The kind of man who makes my head turn? Hmmm... I'm not sure it's easy to categorise phwoar-ness!
If I were going to try & think about who would make my head turn on the street, I'd probably say a tall-ish chap, dark hair, well-dressed (& by that I mean confidently & stylishly dressed, not necessarily smartly dressed) with a confident walk (I know, I'm odd!) If he is black or dark-complected, then yeah, that will possibly draw my eye & make me give him a look up & down.
Looking at him now more closely (rather than a perve from afar!) then I'd be looking for things like a nice smile, twinkly eyes (love a naughty glint!) & nice hands.
Looking even more closely, a nice package is always a bonus! :rascal:
But to be honest, all rules go out of the window sometimes; sexy just is, it can't always be defined.
Have you checked out the chatrooms or seen if there are any groups for locals in your neck of the woods?
:welcome: to the site and I hope you enjoy your time with us.
Nola x
Some great advice here:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/81218.html
My other advice would be to try and get to know people: use the forums (the other ones) sign up for a social in your area maybe, chat in the rooms, persevere, pick people from the adverts who take your fancy and write them a well thought out mail which shows that you have considered what they are looking for.
Oh and have fun!
:welcome:
Thought this might be fun:
Using only song names from ONE ARTIST, cleverly answer these questions.
Rules:
You can't use the band I used.
Try not to repeat a song title.
Copy the questions and then put your own answers.
I'll go first:
Pick your Artist:
Prince
Are you a male or female:
"And God Created Woman"
Describe yourself:
"Beautiful Strange" (well, "The Most Beautiful Girl In The World" would seem a tad vain!)
How do you feel:
"Dirty Mind"
Describe where you currently live:
"Alphabet Street"
If you could go anywhere, where would you go:
"Paisley Park"
Your favorite form of transportation:
"Little Red Corvette"
Your best friend is:
"Forever In My Life"
You and your best friends are:
"Superfunkycalifragisexy"
Describe the weather:
"Sometimes It Snows In April"
Favorite time of day:
"The Everlasting Now"
If your life was a TV show, what would it be called:
"Anotherloverholeinyohead"
What is life to you:
"Illusion, Coma, Pimp & Circumstance"
Your relationship:
"The Greatest Romance Ever Sold"
Describe your job:
"Lady Cab Driver"
Your fear:
"Electric Chair"
What is the best advice you have to give:
"Rock Hard In A Funky Place"
Thought for the Day:
"Right The Wrong"
How I would like to die
"Sexual Suicide"
My soul's present condition:
"Scandalous"
My motto:
"So Far, So Pleased"
I'm a bit of both; I start a fair few threads and I post on others.
I enjoy the forum. It has its good times and its duller times but, on balance, I make it work for me. If I'm not in the mood, I don't read or post. If I am in the mood it can really amuse me.
I enjoy it because of the diversity of folk in here.
Everyone is bound by the AUP flower. Noone has "mod backing" as you put it, if you are implying (as it would seem you are) that some are treated more or less favourably than others.
If this thread is simply going to be a point scoring exercise - and by revelling in quoting posts that members have deleted does seem like this - then I will have to lock it. Now that's a shame, as on page one there was some interesting discussion.
That made me chuckle... Little Miss Iron Knickers certainly had interesting taste in crushes! Which one? :lol: I changed my mind more times that I had hot dinners!
I (briefly!) toyed with the idea of striking up a conversation but then decided he'd probably think I was an utter fruitloop!:sad:
:? :? 
Oh I am so competent!) and access rights, but I could be wrong. 
