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kbuk
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 54
0 miles · Essex
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Quote by Jags
Can I add an third type of hijacking??
Where two or three people invade a thread and start a soppy sort of 'I think you're great' and 'I think you're great too' kind of stuff. Hard to describe really but it doesn't take more than a stroll around some recent threads to see what I mean. It totally puts off others from posting which is more than a shame.
And I once again agree with HLB about the multiple quotes thing. There actually was thread a long time ago with that specific aim in mind and it made me get a headache very quickly. Saw the same sort of stuff this weekend too, cold dark room required.
Contrary to popular belief Jags, But I think you're Great :inlove: :inlove: :inlove:
Off for a long overdue, and possibly well deserved beating!
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Quote by Mr-Powers
I don't what the hoo har is all about....so this person called Annie was coming along to one of the munches....and they just happended to be part of the SHM....and they are non-swingers...if i'm not mistaken the admin team are not swingers either,but they were being openly invited to munches and socials not so long ago when they took over!
Which is Where I think the Allegations of Cash cow come into it. The admin were Invited because they held the future of the site in their hands, and of course I think it is fair to say that people were genuinely curious as to who was now in charge ( at the time) The SHM editor thing has become an issue because, from what I can see, generally the whole SHM thing is unwanted, and is just another futile, and I'm afraid to say - desperate, attempt to squeeze a bit more money from us.
Again - Just my perception!
but i'm not having any money squeezed from me and neither are you....and if they want to produce a magazine...so what...no one is telling you to buy it
I Know that I am having no money wrung from me as an Individual, and to a greater degree - that is why i have kept my mouth shut, my head low, and carried on in a "there, but for the grace of god go I" manner. and to a certain degree, I suppose it's why I have felt that my own opinion bears no worth - because at the end of the day "i'm not exactly paying for it am i?"
My use of "us" was in a collective sense. And I know at least ten or fifteen similar members that also feel that way, but alas are also either too afraid to post, or feel uncomfortable.
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Quote by Mr-Powers
I don't what the hoo har is all about....so this person called Annie was coming along to one of the munches....and they just happended to be part of the SHM....and they are non-swingers...if i'm not mistaken the admin team are not swingers either,but they were being openly invited to munches and socials not so long ago when they took over!
Which is Where I think the Allegations of Cash cow come into it. The admin were Invited because they held the future of the site in their hands, and of course I think it is fair to say that people were genuinely curious as to who was now in charge ( at the time) The SHM editor thing has become an issue because, from what I can see, generally the whole SHM thing is unwanted, and is just another futile, and I'm afraid to say - desperate, attempt to squeeze a bit more money from us.
Again - Just my perception!
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Quote by Jags
Not getting into this again Jags go n harrass some-one else
If you suggest just once more in the open forum that you are being harrassed I would feel it incumbent on me to make an official complaint about your behaviour. Now, you take your choice. I asked you not to raise the topic again in public and you have chosen to ignore it.
tbh - It's this kind of thing, or even the threat of it, which stopped me posting on the forum about a year ago. I accept that due to my lack of posting recently - my comments, and general opinion may be of no relevance, However - surely the fact that I also feel like it's constantly on "egg shells" in here, and the slightest wrong word, or action could get you a ban - And thats just me - I'm sure there are a hell of a lot more!
kbuk
And it seems that it's the same for everyone, including me for example. Should I be 'scared' into not saying my piece cos I'm an easy target when it comes to those with a grudge, or those who got caught out being two faced or those who can't have a debate without it turning nasty and personal?
Seems that turinng over one stone brings out all those who have been in hiding for a long time. Welcome back, it's good to see you come home. And, I promise you that that was said sincerely.
Only edited to correct two spelling mistakes, not to change the meaning or the content of the post!
Thanks Jags ( and for the Spelling corrections!)
My Post was just a voice of frustration, generally. I honestly grieve when I come back to visit here. What used to be my home, has now become somewhere I no longer really recognise, nor feel comfortable. It's because the whole site appears to be over-regulated, over controlled, rules for anything and everything that a lot of people like myself don't post here these days. I guess I've just used this post as an outlet! I sincerely hope someone up above is paying attention! ( I apologise if it is Off Topic)
kbuk
p.s - yes - this is purely my perception - which, as Polo Lady has already mentioned, Is a funny thing!
