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bbw_loverNkitty
1 week ago
Straight Male, 67
Bi-curious Female, 59
0 miles · Oxfordshire

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Quote by Freckledbird
If you have a row with your partner or FB or play partners, how do you sort it out and make things better?

People just have to have a go at me!
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Awwwwwwwwwwwwww!
We all love you really kiss
Quote by Peanut
Forget "real men" anyone who enjoys music shouldn't be at a boy band concert rolleyes :twisted:

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Couldn't have said it better myself!
I've emailed Helnheaven to find out how she was, because I've been worried about her, and I know she's feeling a little low at the moment, so well done MIssKitty for doing this, it will mean a lot to her.
… and it's nice to know I'm not the only one who misses her not being around.
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Quote by Sarah
The poll is flawed, as you only have one vote, but you might have sex with more than one of your list..
How many time a week the poll should be, something like:-
once a week
twice a week
more than twice a week
more than 10 times a week
etc etc
Passing on voting..........

Well spotted Sarah! kiss
OOOOOOOOOOH!
Peanut butter and jelly (jam) sandwiches! :lickface:
Also cheddar cheese and salad cream sandwiches!!!
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Quote by Reggie2006
masterbating

So your the forum tosser then?
There's always one..
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Thought there was more than one?
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I always notice when my favourite people are missing, and I'll try to contact them to make sure they're ok.
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Quote by Misskitty_2008
Am I one of them hunie???
brilliant post but.......having been born and breed in oxford and you two having degree's you would know a third of the town are studants.......another third are under 18yrs....so it only leaves a few of us to swing and some off us have kids so swing 'part time'. so sorry if we fail your task, good luck in your science project.i would hate to think im in a compatition though, as i love swinging. its already a proven fact that southeners are reserved and northeners are welcoming. rolleyes

Too true! :thumbup:
… and you're ONE of the few gorgeous BBWs down here.
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You're just looking for compliments
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Quote by Mandybigboobs
brilliant post but.......having been born and breed in oxford and you two having degree's you would know a third of the town are studants.......another third are under 18yrs....so it only leaves a few of us to swing and some off us have kids so swing 'part time'. so sorry if we fail your task, good luck in your science project.i would hate to think im in a compatition though, as i love swinging. its already a proven fact that southeners are reserved and northeners are welcoming. rolleyes

Too true! :thumbup:
… and you're ONE of the few gorgeous BBWs down here.
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Quote by Bonedigger
I do have to agree that we are all in the NORTH!!!!
and BBW_lover....by saying we are easier to find....are ya trying to say us northern lasses are all exhibitionists?? lol :lol: :lol: :lol:
can vouch for BBW_lover BTW...hes pretty much an expert in tha art of the luscious BBW finding wink

Awwwwww! Thanks hun kiss
But you're a perfect example of what I was trying to say. You're a gorgeous BBW, but you're up North, not down here.
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Quote by noladreams30
Nola scratches her head, wracks what few brains she has and....
yep, dunno no idea, can't remember. Probably a random google or summat...
(Is this what ageing does?! :shock: )

Yup, but join the club cos I can't remember nivver!
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Quote by lyns
Lyns I remember when I was a kid and my father got "trapped" by the Jehovah Witnesses. He couldn't say no either and I can be a bit like that too (hint! hint!).
We spent the next six months hiding behind the sofa every time the door bell went. It took a very angry and pissed off black woman, my mother, to finally scare them away.
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

:rotflmao::rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: this had me in stitches lol
… and I've been scarred ever since. I still hide behind the sofa when the door bell rings.
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That's very decent of you young chap lol
I'd like to join you in saying thanks to SH too for allowing me access to such a great site which has allowed me to 'meet' such great people.
You all know who you are.
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Lyns I remember when I was a kid and my father got "trapped" by the Jehovah Witnesses. He couldn't say no either and I can be a bit like that too (hint! hint!).
We spent the next six months hiding behind the sofa every time the door bell went. It took a very angry and pissed off black woman, my mother, to finally scare them away.
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Quote by TanKinky
gets bored very easily would rather have a different one for every day of the week :giggle: might even double book :twisted:

Now she tells me!
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Quote by naughtynymphos1
Right, so you get free board and lodge and I get to cook for you and clear up after you for a week - sorry, if I wanted that I'd get a husband. I'd have to know someone very well before I could spend a week with them.
H.x

Same here. Also it's a safety risk, especially for ladies living on their own. Who knows what the guy could be capable of? :shock:
maybe if he got his own job and went out to work, did his own cooking and cleaning he wouldnt have time to doss about at other peoples houses for weeks at a time lol
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Quote by curvynjackb

It seems to me that there are 2 issues:
1) is it acceptable, having regard to Mosley being a "public" figure that he engages in sex acts of this nature?
2) Was Mosleys privacy breached?
I have to say that the answer to point 1 is that it isn't.
In relation to point 2 , i would have to say that his privacy WAS breached, but in a way, i'm glad it was.

1. why can't a 'public' figure engage in whatever sex acts they wish as long as all parties are consensual.
2. why are you glad his privacy was breached - what good has it done, does what he does affect you in any way, has it changed your life for the better or worse now knowing what he does?
curious as to why you believe this 'shocking' expose was a good thing?????

