I think it is absolutely pathetic that gay people feel compelled to let everyone know about their sexuality - you don't hear of heterosexual people shouting "Hey! Look at me - I'm straight!" - so why should gay people do it. This also applies to swingers. I see no reason to tell everyone that I am a swinger - it's nothing to be ashamed of but it also no-one's business but mine.
Congrats NN & Sleazy
... one more year and you can scratch your 'itch' .... hehehe
There is, of course, the little matter we were discussing in the chat room last week that you could do ..... :twisted:
In all fairness to you, you have only been members for a very short time and a munch needs to be organised by known people who are aware of all the rules surrounding munches.
A good munch takes months to plan, you need a good venue that won't have a problem holding a party for swingers, you need to obtain accommodation lists for people wishing to stay over, then you must consider the following: public transportation details, directions, car parking, munch badges, a DJ, door staff, any fun events that will happen during the evening (snog auctions etc)
Your best bet is to find someone in your area who is a long serving SH member and will not mind assisting you in planning the Munch. I firmly believe that munches should be organised by members local to the area in which it is being held as they will already know the local geographics / demographics.
Try looking at this page: What is a Munch? for further guidance.
Good luck!
My vote goes to Sarah (formerly Sarah1448) for the following reasons:
She has the maturity to deal with sensitive issues fairly but she also has a sharp sense of humour and gets involved in the giggles we have in here. She has organised - or helped others organise - many socials / munches / meets. She is also one of SH's Mentors for newbies needing help. (hope I wasn't supposed to say that, please edit if I'm wrong). Sarah is an all round bloody nice person but she will mercilessly slap down anyone who is being a general ass.
Quality....... had me chuckling.... here's a few more:
"You may not wanna know this but...." - You ain't gonna give me a bloody choice are ya!!
"Did I tell you this....." - your memory problems are ya own, how the feck do I know if you've already told me if ya don't tell me!
"I don't want to put you under any pressure but..." - you are though aren't you!
"I shouldn't really be telling you this but..." - so don't then ya blabbermouth, last time I tell YOU anything!
Yup. good idea.... thought sommat looked different but couldn't put my finger on it.
:wink: :wink: :wink: :wink: , thanks
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