds like a cool job though
free members cant send pms, they cant post in the forum, cant get into chat, cant view rude pictures or the gallery,, they cant write any text in thier profile,
they can -
view profiles,
send winks
put ads up/view ads
view none rude picturs
i recently set another account up but didnt pay straight away (had to wait til my bank card come in post) and email addresses do get past the system lots of times some times they are edited out sometimes cleverly diquised from approx 70 mails i received in the first 24 hours) i would say 20 of them had gettin their emial addresses in and the ad did not state i was a full member or not
they can -
view profiles,
send winks
put ads up/view ads
view none rude picturs
i recently set another account up but didnt pay straight away (had to wait til my bank card come in post) and email addresses do get past the system lots of times some times they are edited out sometimes cleverly diquised from approx 70 mails i received in the first 24 hours) i would say 20 of them had gettin their emial addresses in and the ad did not state i was a full member or not
Quote by AtomCom2001
i like talking rubbish tis what i do well
anyone fancy a snog :twisted:
ooooo please, if there is a cuppa of tea with it
Quote by Cherrytree
aahh, yes, go on then :twisted:
Quote by meat2pleaseu
one over here too, when you're ready
Quote by LondonPlaything
join Janice in the Dangerous Foods Club extreme.. she has a good cuppa
lp
Quote by bbw_lover
At last, thought you'd never ask!:rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Ohhh theres a big queue snogs all round with a big pot o tea and biccies to
:therethere: 
:kiss: 
assionkiss: :therethere: :hump: :kiss: :passionkiss: :therethere: :hump: :kiss: :passionkiss: :therethere: :hump: hope this multi quote thing works or i will look like a fool
Quote by markz
Spiders are for eating flies, unless of course Markz has pulled the wings off!!
It is also a word for the search engines sending out spiders or bots to look for certain words on various web sites.
When I was younger I used to pull the legs off "daddy long legs" and then asked them "who's the daddy now".......... :mrgreen:
markz the daddy
Quote by Cherrytree
I try not to annoy mine.
Having been on the receiving end of appalling behaviour from a previous set of neighbours, I respect the ones we have, who are utterly wonderful.
I also respected the people who were there before them- despite not liking them. It's their home, and I would hate to intentionally disrupt anyones home life unless they'd given me damn good reason.
Same here, Winchy. Neighbours from hell made our lives a misery - and part of that was them installing their boombox speakers on the party wall.
The thread came from a conversation with my friend about her neighbours this morning, and it got me thinking what bizarre things are said/done between neighbours, not the fact that i have this hi fi, we are actually lucky to have thick walls and not much is heard from house - house
Quote by winchwench
I try not to annoy mine.
Having been on the receiving end of appalling behaviour from a previous set of neighbours, I respect the ones we have, who are utterly wonderful.
I also respected the people who were there before them- despite not liking them. It's their home, and I would hate to intentionally disrupt anyones home life unless they'd given me damn good reason.
dont get me wrong i do not intend to play the hifi at full blast in stupid hours of the day its on the adjoining wall purely for elecrical purposes and would never piss them off intentionally
mine have very selective hearing
Quote by Freckledbird
we should be thankful to live in a fairly secular society,but we still need to get religion less involved with our politics and especially with the brainwashing of our children which even happens in state schools as well as faith schools.
No, it doesn't.
a well run good school doesnt,
imo