Good point curvynjackb!
Technically he hasn't done anything wrong, and it's all legal.
However we just seem to have this unrealistic idea of how public figures should behave, when really we should be more concerned about how well they do their jobs. Sadly tabloid newspapers make money by selling as many sex stories as they can, which seems to be what the paying public want to read. Maybe this is something to do with the sexually repressed nature of our society..
Personally I don't care about his sex life. I just don't like him.
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Quote by Peanut
Would you like to borrow my new glasses Peanut??
I must admit I did have to read it twice .... :shock:

Don't get me started on glasses. Two bloody years I've had these varifocals and I still can't get used to the bloody things. I can't use them on the computer as my screen is too big, have to crick my neck and ended up with a numb arm!
Bloody middle-age!!! evil
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I'm saying nothing …
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Quote by naughtynymphos1
not doing oral is fine so long as she don't expect men to do oral on her, personally i don't see any as being more personal than the other, i will suck cock and i'll do anal, so long as they not to big lol if i like it i like it and see them all on the same level.

This is a good point. Surely it's a question of personal preference, and whether one is receiving or giving, but there is also the aspect of sensation and which one is the greater.
The other issues of intimacy and eye contact while all true are only one side of the equation. Is it also possible that particular situations/locations can affect the preference? Or even whether role play or other scenarios are involved?
Quote by H-x
Right, so you get free board and lodge and I get to cook for you and clear up after you for a week - sorry, if I wanted that I'd get a husband. I'd have to know someone very well before I could spend a week with them.
H.x

Yup! Totally agree with you H-x, seems an odd request really. More fantasy than reality perhaps?
You may find an accountant of more use. You pay them for their time, and their job is purely to look at the numbers.
Financial advisors are really glorified sales people who specialize in financial services.
You can either look through your local yellow pages, or if possible by recommendation from someone who has used such a service.
Hope that helps.
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Best of luck Mike2mike.
I think you're right about the North having the monopoly on gorgeous, buxom women, but that's also because they seem to be more confident about themselves. Down South are some really gorgeous BBWs but they're more difficult to find and seem to be more discreet about they're activities. Oxford in particular is even more difficult unless you happen to know someone, who knows someone.
Oxford might be the place for intense activity but it's much more difficult to find. I think the real problem is not only finding the women but finding the ones who are 'up for it'. They do exist but you really have to do more intense research as they seem to be more hidden.
Hope you succeed in your search and I'd be very interested in your results. If there's anyway that I can be of help please feel free to PM me.
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Good job guys!!!
The image quality of the cams is very impressive, although would be nice to have larger images. However overall it's a vast improvement.
Well done to everyone involved!
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Quote by Playwithjack
Been a member for a little while and have lost the odd day in the chat rooms. In the main people are very nice, but some men are just idiots? Why?
Dont get me wrong i can fight my own battles, but the idiots make it harder for us to try and arrange a meet!!!
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Some women are idiots too! That's just life. In the vanilla world I've met more muppets than I can care to mention, so it's just people.
Anyway how does that stop you from arranging meets. Surely you just ignore the idiots since as you yourself have said "… In the main people are very nice, …". And how does this make it any different from the outside world?
Chocolate!!!!!!! :shock:
Yeeeeeeuuuuuuuuuuuck!
… gives me mygraine!
You're all sick, sick, sick!!!!! Whatever next Marmite covered chocolate bars!!!!!
… think me pills have worn off.
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Quote by Ukwineman
F1 is a world wide sport and as such it is shown in many countries that have very strict religious views on sex.
It was not so much the theme of the orgy, more based on the fact he is a married man and used prostitutes. A lot of Muslim and Catholic based countries are members of FIA even the Pope has a vote :shock:
As President he should be seen to clean to all the countries members. Personally I think he is to big for his boots now and very much in the pockets of Ferrari and should be replaced, but thats me.
I have no problem what he gets up to in his private life and bedroom and I don't think NOTW have any right to do these sorts of stings on peoples personal life. Its such a hypocrital paper, and the only good use for it is lighting the firepit rolleyes

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Max has done more to jeopardize the integrity of the sport than any "Stepneygate" could. The man is a hypocrite, his targeting of McLaren, which may have been an illegal judgement, and his bias towards Ferrari is well documented.
I really don't care what he does in private with consenting adults, it is time for him to go. He has harmed the sport more than anyone else.
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Hi Kay
Welcome to the site! I'm sorry you've had so many problems, but you haven't been with us very long have you?
Unfortunately SH is a victim of it's own success and every now and again there are problems, such as the ones you're experiencing. However most of the time things work just fine, and I know it can be frustrating when things go wrong, but be patient. There are many good people on this site and they'll try and fix it as quickly as they can.
Also don't forget all sites have occasional problems but SH is still one of the best sites out there. Personally I think it's the best, but I don't want to appear to be biased.
Have fun!
Quote by Bonedigger
Think of your bestest mate....not your partner, or a swinger....would you if circumstances presented themsleves, shag them or not?
Is it something you feel would alter the realtionship for the better....worse...or not change a thing??
Is it something you have done and wished you hadnt? Or something that you did and loved it so much you kept on doing it?

The thing is … have you?
… and did it/would it alter the relationship?
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