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Davinaukcd
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 71
0 miles · Lancashire
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Sexlightened
This is so addictive lol, 58 in the bag to date. Planning a bike ride in the Arnside area for Sunday to increase the tally.
Sexlightened
Go for it flower, it is brilliant fun. We started about 3 years ago and have had a fab time since. Classes are about £4 per hour here in Lancs, private lessons are much dearer but worth the money if you want something specific.
We have made lots of new friends and had some great weekends away through dancing.
We have made lots of new friends and had some great weekends away through dancing.
Sexlightened
Quote by wild rose and the stag
missy i see this as a quite simple problem and solution to your battling... first off it drives me nuts just like you when i go to asda or tescos late at night,, fifty cars on a car park big enough to fit a couple of thousand and all of them taking up the nearer to the doors spaces leaving those very attractive and empty disabled spaces. not one of the ten occupied...i could take one of those...but then so could all the rest of the fifty drivers on the car park, the fact that i will make little difference is irrelevent . i would make one hell of a difference if i set an example to all the other driver that night.. basicly if everyone had YOUR attitude it would be so shit for the disabled guy that turns up to get a last minute item in the rain with a bad heart and now fifty yards to walk to the door...
you make little difference on your own, but you set a standard , its the what if everyone else took advantage like you are doing, what makes you special and all that jazz that goes along with your actions..truth is nothing makes you special so do as the rest of us do and leave the spaces well alone for those that need them.
staggy
Spot on Staggy, well said. This is one of my pet hates and I would throw the book at anyone using disabled or parent/toddler spaces when they are not entitled to do so.
Sexlightened
Quote by Lost
I really like it when people come into a chatroom and say hi to everyone before addressing any specific member. Comes across as good manners to me.
Couldn't agree more Lost. I often enter with a "Hi room". It does irk me that I can enter a room of 70 members with a greeting and be completely ignored though. But it doesn't irk for long...life is too short lol.
Sexlightened
Quote by Unc
As someone who has never been a teacher, and never would be a teacher however much they were paid, I also support the NUT members who are striking.
You are not on your own there unc. I have worked with young people in a couple of my previous lives and it is a thankless task.
If negotitions between the teachers and their paymasters have run dry without finding some middle ground and the only recourse left available is to withdraw their services then they have my support too.
Sexlightened
I do happen to believe that honesty is important, and I also care about the site. I wouldn't have been here for several years if I didn't. Is it such an issue that I should feel oblidged morally or otherwise to apply my standards to complete strangers, I happen to think not. I prefer to spend my time on here having fun and a light hearted laugh, rather than pedantically pick holes in profiles.
Lost I'm not implying that, that is what you meant, I'm just trying to explain my point of view.
I was under the impression that profiles and adverts are vetted before becoming "public" and that the custodians of the site apply the rules where and when necessary, and I'm sure that they do.
Sexlightened
There will be St Georges day parades in several towns this weekend with marching bands and flags. I counted 12 "George" flags on my short journey to work this morning. We just seem to celebrate it quietly and not use it as an excuse for a piss up.
Sexlightened
But is it such an issue? Is it the role of a member to snitch on another member, or is it the role of admin etc to "police" the profiles. It doesn't bother me that someone would want to embelish their profile with a white lie about age or if someone who was once a couple and is now single doesn't want to fork out to change their profile or vice versa it is none of my business.
It I was deceived by a member then I would simply ignore them in future.
It I was deceived by a member then I would simply ignore them in future.
Sexlightened
Penny arrow bars.
Vimto lollies.
Peanut treets.
Opal fruits.
Spangles.
Midget gems.
Love hearts.
Vimto lollies.
Peanut treets.
Opal fruits.
Spangles.
Midget gems.
Love hearts.
Sexlightened
I see the damn roo is pissed again and talking crap lol.
Bagged my first cache, now planning hikes and bike rides to find more. Packing a baseball bat in my rucksac to ward of nosey kangaroos.
Bagged my first cache, now planning hikes and bike rides to find more. Packing a baseball bat in my rucksac to ward of nosey kangaroos.
Sexlightened
Missy, I am off to bag my first one this evening. Son is in Cyprus on hol so he's no help today lol.
The geocache web site shows lots near me.
Wilma..long time no see, welcome back. I remember a very drunken conversation yonks ago with you about setting up a Swinging Heaven branch of the W.I. lol.