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Quote by Jags
Not getting into this again Jags go n harrass some-one else
If you suggest just once more in the open forum that you are being harrassed I would feel it incumbent on me to make an official complaint about your behaviour. Now, you take your choice. I asked you not to raise the topic again in public and you have chosen to ignore it.
tbh - It's this kind of thing, or even the threat of it, which stopped me posting on the forum about a year ago. I accept that due to my lack of posting recently - my comments, and general opinion may be of no relevance, However - surely the fact that I also feel like it's constantly on "egg shells" in here, and the slightest wrong word, or action could get you a ban, So I choose to no longer post - And thats just me - I'm sure there are a hell of a lot more!
kbuk
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Quote by Jas-Tim
Hot bath and then all snuggledy up in bed with a mug of Hot Chocolate.
Jas
XXX
Any Room for a fat one???????
Yep, you're perfect to snuggle upto :twisted: :twisted:
Jas
XXX
Lol do I detect a hint of mild sarcasm - I know I'm too long to spoon properly lol
There was no sarcasm :shock:
I meant it so :P ya boo and sucks to you an all
Jas
XXX
Woo hoo - Best drag my coughing lungs and dribbly nose to the car and head up your way pronto - although somehow I see you getting bored of the Nurse Jas bit very quickly lol
It's ok if I get fed up, I'll leave you in the capable hands of Doctor Tim
:rotflmao:Jas
XXXand could you see him aiding my recovery any??? ........................ Actually - thats not a bad proposition lol
Reckon we should lert em have their thread back yet?
msn is your friend so I hear hehehehehe
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Quote by Jas-Tim
Hot bath and then all snuggledy up in bed with a mug of Hot Chocolate.
Jas
XXX
Any Room for a fat one???????
Yep, you're perfect to snuggle upto :twisted: :twisted:
Jas
XXX
Lol do I detect a hint of mild sarcasm - I know I'm too long to spoon properly lol
There was no sarcasm :shock:
I meant it so :P ya boo and sucks to you an all
Jas
XXX
Woo hoo - Best drag my coughing lungs and dribbly nose to the car and head up your way pronto - although somehow I see you getting bored of the Nurse Jas bit very quickly lol
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Quote by Jon
The 'logged in' fault usually occurs because people just close the application rather than logging off correctly.................................
I get in first go every time, but then I'm a good fellah and log off properly
Except for instances where the chat server just gives up the ghost and decides it wants to be a teapot instead - which is does frequently lol
Plus as the new one is un-acceptably slow - really leaves little option. Perhaps bells and whistles and flashy bits isn't really the way forward after all. I think, most people, when asked, Would opt for a fairly plain, but fully stable and operational chatroom, as opposed to something that seems to be such a nightmare to even beta test!
can we just have chat server 3 back - pretty please?
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Chesty Hun
You have me on your MSN - if you feel like you wanna, chat, rant, talk complete bollocks, or just laugh like a drain over stupid crap - then ping me - I did something similar two twice in four years - and was helped through it by people from this community.
If you don't fancy chatting - then chill, take some time with your memories, cry a bit, laugh a bit - but most of all rest, sleep as well as you can, Look after yourself, and come back to us when you are ready - I'll even keep your seat warm with my fat bastard arse! lol
:kiss: :kiss: :kiss: :kiss:
kbuk
You have me on your MSN - if you feel like you wanna, chat, rant, talk complete bollocks, or just laugh like a drain over stupid crap - then ping me - I did something similar two twice in four years - and was helped through it by people from this community.
If you don't fancy chatting - then chill, take some time with your memories, cry a bit, laugh a bit - but most of all rest, sleep as well as you can, Look after yourself, and come back to us when you are ready - I'll even keep your seat warm with my fat bastard arse! lol
:kiss: :kiss: :kiss: :kiss: kbuk
