It's absolutely brilliant!!! We have been watching it for several years. Its a big hit on the free-to-air German satellite channels especially at Christmas time. First time we have seen it in colour. Looks like its been reworked.
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Smooth2
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 70
Bi-curious Female, 72
0 miles · Bridgend
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Hi,
That's a very valid point/s. Yes we are and have to be very aware of the dangers but hopefully experience and choice of partner would reduce the risk somewhat although not eliminate it.
Don't know about others but outside the health issue the thought of wearing a condom is a real turn off.
OK if you can keep it up continuously but those of us in advancing years and with other problems aren't so lucky......have to get it up when we can!!!!!! Now where did I put my jump leads?????????????
That's a very valid point/s. Yes we are and have to be very aware of the dangers but hopefully experience and choice of partner would reduce the risk somewhat although not eliminate it.
Don't know about others but outside the health issue the thought of wearing a condom is a real turn off.
OK if you can keep it up continuously but those of us in advancing years and with other problems aren't so lucky......have to get it up when we can!!!!!! Now where did I put my jump leads?????????????
Sorry Paddy but we might be the exception here. At mid-50s we have made it our rule never to play with anyone who could be the same age as our son or daughter. We would not consider any couple under 45 and would be far more comfortable with 50 plus.
As to preferring the older woman....absolutely and the fuller-figure one at that! Those delicious curves, hopefully shaven and all that experience and cumming? back to earth for a moment mostly happy to go bareback and little chance of pregnancy.
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As to preferring the older woman....absolutely and the fuller-figure one at that! Those delicious curves, hopefully shaven and all that experience and cumming? back to earth for a moment mostly happy to go bareback and little chance of pregnancy.
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Lady M signed up to an offer for some health tabs and paid postage only of about £7. Since then the firm which has PO Box number in the UK and appears to be connected with Cyprus has taken two amounts of £75 out of our account. If the money is not refunded by the end of tomorrow we will be contacting the police as it is now theft.
Will let you know how we get on.
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Will let you know how we get on.
Smooth2
Hi both,
We would have been thrilled to receive a message from you and you would definately have received a reply that would have been a lot more than a one-liner, whatever the answer even if it was from a single guy. We have found time and time again that you put together a nice friendly reply to an advert and many of the people/couples who advertise on all of the sites do not have the manners to reply. Its called 'swinger ettiquette' and it doesn't take much to say 'no-thanks' then everyone knows where they are. The only thing to be learned here is that if they can't bother to reply then they are not worth bothering with!
We would have been thrilled to receive a message from you and you would definately have received a reply that would have been a lot more than a one-liner, whatever the answer even if it was from a single guy. We have found time and time again that you put together a nice friendly reply to an advert and many of the people/couples who advertise on all of the sites do not have the manners to reply. Its called 'swinger ettiquette' and it doesn't take much to say 'no-thanks' then everyone knows where they are. The only thing to be learned here is that if they can't bother to reply then they are not worth bothering with!
We have 'Ethel' in our S**y unit. She is used for pleasure and is also a working girl. She has a habit of butting in when using the 'hands-free' but I forgive her for that. She's not always right but when I decide to think for myself and take another route its then that she IS right. She is a reassuring companion when trying to find somewhere for the first time. Getting worried though, I end up talking to a box attached to my windscreen........do you do that as well??????
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I think its a sign of the times we live in. Having lived largely in the country all my life I have no problem about sitting next to someone or striking up a conversation with them. I would respect their space within the confines of me sitting next to them. If they want to talk, fine, if not we'll look in opposite directions. I think this reluctance is more pronounced in urban/city areas where you are immediately branded as a pervert,mugger,or anything else you can think of before you've even sat down.
Our 'do-goodies' in our society now tell us to react like this instead of being friendly or at least the occasional conversation to help pass the journey away.
Our 'do-goodies' in our society now tell us to react like this instead of being friendly or at least the occasional conversation to help pass the journey away.