Great to see you again. xx
The geocache web site shows lots near me.
Wilma..long time no see, welcome back. I remember a very drunken conversation yonks ago with you about setting up a Swinging Heaven branch of the W.I. lol.
Great to see you again. xx
Sexlightened
My son and his family are mad kean on it. They use ordanance survey map references to find their caches as they can't afford a gps yet. I'm thinking of having a go myself.
Sexlightened
Well done on your decision to join WW. Their plans do work if you stick at them and there is the added motivation of group meetings and weekly weigh ins. The WW site has lots of forums and you will get loads of support there.
Good luck
Good luck
Sexlightened
Hi, take a look at the weightwatchers web site. Lots of tips and low fat recipes.
Good luck with the weight loss
xx
Good luck with the weight loss
xx
Sexlightened
Joe, I would take guidance from one of the more helpful answers and suggest that if you are on cam and there is music playing in the background then it is OK and not an infringement of the AUP. However if you are behaving like a dj and taking requests etc then it is a no no.
Sexlightened
Excessive pressure can sometimes cause these seals to pass. I assume you isolated the water supply to change the ball-cock, did you turn it on the same amount when you had finished? Have you got increased pressure at your taps (more than before)? Just easing the pressure back slightly may solve the problem.
Good luck.
Good luck.
Sexlightened
I have heard they are running last year's ecu in malaysia, traction control and engine braking etc.
Mind you if it is a wet race should be interesting nonetheless
Mind you if it is a wet race should be interesting nonetheless
Sexlightened
No offence taken at all Jags, you are right I don't know your style I don't think we have ever exchanged views on anything, neither do you know mine or you wouldn't think that I have taken offence. As I said in text posts it is often difficult to determine the intent.
Despite being a member for quite some time I don't often post unless I think I have something to contribute to a topic, I prefer the live and immediate exchanges that you get in the chatrooms, however I do find the forum a source of information and entertainment so I will keep popping in from time to time.
Best wishes and take care.
Despite being a member for quite some time I don't often post unless I think I have something to contribute to a topic, I prefer the live and immediate exchanges that you get in the chatrooms, however I do find the forum a source of information and entertainment so I will keep popping in from time to time.
Best wishes and take care.
Sexlightened
Uk wineman puts it very well, from his point of view and I would agree mostly but I don't think it is a breach of trust either. Cyber sex is not real, it's like saying flirting is cheating or kissing someone else is cheating. Cheating in my book is when you go all out to decieve in a real life situation, fully aware of consequences etc. Now I'm not saying that cyber sex or flirting can't develop into something much more serious and dangerous and in a number of cases I'm sure it does, but in itself I dont regard it as cheating or betrayal just fun.
Sexlightened
Quote by Sgt Bilko
If it makes you feel good then go ahead Jags, my post was intended to be helpful.
...and Jags' post was in jest!
:? :?And you know that how? The trouble with text posts is that you cannot always convey the intent and many times peoples remarks are taken out of context. We know this because there is often a reply that says "only joking" or "lol" and the like.
I was asked a question and I gave an answer. You explain someone elses intent and I respond, hey now isn't that just what a forum is about.
Sexlightened
Can I get away with saying 'serves you right'???
If it makes you feel good then go ahead Jags, my post was intended to be helpful.
If it makes you feel good then go ahead Jags, my post was intended to be helpful.
Sexlightened
Beware anyone travelling here, the cams are working. Just got myself a fixed penalty for last Friday.
I deserved it so not moaning but if by posting others are warned then I'll be glad.
I deserved it so not moaning but if by posting others are warned then I'll be glad.
Sexlightened
It's Lancelot, just greyed out on me for no reason. People in Guinevere complaining too, lots of rooms but showing no-one in them.
Sexlightened
I think if everybody took the time to come in here and join in when they didn`t just want to moan the whole place would be run along lines that members prefered. And if your particular preference was not taken up you would be able to see the arguments that others had put up in favour of their own .. 
It's very rare I moan in here and I am quite able to accept that my preferences may not be the same as others and don't intend to gripe about it. I do reserve the right to have a preference and an opinion though and to be able to express them.
It's very rare I moan in here and I am quite able to accept that my preferences may not be the same as others and don't intend to gripe about it. I do reserve the right to have a preference and an opinion though and to be able to express them.
Sexlightened
Good answer, but did the members want more rooms or more capacity per room? My preference would have been for more per room.