Hello Cherrytree,
We understand a little of the pain you are going through. As several people have said you must find a way to detach yourself from it if only for a an hour or two and make time for you.
There are understanding ears on the forum but if you would like to drop us an e-mail we would be delighted to chat and help if we can.
J&M XX
We understand a little of the pain you are going through. As several people have said you must find a way to detach yourself from it if only for a an hour or two and make time for you.
There are understanding ears on the forum but if you would like to drop us an e-mail we would be delighted to chat and help if we can.
J&M XX
In going about it this way you are likely to turn your wife completely against swinging in general and any other form of playing. This is not really something for you to ask others opinions on. It is for you and your wife to talk it over, think of the down sides before the up sides THEN decide if you BOTH want to do it.
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We have never been fans and have felt cynicism and sorry for him for the stunts he has pulled over the years, the balcony and masks on the children spring to mind.
We are really p***** off at the amount of TV news coverage that the whole circus is receiving. When any of our brave soldiers gets murdered or killed (whichever way you see it) in Afghanistan or wherever it hardly warrants a mention.
We offer our heartfelt thanks to the good people of Wooton Basset for turning out to pay their respects to OUR BOYS on their last trip home.
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We are really p***** off at the amount of TV news coverage that the whole circus is receiving. When any of our brave soldiers gets murdered or killed (whichever way you see it) in Afghanistan or wherever it hardly warrants a mention.
We offer our heartfelt thanks to the good people of Wooton Basset for turning out to pay their respects to OUR BOYS on their last trip home.
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I have a couple. One is shaped a bit like a horseshoe. It helps a bit but never seems to stay in place when you go in deep. The other one is like a loop that you pull to tighten then push a little bar in to lock it. Has to be quite tight to do any good but then it gets uncomfortable. Always worried about cumming when wearing it in case the restriction might cause any damage. Any dick-doctors know better?
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Hi,
For us swinging is not only about sex. Sure, that's nice but its even nicer when you know a little about the person and have developed a friendship. Likewise its nice to be able to read opinions from other swingers on issues close to but not directly about sex, or on any other subject. We think its a lot easier to speak freely and honestly to likeminded people.
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For us swinging is not only about sex. Sure, that's nice but its even nicer when you know a little about the person and have developed a friendship. Likewise its nice to be able to read opinions from other swingers on issues close to but not directly about sex, or on any other subject. We think its a lot easier to speak freely and honestly to likeminded people.
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Where do you draw a line with disabilities? Yes, we know about people with impaired movement and those with a mental impairment. I, John have an ileostomy (colon removed and bag on lower stomach) and that has not stopped us swinging as a couple. The people that we have swung with have been down to earth, caring folk who have seen us as the people we are. We love 'em for that. I have had rejections which have made me feel like a leper after the person was told about my 'addition'. Maddy had a mastectomy in Aug 07. Would you term that a disability in swinging circles? Neither of us fit into the 'blue badge' bracket. We are still the same people underneath, no, we are now even more caring and understanding. Maddy does not feel well enough to restart swinging yet but I wonder how many people would write us off as being 'disabled' largely through their ignorance.
We had a second ride on life's roundabout, many people don't get the chance when 'Big C' is involved.
J&M XX
We had a second ride on life's roundabout, many people don't get the chance when 'Big C' is involved.
J&M XX
Hi,
Thanks everyone for your replies so far. PLEASE PLEASE don't be embarassed about how you think you will look to others. You ARE what you ARE. Tell the world "this is me, if you don't like it you know what you can do". If anyone else doesn't like it then they have the problem not YOU!!!
'Naturists definitely do it with out clothes on'.
J&M XX
Thanks everyone for your replies so far. PLEASE PLEASE don't be embarassed about how you think you will look to others. You ARE what you ARE. Tell the world "this is me, if you don't like it you know what you can do". If anyone else doesn't like it then they have the problem not YOU!!!
'Naturists definitely do it with out clothes on'.
J&M XX
With all of this hot weather it has been wonderful to shed all of our clothes at the end of the day as we have done for the last 15 years or so. Not only limited to hot weather times. Forgetting the sex side for a moment has anyone experienced the joys of naturism recently and made a decision to become a naturist in the future? It doesn't matter what size or shape or age you are even if Mother Nature has changed you a little with ops or whatever.
Yes, it is wonderful to be able to discuss any items openly. We have found that with some couples who you have played with you can discuss anything, size, frequency, gushing etc afterwards as if you were discussing the weather. Others you can't and some just wish to get dressed again rather than relax in the post sex glow. Fortunately the former is true here. We are in a very delicate situation as M is recovering from breast cancer and a mastectomy.
Several postings that I have put up regarding this have received very understanding and sensitive replies and I thank you for those. At least there are people here who care enough to reply.
Several postings that I have put up regarding this have received very understanding and sensitive replies and I thank you for those. At least there are people here who care enough to reply.
Speaking as a student of the mature female form I absolutely adore the fuller figure mature lady. Most ouze confidence and sex. Perhaps a little off the subject here being young 50's but there is perhaps another issue that no one has yet mentioned. If you are both agreeable to 'no condoms' then the risk of pregnancy is almost negligible as opposed to an 'accident' with a younger fertile lady. I have used condoms in the past when asked to but as always it destroys the spontaneity of enjoying those wonderfully intimate moments with a partner who has so much to give and teach.
We are a mid 50's couple. We have a son of 21. As a starting point we would not have considered anyone that young even plus a few years. The youngest we would consider is 40's and much prefer late 40's to late 50's. Why? Because we feel more comfortable with our own age. No one has anything to prove. If a guy has erection probs, so what? We take people as we find them and have fun other ways. A young 20's couple approached us some time ago. We politely told them that we were not interested as we felt that at that age they did not know eachother well enough to risk their relationship by swinging. The indignant reply came back "We have lived together for two years and been married TWO WEEKS!!! Yes OK.
Hello Lady Minx,
many true words and if only life's journey would become easier as we overcome obstacles. Day to day ones we can cope with and learn by them but something like cancer upsets any smooth pattern that might have been formed. My wife's breast cancer has destroyed any smooth path and it's devastating from the point of view of a swinging couple. First of all M has had to cope with loosing part of her femininity and then the chemo and radio therapy. She now has further problems associated with the aftermath of the op. From the male view and being a 'breast' man, I feel that I have lost one of my best 'friends' and after nearly two years it saddens me when I think about "what has the surgeon done to her?" M's loss has taken our relationship close to breaking point and I cannot start to tell you about the bitterness that I feel to whoever it might be that decides who will receive these illnesses etc. Whilst our relationship has suffered and we will probably never swing again we have to be grateful that M is still alive and able to see our children and grandson those who are able to chart a relatively easy path through life, enjoy it while you can as there might be an un-scalable mountain around the corner.
many true words and if only life's journey would become easier as we overcome obstacles. Day to day ones we can cope with and learn by them but something like cancer upsets any smooth pattern that might have been formed. My wife's breast cancer has destroyed any smooth path and it's devastating from the point of view of a swinging couple. First of all M has had to cope with loosing part of her femininity and then the chemo and radio therapy. She now has further problems associated with the aftermath of the op. From the male view and being a 'breast' man, I feel that I have lost one of my best 'friends' and after nearly two years it saddens me when I think about "what has the surgeon done to her?" M's loss has taken our relationship close to breaking point and I cannot start to tell you about the bitterness that I feel to whoever it might be that decides who will receive these illnesses etc. Whilst our relationship has suffered and we will probably never swing again we have to be grateful that M is still alive and able to see our children and grandson those who are able to chart a relatively easy path through life, enjoy it while you can as there might be an un-scalable mountain around the corner.
Not long moved to a house in Bridgend South Wales that does not have a meter so its a bit early to know what the cost is. We had a septic tank at the old house which cost about £100 every 2 to 3 years to empty, not really necessary though. Having a meter does make you conscious of the amount of water you use.
We use the washing machine a lot but with the warmer weather coming can use the clothes line and reduce the use of the tumble dryer. Have you looked at your water consumption. How much could you cut it down by? Could you take showers instead of baths. How much does your dishwasher use (if you have one) and how many times a day is it used? Consider doing the washing up by hand. We do not have one and have no intention of installing one.
We will consider changing when we have the bills.
We use the washing machine a lot but with the warmer weather coming can use the clothes line and reduce the use of the tumble dryer. Have you looked at your water consumption. How much could you cut it down by? Could you take showers instead of baths. How much does your dishwasher use (if you have one) and how many times a day is it used? Consider doing the washing up by hand. We do not have one and have no intention of installing one.
We will consider changing when we have the bills.
To give an honest answer to this topic should require a lot of thought. Perhaps the lack of replies posted so far suggests that people cannot be bothered to examine their reasons for swinging. For me, a mid 50's male the answer is almost certainly 'yes'. Appologies in advance if any opinions seem selfish but they are from the heart after what seems like going through my own hell as well as Maddy going through hers. Married nearly 30 years to a lady whom I absolutely adore there has always been a gap in our sex life. She has a low sex drive (don't think mine's any more than normal)and little imagination or enthusiasm for sex despite trying everything that we could to improve it. We started swinging about 8 years ago, yes, I was enthusiastic but her 'take it or leave it' attitude remained. At the beginning of 2007 our relationship hit an all time low so any thoughts of continuing to swing were forgotten. We talked it out and were getting back on track. In August 2007 she was diagnosed with breast cancer and a mastectomy quickly followed with the chemo and radio-therapy treatment after. This destroyed her remaining interest in sex and knocked her confidence despite my love and assurances that she was still the beautiful woman that I married. I freely admit to being a 'breast man' and have felt emotionally destroyed when I see what the surgeon has done to Maddy and to have lost one of my 'best friends'. It goes without saying that her health takes priority over anything else. I desperately miss the intensely intimate time with other women and couples. The sex was a bonus and to be able to talk freely about things usually in that after-sex glow, that you would not discuss with your best friend is priceless in terms of sexual satisfaction. You may think, 'why not find a partner?' The answer is that swinging is something we have always and will do as a couple. I hope that we can resume swinging but it will depend entirely on Maddy now, we will have to find an extremely understanding couple who will accept us as we are (me with my brush with C as well) and WE really do wonder if such a swinging couple exist. A question for the girls but also the guys. I still feel a great loss every time I see a lady playing with her breasts. Should, God-forbid, you or your partner find yourselves in our position what might be your thoughts on future swinging? Hope I have not bored you but its nice to talk about it as there has not been one offer of help on how the partner should cope with this.
John (John & Maddy)
John (John & Maddy)
Hi,
My partner is a size 22-24 and it is a problem buying clothes and undies etc. Many UK shops have suddenly found there is a big market out there and are stocking items. Only problem is really nice things like basques etc can be very expensive. Don't be afraid to look at suppliers in America. Even with postage they can be cheaper. Here a basque for example might be £70. On an American site something similar might be $70 which equates to just over half of the UK price. There is also a far wider choice on US sites as they really do cater for the larger lady.
My partner is a size 22-24 and it is a problem buying clothes and undies etc. Many UK shops have suddenly found there is a big market out there and are stocking items. Only problem is really nice things like basques etc can be very expensive. Don't be afraid to look at suppliers in America. Even with postage they can be cheaper. Here a basque for example might be £70. On an American site something similar might be $70 which equates to just over half of the UK price. There is also a far wider choice on US sites as they really do cater for the larger lady.
